I feel she's crossing the line of respect in our relationship
Q. Hey everyone, Im sure my subject line gives you all a good idea of what my post is about, but let me give a couple details. My gf and I have been together about a year and a half now and are living together now about 8 months. Our relationship...
A. 16 January 2009: Thank you all for you very concise replies. I appreciate them all. As you can probably tell, this relationship is very important to me, and if it wasn't I would not be trying to make amends with it.
I love this girl, more so than I thought ... (read in full...)
She's telling me things about her past in small doses..do I tell her just to spill it all ?
Q. This isn't a difficult story but it does take some explaining. I met a woman a little over a year ago. This was online, not in real life. We talked for about 6 weeks and decided to meet. Things went very well. From the start they did. We had much in ...
A. 13 January 2009: I feel for you, I really do. No one wants to imagine their lover in those terms, its not always a pleasant thought. However, we only have one life to live and if we waste it worrying about the past, we will never get to enjoy the future. What is ... (read in full...)
I believe I have retroactive jealousy. I cannot get over her past.
Q. I am 27 and my fiance is 25. We have only been engaged for about a month (been together for 2 years) We are also getting ready to go to Pre-Marital counseling with the pastor at our church. I have no children, she has 3 children, that I love dearly. ...
A. 8 January 2009: Im sorry to hear that. What you need to do, is put a stop to this right now if you want to save your relationship. She needs to know that you will not continually throw this in her face. She needs to feel that when you look at her, you see her for ... (read in full...)
I believe I have retroactive jealousy. I cannot get over her past.
Q. I am 27 and my fiance is 25. We have only been engaged for about a month (been together for 2 years) We are also getting ready to go to Pre-Marital counseling with the pastor at our church. I have no children, she has 3 children, that I love dearly. ...
A. 8 January 2009: I have been dealing with this issue for a long time. Some days are good, some are bad. When they are good, they are really good, but when they are bad they are really bad.
On good days, I think, how could I have been so foolish as to ever think that... (read in full...)
How to get guys to see I'm not promiscuous.
Q. Okay, so I've just started going out on the gay scene a lot. During this time I've made a few observations. Gay clubs are not the best place to find a potential partner. Namely, because many people there are either looking for a hook-up or just out ...
A. 2 January 2009: I would have to say that the majority of people you will meet at gay and non gay bars are typically not people who you will find meaningful relationships with. Im not saying that you wont find good people there, but even good people are not always ... (read in full...)
Should I have kept quiet about the one night stand?
Q. My girlfriend asked me the other day if i'd ever had a one night stand the other day and i admitted that i had thinking that teeling the truth is always the best (and not thinking very much at all as well - it just came out). She siad she didnt ...
A. 2 January 2009: Hey friend, let me just start by saying that questions like this are very situational, and should always be answered with the utmost caution. Any questions related to sexual history that is not with the partner asking is always tricky grounds.
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My wife will not forgive and forget an event from 22 years ago!
Q. I have been married for 20 years and have two kids 11+14. We have been faithful to each other throughout and have worked hard at the ups and downs of marriage. I want more physical stuff My wife wants more emotional stuff We both find ...
A. 31 December 2008: Well, something seems off... It's not common that people hold a grudge of this sort for over 20 years. I might be going out on a limb here, but it would almost seem as if there is something else troubling her, and this is her escape route. 20 years ... (read in full...)
My 12 year old is masturbating and I don't know how to react.
Q. hi im a lil worried about my daughter, she's only 12 and she masturbates a lot, she does it everyday maybe more than once, she hasn't got her period yet. how can i make sure she doesn't hurt herself? should i stop her or face her? how should i rea...
A. 6 November 2008: Dont you know that masturbation will make you go blind, your palms grow hair, and make you walk bow-legged... Masturbation is the worse thing you can do to yourself besides smoke a fat crack rock...
But in all seriousness, the only negative... (read in full...)
Is he being unfaithful after 6 years? I know he's been on gay dating sites!
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 years. I was surfing the internet this morning on our computer, when I came across something which really upset me. The computer is a new one and I've never notice before but it has a...
A. 5 November 2008: Let me get this right? Your freaking out because he searched for a gay dating site specifically by name? I mean, there could be so many different reasons. He might have heard an add about it on the radio or something, making fun of it or something ... (read in full...)
Why is sex so important to men?
Q. Why do men love sex so much? And dont try to tell me that women love it just as much. I mean sure if feels great to have that connection with someone is amazing but we dont think about it 24 hours a day and dont lie or say anything just to get laid. ...
A. 29 October 2008: Im a man, and I dont think about sex 24/7. Im a man, and I dont like strip clubs because they objectify women and degrade them. Im a man, and I would never sleep with a prostitute... ever... Im a man, and I do masturbate, frequently, so what? ... (read in full...)
I think my wife has cheated with someone else and had sex but she insists it was only a kiss!
Q. I need some advice please. I am a stay at home dad.we have 2 kids that are 1 and 2 years old. I started noticing my wife acting different about 4 months ago. She had this glow about her. She was also buying new braws ans panties all the time.she ...
A. 28 October 2008: Hey man, she does not want to talk about it because she wants to ignore it, hide what she has done, and thinks hopefully you will just accept it... I guess that part is up to you. She cheated on you, sex or no sex. She is probably putting out so ... (read in full...)
I feel so completely insecure sexually with her now, and suspicious of her reasons of being with me.
Q. Dear everyone. I think I am at a about to end my relationship with my girlfriend, but I really wish I could just get over this problem instead. I have become uncontrollably jealous and insecure in this relationship and regardless of what it takes, ...
A. 27 October 2008: Hello all thanks for the post. To note, she did go to counseling and has worked herself out of a lot of her issues. She told me she went through a deep depression, and has since worked it out.
The only drugs she does now is smoke weed and drink. T... (read in full...)
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