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female
age
41-50,
*ock chic
writes:hi. i been single for 6 n half months, split with my ex of four yrs after i had enough of his alcohol problems and lies! been on a few dates and wasn't impressed, but the moment i decided to give up on dating i meet this wonderful man! i feel so connected with him and his everything iv ever wanted! but!! is it too soon to be thinkin long term with this guy? and im worried wot if i let him go and i never find another one like him?! i have never met anyone who i have so.much in common with and he ticks all my boxes! that never happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2012): I passed the same situation...I gave up dating..when I met the "perfect"..that is what I thought... Everything was soo incredible...magical...we could talk for hours..going out...dance..movies...sex..etc etc etc...I thought for real that guy was the one..but one day out of th blue I started to find out things that I didnt see before of course..Kind the things that you know inside wont change..never ever...
I will be soo happy if he is really the one for you..
But for now just enjoy the moments...Is very sad and a heartbreak when you see the reality...I felt like an apple falling...
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reader, Rock chic +, writes (14 May 2012):
Rock chic is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnope i can honestly say i never felt that about my ex! but thanks for ur advice and honesty!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2012): *don't want
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2012): "im worried wot if i let him go and i never find another one like him?!"
I bet you stayed so long with your ex for the same reasons.
OP yes it is too early. Just relax and enjoy dating him. Can you honestly say after all your dating experience and knowledge that you really know this guy well enough to make the conclusions you have made? No, you hardly know him. Everything is lovely and shiny at the moment but who knows what you'll find out about him as you get to know him.
Try not to let emotions cloud your judgement here, plus you want to seem to desperate and clingy.
Forget the future and enjoy the now. Reserve judgement on this guy until you really know him.
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