Facts about his past years are coming to light. Why wouldn't he tell me himself?
Q. I am 20 and my boyfriend is 28. We get along really well and we have been dating for 8 months. My issue is, he has been engaged before, and has also lived with someone. He never told me that he was engaged or that he lived with someone. I found out ...
A. 3 June 2005: Maybe he wants to keep these things in the past because he sees this as a new start and that he wants to leave all these bad memories and the gossiping behind him and buld up a new life for himself with you. On the other hand, maybe he hasn't ... (read in full...)
I had a short gay romance, but now he's back with his partner and I can't get over him...
Q. I'm a man and I have fallen in love with a man. Nearly a year ago I fell in love with a man. I don't know how or why it happened! I wish it didn't but it did. We shared some intimate moments but nothing really happened. They guy has 3 kids but w...
A. 3 June 2005: I think you have to ask yourself was it him you missed or was it that fact that you were in an exciting new relationship???... (read in full...)
I'm with a guy, but he doesn't want anybody to know about us!
Q. Hiya, I'm 13 and I'm with this lad I love him so much but he doesn't want to tell anybody that we are together. I don't want to lose him so I just go along with it. I like my friends lots but they accuse me of fancying the lad I am with, but I have ...
A. 3 June 2005: It's clear that you don't like all the secrecy. Did he tell you why he wants to keep it quiet? Is he worth all the bother? I know that lots of people will say this to you but you're only 13. Is it really love? To me, I don't think that your ... (read in full...)
We're getting close to having sex for the first time, and I'm not confident at all!
Q. I'm a 24 year old female and I've been with my boyfriend who's 25 for 6 weeks now. I really feel like we're at the stage where we are about to have sex for the first time. I really do want this to happen but at the same time I'm scared. I have sle...
A. 3 June 2005: I really wouldnt worry about it. I am convinced that having sex is like riding a bike, you never forget how to do it. Yes OK, it may be a bit awkward at first, but once you overcome you nerves and fears thing will be fine. I think that if you ... (read in full...)
The whole relationship was a tissue of lies and I broke it off... Still, I love him!
Q. Just yesterday I ended a short but blissful relationship with my partner, even though we love each other very much!! Mad I know, however my reasoning was good; everything I had been told and experienced with him turned out to be a lie. He didnt ...
A. 3 June 2005: Only you can answer those questions. You have to make your mind up, are you prepared to put up with his drug addiction and lies. Are you prepared to come second in his life? Remember that it will be a long term thing, this isn't something that he ... (read in full...)
Are there any circumstances where it's OK to hit someone?
Q. Can anyone please tell me if there are ever circumstances where it is understandable to hit a woman? Picture a scene of a grump, overweight and lazy woman who constantly nags her husband when he comes in from work, shattered. She won't leave hi...
A. 3 June 2005: NO, there is no circumstances where anyone should hit another individual. If you are unhappy with your wife then you should talk to her and help her see sense, or if that doesn't work then there is always a divorce. No-one asked to you put up with ... (read in full...)
Did we lose the spark when we were separated by his enlistment?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half now and in the beginning things were great, but then he left for the Marines and we were apart for some time. All in all, I hardly ever heard from him while he was training ...
A. 27 May 2005: Was there a spark to lose? Absence makes the heart grow founder. Is this true, do you miss him more now that you hardly get to see him, or do you like that fact that you have more free time? If you like the extra time more then I hink it is time ... (read in full...)
How do I get over this shyness so I can talk to the office girls?
Q. I am desperately shy and really want to be able to talk to the two new girls in my office. They are both lovely but I start to sweat as soon as they come near me! Please help.........
A. 27 May 2005: Hey, before you start to panic, just remember you are not the only one. Everyone at some stage is shy, it took me four years to overcome my shyness but it is worth it. There are many ways of overcoming this problem. You could wait until a work ... (read in full...)
My b/f claims he looks at porn out of "boredom". Is that possible?
Q. Hello. I see from having looked at your site that this is a common problem. My boyfriend and I have been living together for 2 years. We have a wonderful friendship and we are very affectionate towards each other. Our sex life has been fairly s...
A. 27 May 2005: Hey, first of all, you shouldn't be having any sleepless nights over this problem. There could be may reasons for your boyfriend to be looking at porn. Firstly he could just simply enjoy it, there is no shame in enjoying porn, after all it is ... (read in full...)
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