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Will it get easier, will I get over him?

Q.   Hi im feeling very confused right now, I finished with my ex, my daughter's dad 2 and half years ago, over his lies and drink problem, he finally sorted himself out etc and he sees our daughter every other weekend, I have been filled with anger ...

A.   5 July 2014: No defo not jealous! Iv dated tons and if anything I feel very sorry for her! She's a nice lady but way too needy for her own good. I'm very strong if I wasn't I'd be with any tom, dick or harry. ... (read in full...)

Will it get easier, will I get over him?

Q.   Hi im feeling very confused right now, I finished with my ex, my daughter's dad 2 and half years ago, over his lies and drink problem, he finally sorted himself out etc and he sees our daughter every other weekend, I have been filled with anger ...

A.   5 July 2014: Yes brokenv u could be right, but after the first time leaving him and having to go through every other wknd with my daughter crying for her dad I think it would mess her up if it didn't work again. I have dated and my daughter has never met anyone ... (read in full...)

Met a great guy but he's 20 years older and a "happy single". What should I do?

Q.   Hi. I met this man online. I knew he was older than me (51yrs old, I'm 31) but and we became friends, we met up yesterday the first time and we went for a meal and I had a great time, and something else happened I realised I liked him more than ...

A.   13 January 2013: Thanks everyone for ur replies! Yes I have to agree I think he needs encouragment too, he says stuff like past his sell by date lol bless him but he's a young 51! I honestly don't think he's after sex, believe me he is a gentleman and li... (read in full...)

How do I get past caring for my ex?

Q.   Hi me and my ex has been split for 7 n half months. I left him due tks his drinking problems basically i just had enough of the lies and bein let down all time. We have a daughter together and i have started dating. Thing is i still care about my ...

A.   16 June 2012: I just want to say a massive thank you to all who replied! Seriously u don't no how much u have helped. I no i did the right thing i just hope one day my ex does too... (read in full...)

Recovering alcoholic ex wants me back

Q.   hi. i was with my ex for just over four years, we have a daughter together. we have been split up for nearly 7 months. he is a recovering alcoholic, and he is desperate to get back with me, thing is im scared wot if we get back together and he s...

A.   23 May 2012: thank you for replies! tbh four years with him was hard enough, no thankfully he was never abusive but i still had to put up with lies and not just about drink. its only when i left him i found out about the.amount of debt we was in as he always hid ... (read in full...)

Is it too soon to start thinking long term?

Q.   hi. i been single for 6 n half months, split with my ex of four yrs after i had enough of his alcohol problems and lies! been on a few dates and wasn't impressed, but the moment i decided to give up on dating i meet this wonderful man! i feel so ...

A.   14 May 2012: nope i can honestly say i never felt that about my ex! but thanks for ur advice and honesty! ... (read in full...)

What if I will never be happy??

Q.   Hi. I have recently come out of a 4 yr relationship with my ex bf, I Left him 3 weeks ago, staying at parents at mo. We have a daughter together. The reason I left, his an alcoholic, he has been fighting these demons for a long time. I simply j...

A.   8 December 2011: Hi thankyou for your Very honest and kind advice. Much appreciated I know what I have to do, which is be there for my daughter and look after us both! ... (read in full...)

Am I right in leaving this mess of a man? Or should I stand by him?

Q.   Hi. I have separated from my bf of four years, the father of our child. He has a drinking problem, and he has lied to me so much since we been together. He also was sacked from his job last week. He was getting help, but gave up twice coz he tho...

A.   20 November 2011: Thanx for the advice! He is very messed up, im just fed up with him letting me down It's going to be hard as im so used to brushing it all aside ... (read in full...)

Have I done the right thing?

Q.   Hi. Been in my relationship with bf for 4yrs we have a daughter together thing is since the start of r/ship he has lied about certain things, he has an alcohol problem so he has lied about drinking. For some time I thought he was t-total! I told him ...

A.   31 October 2011: Well he used to drink all the time, even sometimes in the morning. He did attend aa for a while but gave up as he thought he could help himself. Since then I found once before about him drinking behind my back and lying to my face about it. I told ... (read in full...)

Have I done the right thing?

Q.   Hi. Been in my relationship with bf for 4yrs we have a daughter together thing is since the start of r/ship he has lied about certain things, he has an alcohol problem so he has lied about drinking. For some time I thought he was t-total! I told him ...

A.   31 October 2011: Well no he used to drink all the time even in the morning when he woke up. But he did go aa for a bit and said he can help himself fair enough he got better but like I said he had lied a lot b4 and finding out his drinking again just worries me he ... (read in full...)

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