Our 1 year wedding anniversary went unmentioned. Does this mean we have a bad marriage??
Q. Wondering if this means we have a bad marriage..Although I feel we have a decent marriage. We have a 6 month old and a 17 month old. I stay home, he works. He likes his job and it is not stressful for him. Well, yesterday was our 1 year wedding ...
A. 16 September 2008: I am so sorry he did that to you. This stuff can be so confusing at times - but my husband of 18 years does the same thing, as do many of my friends' husbands. It is an awful feeling. In my situation I, for some reason, think he should have some ... (read in full...)
Are these the real red flags that he is going to cheat?
Q. Okay - same old sad story - but here it goes. My husband and I have been together for 21 years. We were high school sweethearts. We have good morals, but we aren't prudes if you know what I mean. We have two daughters and I work from home most of ...
A. 15 September 2008: Ginalolabridga and ChiRaven thank you both for the solid insights about the company phone. I was starting to feel like I was treading on thin ice with that because I am so ignorant about how his company handles this stuff. When I was working I had a ... (read in full...)
Are these the real red flags that he is going to cheat?
Q. Okay - same old sad story - but here it goes. My husband and I have been together for 21 years. We were high school sweethearts. We have good morals, but we aren't prudes if you know what I mean. We have two daughters and I work from home most of ...
A. 11 September 2008: No doubt I am making myself nuts over this. I so appreciate all the recent posts. I too realized after I made the call to HER that really, the call did nothing for my sense of security. She could care less about me and what would she have to gain by ... (read in full...)
Are these the real red flags that he is going to cheat?
Q. Okay - same old sad story - but here it goes. My husband and I have been together for 21 years. We were high school sweethearts. We have good morals, but we aren't prudes if you know what I mean. We have two daughters and I work from home most of ...
A. 10 September 2008: Okay - this is going to be my last post. I did it -- I made the phone call to HER this morning. I apologized for bothering her at work and asked her if she would have some time to talk to me. She said, is it serious, if so she would make time now. I ... (read in full...)
Are these the real red flags that he is going to cheat?
Q. Okay - same old sad story - but here it goes. My husband and I have been together for 21 years. We were high school sweethearts. We have good morals, but we aren't prudes if you know what I mean. We have two daughters and I work from home most of ...
A. 10 September 2008: Hi again. Last night I had a bottle of wine with dinner (after we put the kids together) and I lost it - complete breakdown - in front of him. This is not the first time I have come to him crying my eyes out wanting to know the Truth - capital T, ... (read in full...)
I have fallen in love with my married boss and now I'm expecting his child!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been having a sexual relationship with my married boss on and off since January, we have always been very close and sexually compatible (we slept together briefly 2 years ago but it was purely a lust thing) but very recently th...
A. 9 September 2008: Wow - I feel so sorry for that baby. You have some major issues - you can't control yourself sexually, you have no integrity - cheating on your partner AND being a homewrecker at the same time - yikes! None of this sounds like love to me - you ... (read in full...)
Are these the real red flags that he is going to cheat?
Q. Okay - same old sad story - but here it goes. My husband and I have been together for 21 years. We were high school sweethearts. We have good morals, but we aren't prudes if you know what I mean. We have two daughters and I work from home most of ...
A. 9 September 2008: Oh - and here's another comment. I told him for what we spent on the eliptical, we could've had several sessions of marriage counseling. He kind of snorted and said the only counseling we need is a weekend away. I just don't think that a weekend of ... (read in full...)
Are these the real red flags that he is going to cheat?
Q. Okay - same old sad story - but here it goes. My husband and I have been together for 21 years. We were high school sweethearts. We have good morals, but we aren't prudes if you know what I mean. We have two daughters and I work from home most of ...
A. 9 September 2008: Hi - just wanted to do an update. Husband is finally home after his last week of travel. The odds are good that he will not have to go back there again. So - here's the new scoop. I figured that once the pressure was off that he would not see her ... (read in full...)
Work issue: I'm infatuated but I'm married!
Q. The difficulty I have is that I am infatuated with a woman at work and I’m married. I seem to have been up and down this problem and whenever I seem to have a new understanding of where I am I fall down a snake and I am at square one again. ...
A. 30 August 2008: Hey - just wanna' add something from the poor little wifey's perspective. No one can blame you for finding other women attractive and an infatuation is not only normal, but probably to be expected. But here are a few things to keep in mind -- the ... (read in full...)
Are these the real red flags that he is going to cheat?
Q. Okay - same old sad story - but here it goes. My husband and I have been together for 21 years. We were high school sweethearts. We have good morals, but we aren't prudes if you know what I mean. We have two daughters and I work from home most of ...
A. 30 August 2008: Hey - just an update. We are back from our trip. I got to meet her and honestly couldn't tell anything definitive. DH did not introduce me to her right away, so I introduced myself. The first time I shook hands with her I thought she looked scared ... (read in full...)
My boss and I are VERY attracted to one another, but he's married!
Q. i met a guy a year ago, we clicked instantly, then i found out he was part owner of were i worked and was kinda my manager as well, i had no idea at the time, and had made a pass at him ...he responded , but not a full on response. because of his...
A. 22 August 2008: Kudos to you for being smart about this. If he is having troubles at home, trust me, you won't be the answer to his troubles - nor would this relationship escalating to a sexual one be the way to get yourself a "good" man. A "good" man doesn't cheat ... (read in full...)
How do you mend a broken heart after marriage fails?
Q. My question is to all those going through divorce or separation. How do you mend a broken heart?? I love my husband bvery much. We have been together for six years. Just last year we got married, and now living separately which eventually will ...
A. 22 August 2008: I am so sorry. I have a friend going through the same thing (I am dealing with the threat of infidelity too) and I can tell you - even two months after my friend's no-good husband left (after she caught him red-handed) - she thought she would ... (read in full...)
Are these the real red flags that he is going to cheat?
Q. Okay - same old sad story - but here it goes. My husband and I have been together for 21 years. We were high school sweethearts. We have good morals, but we aren't prudes if you know what I mean. We have two daughters and I work from home most of ...
A. 21 August 2008: I don't know if I made this clear before, but I knew he bought her meals for her during his first trip out, but when I gave him opportunities to mention it to me he NEVER said anything. For example, with the dinner thing he told me he had gone to a ... (read in full...)
Are these the real red flags that he is going to cheat?
Q. Okay - same old sad story - but here it goes. My husband and I have been together for 21 years. We were high school sweethearts. We have good morals, but we aren't prudes if you know what I mean. We have two daughters and I work from home most of ...
A. 21 August 2008: I do think this affair -- if it is that -- was certainly not something he had planned. It is out of character for him and I think he has been flying by the seat of his pants - so to speak. Therefore, I'm not surprised he didn't think twice about the ... (read in full...)
When my wife and I make love she just lays there, I am so sexually frustrated, we talked about this but nothing changes!...
Q. What do you think about this? I've been married for 9 years and we have four kids. My wife is a stay at home Mom which I give her alot of credit for. My Question is this...She has really never been into French kissing, Initiating Sex, Giving Oral or ...
A. 21 August 2008: You have gotten good advice here, let me just say "thank you" for trying to find an answer. You are obviously a good man who just wants to find a way to be close to his wife. Good for you and major kudos for sticking it out. If you can both work ... (read in full...)
He is talking to his "friend" all the time--is she really just a friend?
Q. okay im new to this just needed everybody else point of view.......cuz he thinks im crazy!....... We started dating in high School. Out of nowhere his suppose "best freind" girl freind started feeling something just when i came up. she always w...
A. 21 August 2008: I am so sorry you are going through this!!
Sounds like you have phone records of some kind so you at least know when they were talking? The good news is that if they were on the phone, then they weren't physically together. Although, I'd want an ... (read in full...)
Are these the real red flags that he is going to cheat?
Q. Okay - same old sad story - but here it goes. My husband and I have been together for 21 years. We were high school sweethearts. We have good morals, but we aren't prudes if you know what I mean. We have two daughters and I work from home most of ...
A. 21 August 2008: I am so grateful for all these responses - each one of you has a perspective that I just cannot get by myself - too close to this situation to breathe sometimes! I do feel like we are still very much in love and I would not fault him at all for ... (read in full...)
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