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How long do I wait for her?
Q. Ok, so ive known this girl for 3 years, and ive really been into her the whole time. However after I had known her for a couple months she moved to California, and came back this year. We began talking alot, and i asked her to Prom. We went to ...
A. 18 May 2009: I just got out of this situation. The best thing to do is be patient. Give her the space she needs. If she is sincere with what she says. Some people grive longer and she probably feels it not to be fair to you because she still has some feelings ... (read in full...)
Any men willing to share their views on platonic friendship?
Q. Thanks for reading this - this is a rather open-ended question. Without going into the details of my situation, I was wondering what attitude men have towards being platonic friends with women. I have a new-ish straight male friend who is si...
A. 18 May 2009: I think it really depends on how you met and the situations in which you interact with each other. I have had platonic relationships with women and it was successful but I have also been in a situation that was platonic but I wanted more. It all ... (read in full...)
What to make of this madness?
Q. I was recently a part of a indirect matchmaking. A great friend of mine introduced me to her friend. It was kind of awkward because there was a lot of pressure from friends for us to be together and to advance faster than both of us were ready. We ...
A. 14 April 2009: Any help out there?... (read in full...)
I can't deal with being single. Do I need professional help?
Q. Hi. I guess quite a few of you know me by now, but I'm asking for help tonight because I think I'm going a little crazy. I really can't deal with single life. I feel like I'm doing something wrong, and I'm some how not like other guys who seem to ...
A. 13 April 2009: I feel the EXACT same way. It is extremely tough. Take this time to develop and to get to know yourself. I am very unlucky too. I always do the right thing and am chivalrous with women but it never works out. The jerks get all the girls and all the ... (read in full...)
Do I give him a second chance?
Q. I dated my b/f for 3 years before becoming pregnant. We got into a huge fight and broke up 3 months ago, 3 weeks later my son was born and he didn't show up for the birth. He showed up on Easter Sunday telling me he loves me and we ended up sleep...
A. 13 April 2009: My dad never came back. Maybe he just needed to work it out. It was childish but atleast he did it. Respect him for coming back if his intentions are good. There is a lot of pressure to be a good father and you know he feels it. Take it slow slow ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to younger teens... is this sick?
Q. Hello, I'm 18 and I'm from the UK. I've suddenly become attracted to younger teens, 13+. Is this normal? I'm scared because I don't want to turn into a paedophile, do I need to seek further advice for this? Has anyone else gone through the same ...
A. 13 April 2009: DO NOT ASK HER OUT. SOmetimes you have to hide those thoughts and feelings. It is not sick because everyone has thoughts or has had thoughts not typical of them. Try to fight the urge and avoid the situation. That is not acceptable in any scenario. ... (read in full...)
But I love her and want to be sexually with her. How can I make her understand that?
Q. When I was 17 I was living a wild life, drinking, drugs and lots of sex. After my parents kicked me out I moved in with my uncle, got into a good drug program and joined a church group and took a purity pledge. I have dated girls since but never ...
A. 13 April 2009: Make her feel beautiful make her feel special. Explain to her that its not necessarily marriage but more of the commitment that comes with marriage. Let her know that you hold sex sacred and with the right person you would love to explore it. IF you ... (read in full...)
I used my best friend's sister for sex and now she's pregnant! What do I do now?
Q. I started messing around with my best friend's little sister, and now she is pregnant. I have been friends with the guy since elementary school and I have a girlfriend who is always in college. I LOVE my g/f and planned on asking her to marry me...
A. 13 April 2009: First off you are young. True Love only wants to have sex with that person. I am in love with my ex-girlfriend and cant even look at another girl. You need to be honest with your gf asap. Honesty will help you save whatever possible but lies always ... (read in full...)
All these questions are rattling around in my head...
Q. Why do you think people are so unwilling to come to terms that things are not the way they were? Why does not having that person in your life hurt so much ? Why is it that some people need to hurt other people and then go to others saying the...
A. 13 April 2009: 1. Comfortability. Sometimes connections last longer for others. Be patient with the person to get accustomed.
2. Because your scared that it may never happen again or because your disappointed that it didnt work the way you wanted.
3.They are cowa... (read in full...)
I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity.
Q. I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity. My mates go on about sex all the time. They say how good it is and how much they enjoy it. When I'm thinking about loosing my virginity I feel confident but when I nearly did it with ...
A. 13 April 2009: Dont do it because you want to lose your virginity. Do it because you deeply care for someone and want to share something special with them. People throw around sex casually and it is a very sacred thing. I promise with all my heart that you will ... (read in full...)
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