How can I come across as more approachable?
Q. I've never really had a relationship and recently asked a close guy friend what he thought night be the problem. Anyway after a while of him being really polite he said that sometimes when I'm on my own I have a look that is kinda distant and makes ...
A. 20 April 2011: Hello, Sometimes we cultivate this habits without realising. The key however is to always be aware of our body language as they speak volumes. I would suggest to always keep a smile on your face when alone as we tend to have this far away look in ... (read in full...)
I fall, they leave, am I too nice??
Q. Why does this ALWAYS happens to me? what is wrong with me:(? i really dont know what is wrong with me but every time i fall for a guy tends to leave me:( it always starts off so great, so sweet then he'd get distant and leave. am not a horri...
A. 14 April 2011: Firstly, have you ever considered that maybe it's not you, but the type of men you go for are unstable and not the right ones. So do address that negative perception that there is something wrong with you because that in itself is sufficient to ... (read in full...)
Husband has anger issues. How do I deal with this?
Q. Should I give my husband a second chance? We have been together for almost 11 years. My daughter was 7 when we met. He was very affectionate, and was very good with my daughter. The only thing I found out about him is that he has problems with ...
A. 9 April 2011: Firstly for the safety of yourself and the children, you need to take imminent action lest the situation gets worse and someone gets hurt. It is also important that he recognises this anger problem, till he does he is unlikely to do something ... (read in full...)
How can I get over someone I can never have?
Q. How can I get over someone I can never have when I have to see them once a week and they stare at me all the time? Sometimes he ignores me and acts quite rude to me. I don't do anything to provoke this right enough but then all of a sudden, when I ...
A. 7 April 2011: Hi, It could be infatuation which can be normal especially at your age. I don't deny having had a few myself. Especially when an older guy pays you attention. But you do have to be careful, people are not always what they seem, and you did mention ... (read in full...)
We used to like each other, I still like her but I don't know if she does. Help please?
Q. Well, I liked this girl... and still do and I knew she liked me. But, I don't know if she still likes me and we don't talk. The thing is that I am about to graduate and I didn't want to have to make her wait because I am going into rhe military. So, ...
A. 7 April 2011: Hi, It seems you are running out of time to say whats on your mind, so I suggest you use that as an incentive to get it out there. Time waits for no one ,and before you know it the moment will pass you by. Better for you to find out than spend th... (read in full...)
There's this boy and I want to know if he likes me...
Q. I sit next to my crush in a class. Recently we have been getting for friendly with each other and talking and joking around more. He also kind of teases me. Yesterday, he bent down next to me to pick up something and my fingers brushed his hair ...
A. 7 April 2011: Hi, Firstly, in terms of his reaction to you touching his hair, it seems to me he is embarrassed and thats usually a sign that he likes you. Sometimes boys don't express how they feel, so you can just tell by watching them. I suggest you continue... (read in full...)
Although I am not ready to have a GF, I still feel as if I am missing out on something important in life
Q. I dont like flirting around with girls, not because it is bad but because am not ready for it. i don't have a gf and don't need one now, but when i meet or see a girl especially with her bf, i feel i am missing a lot of things in life. my question ...
A. 7 April 2011: Hi, Being a young guy you are bound to have this feeling especially when you see couples. So if you feel as if you are missing out then you could put yourself out there more..you never know, might find someone you really like.. On the other hand... (read in full...)
Tips on getting over a breakup?
Q. [Mod Note: 2 Questions from the same poster have been merged into one] I'm a bit depressed over a recent breakup looking for the best tips to move on. I kind of have been talking to a few girls, is it ok if I'm not over my ex completely? Also, wha...
A. 29 March 2011: Hi, It is completely normal to feel this way and there are many people in the same boat as you, the key is how you deal with the break up. The best advice I can offer you is to re discover hobbies or things that you enjoy doing and in time your... (read in full...)
I know I need to break up with him, but how do I do this when I have my son to think about?
Q. so here is the situation. im 20 yrs and my boyfriend is 28 yrs old. he has a son with his ex and i have a son with my ex. we have been dating for 9 months and now im in the position where its too difficult. he blames me for a lot of the finances ...
A. 29 March 2011: Hi, Surely there is a limit to everything, it appears his behaviour robs you of your confidence and the longer you let him, the worse you will be. For the sake of your son, please do something. Is there a friend you can reach out for, someone ... (read in full...)
LDR GF does not reciprocate my feelings, but there is this close friend who...
Q. Hi. I've been in a LDR for about a year now. i love my gf and she loves me the same. recently i have found myself doing quite more "sweet and romantic" things more than her. its bothered me for a while and now i cant take it any more. i thought i ...
A. 29 March 2011: hi, Relationships are all about give and take and it appears that you believe you are putting in all the hard work. Also being a LDR it sometimes requires more effort. I would advice you to bring it up with her especially as it bothers you quite a ... (read in full...)
We argue all the time for no real reason! How do I deal with this so we don't end up breaking up?
Q. Im in a relationship with this guy I absolutely love. He is amazing but sometimes our relationship is just full of arguments and im not even sure why they all start. We both love each other so much but its beginning to look like it can come to a...
A. 29 March 2011: Hi, first things first, as much as being in a relationship can be wonderful, you need to maintain some independence. Realise that you are a wonderful person whom he should consider himself lucky to be with rather than feeling lost without him. You ... (read in full...)
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