Can't be with the one I love because of the kids. What do I do?
Q. I need some major help here. I have been with my husband since I was 13 and married for 15 years. I analyze why because I love him but never felt what I should. I had a rough childchood and clung to him. He is great but we are so different and I ...
A. 9 December 2010: I know how this feels, really. The best thing to do, though, honestly, is that since you have made a comittment to your husband and he has made a comittment to his wife,is to think about what would be different with this man? How would you feel if ... (read in full...)
How can I attract a guy at a college party and be more sociable?
Q. I am a 19 year old girl in college. I enjoy hanging out with friends, trying new things, participating in clubs, but my question is about the party scene. I enjoy going to parties- dancing, drinking, hanging out, etc. However, I always hear stories ...
A. 6 December 2010: you seem like a very nice person. That is great that your friends have funny stories but maybe that is just not you. Stop comparing yourself to everyone else. You are in college now and I know that partying is a big thing but it is not the only ... (read in full...)
Why can't I keep eye contact with girls?
Q. Ok, so for the first and second quarter of school ive been taking public speaking and one of the big things in that class is obviously eye contact. And i seemed to have noticed a problem that ive never realized before taking this class and im ...
A. 5 December 2010: I should explained more about the shy/timid part. I am not normally shy and timid unless somebody invades my bubble: standing too close, putting a hand on my shoulder, or popping my bubble with their laser eyes:) Idk, its maybe more of a trust issue ... (read in full...)
Should I visit his exes with him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together two-three years...depending on who you ask.he says three,i say two and a half.we have pretty good relationship,except for one thing that doesn't have much to do with him.i'm extremely insecure and jealous.what ...
A. 3 December 2010: Wow. Sounds like your boyfriend has had some real winners in the past. If he offered for you to come along, take it. You need be there with him if he wants you to be, and if he is worried that one of the girls would actually physically attack you, ... (read in full...)
Why can't I keep eye contact with girls?
Q. Ok, so for the first and second quarter of school ive been taking public speaking and one of the big things in that class is obviously eye contact. And i seemed to have noticed a problem that ive never realized before taking this class and im ...
A. 3 December 2010: I had this same problem with boys when I was the exact same age. I had a bit of a boundary issue I think. If I looked at the boy's eyes I found myself scared because I was uncomfortable with myself. I was a bit shy and timid, but there is nothing ... (read in full...)
Would you consider his magic number high for his age?
Q. Is 22 sexual partners for a 27 year old male a lot?...
A. 2 December 2010: It really depends. There is no right answer. I know alot of 22-26 year old men whose number are 20 times higher than that! Some men/women will sleep with anybody and some men/women are more reserved. Why do you ask?... (read in full...)
Not ready to let loose sexually with him, but I want to keep him interested
Q. Hey, I'd appreciate some advice. I've been exclusively dating my bf for 3 months. He is an amazing kisser and great in bed. He has lots of stamina, though, and sometimes seems to kinda hold himself back from orgasming. So the other night, h...
A. 30 November 2010: wow, I hate it when guys say that their ex's did this and that. It makes us women feel like we have to live up to what he has already had. First of all, he should respect you enough to ask you if you feel comfortable with him buying you a toy, not ... (read in full...)
My friend's boyfriend has asked me out... help!
Q. Hi everyone, I have another problem similar to my last question. My friend's (same friend from before) boyfriend asked me out and i don't want to tell her because it will break her heart. But I am scared if I don't she will get more hurt and blame ...
A. 27 November 2010: honesty is always the best answer: what would you do if you were in her shoes? just tell her that you love her and that he asked you out and if she doesn't believe you then are you really friends? Trust is number one in any relationship: even ... (read in full...)
Can someone explain to me why guys would literally have sex with anyone?
Q. [MOD NOTE] 2 questions combined. can some guys (girls welcome too of course) explain to me how is it that alot of guys would literately have sex with any one. alot of guys can literately be walked up to, and if us girls wanted to, we could have sex...
A. 27 November 2010: I am not saying that all men are like that, but for every 10 men that I meet, there are about half of them that would have sex with any girl upon asking. Some men just like sex, it is true. You can find almost always find something appealing about a ... (read in full...)
We love each other but he won't commit!
Q. I met a boy during the summer of 2009 and there was an immediate attraction that was not something I usually feel with anyone. But he has some sort of obsession with girls.. for instance, he'll go places just to meet them and then see if he can take ...
A. 27 November 2010: hold back. play hard to get. by doing this you will see if he really wants you. tell him you will be there when he decides he wants a relationship but until then you shouldn't have sex with him, you shouldn't cry over him. life takes time and it ... (read in full...)
Can someone explain to me why guys would literally have sex with anyone?
Q. [MOD NOTE] 2 questions combined. can some guys (girls welcome too of course) explain to me how is it that alot of guys would literately have sex with any one. alot of guys can literately be walked up to, and if us girls wanted to, we could have sex...
A. 27 November 2010: I think I can answer this question for you. Besides insecurity, there are a couple of other very logical reasons. When a guy wants to look like he isn't sensitive when, in fact, they are very sensitive, he will tell a woman that he doesn't care just ... (read in full...)
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