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... Send *USTUPID a private message | | | *USTUPID's profile:I wasted a lot time in unhappy abusive relationships. LIFE IS TOO SHORT to be unhappy. Now I am in a relationship that is everything that I ever dreamed. You can not let your gentials and your emotions rule your head if you want happiness you have to be smart. Dont get caught up on all the small things that you like about a person and allow someone to put you in a position where you are not happy. LIFE IS SHORT LIVE IT HAPPY!! If the person that you are with is not making you happy then move on untill you find that one person that will do what ever it takes to see you happy. No man or woman is perfect the key is being happy with your life and the people in your life. |
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A drunken one-night stand is weighing heavily on my conscience
Q. hey. I need help. Big time. No matter what you think of me because of what I've done, please help. Thanks. My girlfriend and I have been going strong for quite some time now.. nearly 2 years.. The last time I got totally drunk was at a friend's ...
A. 23 July 2007: Let your guilt be a lesson to you.. it is punishment enough what she doesnt know wont hurt her at this point you should just keep it to yourself.. or the thread will be cut. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want anyone to know about our relationship! If they do find out, he lies! What should I do?
Q. 22/7/07 I'm 16, my boyfriend says he loves me, wants it to last forever, wnats to marry me, this is all in texts! When i talk to him or see him, he never says it unless we're physical he'll say i love you.. but not in the way i want to hear i...
A. 23 July 2007: The question is... DOES HE LOVE YOU -OR- LOVE HAVING SEX WITH U? either he really likes you and is ashamed of what his friends think of you or he just likes having sex with you...and will do what ever it takes to continue having sex with you.. w... (read in full...)
How do I end my online relationship?
Q. ano this proberly sounds stupid but i have an online gf and i want to end it because i think we have got to serious, how do i tell her? plz help ...
A. 23 July 2007: SHE IS AN ONLINE GF.. you dont have to see her.. she is not calling you.. you dont work together.. move on.. if the relationship has gotten to a point where it is too much for you .. say so.. and move on.. let it go.. its not hard..?... (read in full...)
Want to experience other people now, but i have a boyfriend.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months we lost our virginity together but now i feel like i want to experience other people but i don't want to end my relationship please help!!!...
A. 23 July 2007: You are being selfish.. if you want to experince other people then you need to move on.. dont break someones heart because now you want to do other things. You need to be honest with him. Let him know that you want to see other people.... (read in full...)
We are in a lond distance relationship, but i think he talks to others.
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. But, I susspect that he talks to other girls on the phone when he is not talking to me. I also think that he is interchanging text, message too. Which I think is very disrespe...
A. 23 July 2007: In a long distance relationship there is nothing you can do.. he is too far for you to do anything about it. you just have to live your own life where you are and what ever happens with him happens.. it is just one of those things. Dont set your ... (read in full...)
How can I make my relationship what it used to be?
Q. my boy friend and i have been together for 8 months now but there was a time when he broke up with me because we couldnt see each other. after 2 days we got back 2 gether. but when we started seeing each other again it wasn't the same. i asked him ...
A. 23 July 2007: 2 days shouln't make a difference in your relationship. what was he doing for 2 days that made things soo differnt?... (read in full...)
I blocked contact with her for 4 months; now I want to be friends again and she's not interested, what can I do?
Q. hey, i blocked contact from a close friend about 4 months ago and just recently unblocked her a couple of weeks ago. she doesnt like me anymore and doesnt want to be friends. ive wrote her poems and such .but no luck. i realy like this person alot ...
A. 23 July 2007: If you liked her soo much why did you block her out? What was the point in that?... (read in full...)
He said he wanted a commitment with me, then he didn't want to know; he's since been very nasty to me and I've no idea why
Q. Hi, I was in a relationship with a guy for two years and we discussed commitment and seemed very happy. As soon as we discussed commitment he said he saw a future for us, kept saying he loved me and then out of the blue seemed to freak out and le...
A. 23 July 2007: of course you cant turn your feelings on and off like a faucet. It is hard to get over someone you were with for 2 years but you are going to have to cause he has. He just doesnt care. You cant make him and you will never figure it out. It is time ... (read in full...)
I worry what my boyfriend is doing when I'm not with him
Q. is it silly to worry what my guy would be doing if he isn't checking his phone? il ring and he'll pick up..i just sit there waiting for him to text thinking he may be in trouble is he hurt or is he up to something..i perfectly trust him and when i ...
A. 23 July 2007: You are crazy! LIFE IS TOO SHORT to be sitting around wondering what some boy is doing. Get a life. If you keep being stupid then and doing those stupid things you will be wondering what he is doing with his new girlfriend.... (read in full...)
I'm basically having to choose between my sister and my ex, whom I still want to be with; am I wrong to feel like this isn't fair?
Q. iv been split up with my ex fiance for nearly 2 month now. but hes suddenly arrived back on the scene asking if he can see me and stuff, which i have agreed to as only friends, even thou deep down i want more. he has told me his life has went do...
A. 23 July 2007: It is hard to know why your sister is being controlling unless we know her reasons for not liking him. If he is on drugs or a loser i wouldnt feel she is controlling. She just may feel that you can do better than him. There is probably a reason for ... (read in full...)
After 2 failed marriages I'm seeing a woman I love but we fight all the time; is this relationship worth the pain?
Q. I have so many questions I need help with. I am 47 been married twice with children, now have a child and stepson although we are not married with another woman. I love this woman more than I think I have ever loved anyone else. I seem to be in a ...
A. 23 July 2007: No. It is not worth the pain if counsling didnt work then you need to move on. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE UNHAPPY. ... (read in full...)
My husband has spent the past 7 years using prostitutes; how can I ever trust him again?
Q. I have been married for 10 years and have 2 small children. I thought I had a good marriage and very loving relationship. Last week I found out My husband has been seeing prostitutes for the past 7 years. He first denied it but eventually confessed. ...
A. 23 July 2007: No. You can not trust him he has been with prositutes for the most part of your marrage. If you feel you cant trust him ...then you cant. You said you feel empty (because it is empty). He maybe sorry but, he obviously has a problem that has nothing ... (read in full...)
Will my lover ever leave his wife and his unhappy marriage?
Q. 13 years ago, I met the love of my life and I have never fallen out of love with him. I got married and had a child and just this year, my one true love, whom I have seen in passing throughout the years, reentered my life. We met for lunch and we ...
A. 23 July 2007: Now that you are single you and happy enjoy that. Live your life dont sit around pondering on if he will leave his wife.. I have known plenty of women waste years "waiting for him to leave his wife." LIFE IS TOO SHORT to be wating around for a man! ... (read in full...)
He takes me for granted and won't put more into our relationship; I love him but I also want to leave
Q. I have this very handsome boyfriend who is not sweet, lazy, dependent, doesn't give into the relationship. We are together for 4.5 years and I've been cooking and also washing dishes at least 3~4 nites a week. We are both working and I get very ...
A. 23 July 2007: Life is too short to sit around in a relationship that you are not happy with. There are more guys in the world that wont lie to you. Start moving on.. and once he see that you are soo over being his maid he will either get his act together or you ... (read in full...)
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