How do I deal with these bad boys?
Q. at school normally im seen as the good girl. im the quiet one. the clever one. the one that never does anything bad. never been drunk. dont have sex. saying that.....never had a boyfriend.... my problem is, i've fallen hard for a bad boy. i have ...
A. 5 March 2010: You are clever, yes? Well that is good. You don't have sex, well that is good too - you are too young. You do not however talk about your will power and strength of character, and that worries me.
I have no idea just how 'bad' these boys are, and ... (read in full...)
This crush on my boss...
Q. I have a crush on my boss. She's around my age, and as far as I know, she's not currently in a relationship. She has a lot of the same interests as I do, and she seems like a really nice person. She's also not that high up on the management ladder ...
A. 5 March 2010: I have a critisism to make of you, and it is that you have created a very neat catch 22 situation that means you are justified in avoiding the difficult step of making the first move. You need some familiarity to ask a girl on a date, but A DATE is ... (read in full...)
Help!!! I don't know what to do about him any more... any ideas?
Q. We met about 2 years ago i was 17 and he was 25, we dated 4 over a year, we loved each other a lot, we broke up about 6 months ago he said he wasnt happy with me but we was still hanging out and having sex, he wanted 2 be friends even though i didnt ...
A. 5 March 2010: My idea - never see this man ever again in your whole life, and warn everyone you care about to stay well away from him. If you have any trouble following that advise, then ask for some more help. This kind is the kind of behaviour of a purely c... (read in full...)
After 5 years, when do you give up or keep working?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 5years. During these 5years we have broken up twice, for at the most 2months, but we never saw other people. Our main problem and pretty much only problem is my jealousy! He has put up with a lot from me over ...
A. 5 March 2010: It sounds clear to me that YOU are not ready to give up yet, and so don't. He has been very honest with you and he probably knew that it would painful for you to hear that he has doubts, and so would not have been an easy thing to do. If you have a ... (read in full...)
He is nasty and vindictive and uses our son as a weapon
Q. Hi there. I was wondering if anyone could help? 10 years ago, my life was great. I was studying to be a lawyer, I had bought my own house, I had great friends and was pretty happy. Some friends were working overseas and I decided it would be fun ...
A. 5 March 2010: You have some good advise, and It sounds like you have already benifitted from opening up and asking for help. I have another angle on this that I bet you have never considered, and I could certainly be way off the money when I say this. If you ... (read in full...)
I like a guy 2 years younger than I. What should I do?
Q. dear cupid, this guy is almost two years younger than me. evryone who knows us says he likes me, i know i like him, what should i do?...
A. 3 March 2010: I totally agree with puzzlesolver.
If you are worried about this age gap then DON'T BE! There is nothing wrong with being with this guy if you like eachother. Being in a new relationship can be the most wonderful experience; whatever you do don'... (read in full...)
How do I deal with getting over the relationship part and switch back to friend mode?
Q. Alright... So my bf (sorta) and i just got out of a really big argument... We are long distance I had cheated, but believe me i have learned my lesson.. and i realize how much he means to me.. i would never ever cheat again.. it was the first time i ...
A. 2 March 2010: You should tell the truth about how you feel but you need to be prepared for and accept what ever response you get.
It is sad that you discovered your true feelings after the affair, and as you say, it is a lesson learned, but frankly, he cann... (read in full...)
I'm not getting any younger, and I want a chance at happiness. Would it be selfish to leave my partner?
Q. I have two young boys with my partner of ten years. It seems that most of those years have been a series of mounting stresses. My partner has always had difficulty with intemacy; relating to some abuse experienced as a child, but I have always had a ...
A. 2 March 2010: Thankyou CaringGuy, you have come to a very similar conclusion I had myself, your answer has given me some strength to carry on.
As for anonomous female, are you sure you should be sharing your opinions? They strike me as quite dangerously misc... (read in full...)
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