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... Send *hanib a private message | | | *hanib's profile:Ivr been seeing my bf for 6 mths, we are both in our forties. We both have kids from previous relationships. My oartners are grown up more or less.
I posted in may about meeting them for the first time. It didnt go as planned bc my bf had been upstairs unaware id arrived and i sat waiting for 45 miins. His daughter who is 21 just sat on her phone. I got the impression they couldnt of given a toss about meeting me.
In the 6 mth ive only met his fanily that once including his mum and sister. Where as he has met mine several times.
Hes every other weekends wuth his son stopped for 6 wks whilst he studied and in that time i felt alot of pressure from him to see him when my weekends with my kids were on he still tried to see me. I did include him which made me feel guilty i wasnt giving my kids all my time. He knew id got my kids and i had to tell him a fee times i was busy.
Whats annoyed me is that. He had a recent family get together for his sons birthday. His family including the daughtet were going to his. His son asked me along and i accepted. My bf didnt mention ne going instead saying hed catch up with me that evening. The evening got late and i gave up on him.
I got no sorry.
I felt hurt hed not included me as ive included him.
Ive not told him i was annoyed.
Im beginning to think that akthough he wants to be oart of my circle hes not making me part if his.
His friends want us to go away fir a few days euth them but he wont part with his money to go, says its too expensive but when his daughter says lets go somewhere he drops all and goes knowing full well hes got to pay.
Should i tell him what i think or should i give it more time to see what happens.
I wont stay with a guy that says he really likes me but doesnt want to move things firward. |
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