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How do I make myself want to get over him?

Q.   Recently a guy I really liked broke up with me and as much as I logically know I need to move on I can't make myself want to. We were only together for a few months but I really liked him. We got on incredibly well , made each other laugh. He ...

A.   2 October 2013: Hey, I know it's been a while but I really appreciate the advice and I thought I'd let you know. I am doing my best to move on and I'm glad I didn't mope the whole summer away. I still have feelings but I'm trying to put these aside. I also didn't ... (read in full...)

Am I second best for my boyfriend? I get the feeling he's still like to be with his ex

Q.   Hi everyone hope you can help me. This is really long but please bare with me. My boyfriend was in a two and a half year relationship with a girl who ended up cheating on him and leaving him for the other guy. She was his first true love, his f...

A.   1 October 2013: Firstly, you do not strike me as crazy or insecure. I find this kind of unusual. People being friends with their exes is not always a problem. Just in this case I do agree that it's strange he'd want to be friends with a cheat. My ex cheated and I ... (read in full...)

My crush rejected me but now seems worried about me?

Q.   This time last year I finally came clean and told my crush of 5 years that I liked him. I mentioned a few times we hung out that were special to me. I also told him the reason why I waited - he was dating someone or it never felt right.. after my 30 ...

A.   1 October 2013: I am sorry that he doesn't feel the same way. I know how tough that is. To me it sounds like he's not interested in you that way but really cares about you as a person. For instance one of my best friends is male. There is no feelings on either side ... (read in full...)

How do I make myself want to get over him?

Q.   Recently a guy I really liked broke up with me and as much as I logically know I need to move on I can't make myself want to. We were only together for a few months but I really liked him. We got on incredibly well , made each other laugh. He ...

A.   29 August 2013: The thing is I do want someone exactly like him, that's the problem. I basically found my dream guy and he wasn't ready to be with me. My friends tell me that I'll find someone better but I don't want anyone "better" I want him. I know he wasn't ... (read in full...)

I'm a 22 year old virgin, trying to understand and deal with it!

Q.   Hi all, I'm 22 and I'm still a virgin. To be honest, it doesn't bother me. It is what it is. I don't believe in sleeping around or getting to know someone for the purpose of sex like most people my age seem to do. I mean, sure there are people w...

A.   29 August 2013: I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to sleep around but it's a personal decision. It's not morally better to want to wait for someone special. It's to do with how you see sex. If you aren't comfortable or don't want to sleep with ... (read in full...)

Am I overreacting or being unrealistic? Am I wrong to distrust her?

Q.   This will be a long question, thanks to anybody who reads it and tries to help me! I have been dating my girlfriend for about two and half years. We're both strong-willed people but I guess she's probably a little more hard-headed than...

A.   29 August 2013: It's always better to talk things through, even if it's difficult. Problems don't go away unless you talk about them. You don't have to "confront" her or "accuse" her of anything. You could just comment that you've noticed that her ex isn't tex... (read in full...)

How do I make myself want to get over him?

Q.   Recently a guy I really liked broke up with me and as much as I logically know I need to move on I can't make myself want to. We were only together for a few months but I really liked him. We got on incredibly well , made each other laugh. He ...

A.   26 August 2013: Sorry to keep bothering you. I'm not just sitting about the house feeling sorry for myself. I've been working and seeing friends. The trouble is I just don't enjoy it any more. I feel like I get more miserable every day. I don't know if it's jus... (read in full...)

How do I make myself want to get over him?

Q.   Recently a guy I really liked broke up with me and as much as I logically know I need to move on I can't make myself want to. We were only together for a few months but I really liked him. We got on incredibly well , made each other laugh. He ...

A.   14 August 2013: Any ideas on how to get over it because just giving it time doesn't seem to be working. I really don't feel like I feel better now than I did when we first broke up. I feel a bit silly because we were together for such a short while but I keep ... (read in full...)

The boyfriend, his ex and their child are going to the movies!

Q.   Hey. This site always gives me great advice and I was wondering if you lovely people could give me your opinion. Dating boyfriend 1.5 years. He has a 6 year old daughter with an ex. Bit if history/ Seen as myself and my other half knew ...

A.   11 August 2013: I really think that the most important thing is his relationship with his daughter. If the best thing for that relationship is that he's friends with his ex then he should be friends with her and I don't see a problem with them hanging out together. ... (read in full...)

How do I make myself want to get over him?

Q.   Recently a guy I really liked broke up with me and as much as I logically know I need to move on I can't make myself want to. We were only together for a few months but I really liked him. We got on incredibly well , made each other laugh. He ...

A.   2 August 2013:  I thought about a rebound I will admit but when a guy who has liked me for a while hit on me I realised I can't do that. I take relationships seriously and I don't want to hurt anyone. I won't rush into anything too soon. Thank you :) for all y... (read in full...)

How do I make myself want to get over him?

Q.   Recently a guy I really liked broke up with me and as much as I logically know I need to move on I can't make myself want to. We were only together for a few months but I really liked him. We got on incredibly well , made each other laugh. He ...

A.   30 July 2013: You are probably right about the space thing. I think I may have already gone wrong there when we were together but in my defence we weren't in the same city and I missed him and he had just changed the dynamic of our relationship and confused me. ... (read in full...)

How do I make myself want to get over him?

Q.   Recently a guy I really liked broke up with me and as much as I logically know I need to move on I can't make myself want to. We were only together for a few months but I really liked him. We got on incredibly well , made each other laugh. He ...

A.   29 July 2013: Thanks again. I know deep down you are right about the space thing. It's just hard because I rarely get along with someone as well as I got along with him. Next year I will have to go back to the city we studied in knowing no one. He will be there... (read in full...)

How do I make myself want to get over him?

Q.   Recently a guy I really liked broke up with me and as much as I logically know I need to move on I can't make myself want to. We were only together for a few months but I really liked him. We got on incredibly well , made each other laugh. He ...

A.   27 July 2013: By the way he has a decent relationship with his daughter's mother. He told me that he tried to make a go of it for their kid's sake but when he realised it wasn't going to happen he knew he needed to stay friendly with her to raise his daughter in ... (read in full...)

How do I make myself want to get over him?

Q.   Recently a guy I really liked broke up with me and as much as I logically know I need to move on I can't make myself want to. We were only together for a few months but I really liked him. We got on incredibly well , made each other laugh. He ...

A.   27 July 2013: Hi guys thanks for the advice. I should clarify that his daughter is only 2, not a teenager. He is only 21. Do you really think getting back in contact with him would be a good idea at all? I want to be friends eventually. We got on really we... (read in full...)

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