Confused because he wanted to keep an old relationship from me
Q. Should we know our partner's past relationships? Lately I found a really old archived blog post from his blog talking about a girl he used to date 2 years back. (How much he likes her and how happy she makes him). I asked if he dated anyon...
A. 6 September 2014: It's normal for you to feel worried because it's an old relationship, so it shouldn't be making him defensive. But there are many reasons why he could be locking away the past from your eyes: perhaps she really hurt him or he did something in the ... (read in full...)
Should I Be Worried That My BF Doesn't Love Me?
Q. I am 50 and have been with my BF who is 53 for a year. He has been divorced for 8 years and has had 4 serious relationships, including me, during that time. He tells me that he loves me but is hesitant to include me in his future plans, saying that ...
A. 6 September 2014: I think it's good to be in tune with your feelings instead of just writing them off. If you are feeling needy, then it means you're insecure - you don't feel you can trust where the relationship is going. He's got to show you that he cares - this is ... (read in full...)
How do I remain close friends with my ex after our breakup?
Q. hi, my boyfriend and i decided to split up last week, but the relationship ended in good terms and we both decided to be friends, i really think very higly of him as a person and really want to be close friends, so my question is should i write to ...
A. 6 September 2014: I think it's great that you both decided to be friends. Are you sure that he is as enthusiastic about being friends as you are, though?
If you are unsure of this, I would suggest that you take it easy. Maybe wait a week or so before you ease int... (read in full...)
New to dating and the drama that goes with it
Q. I have a dilemma. My rating for my advice is kinda sucky, so I've decided to step on the other side of things. I have problems with social life too, like most people on the Internet. So here it is: Ok, it's my first time going out. I've been p...
A. 6 September 2014: I don't think you should date someone if you honestly don't feel for them because it's a waste of their time and yours. Too many people out there settle for less than what they really want - and why? Just to have someone? It's then better to be ... (read in full...)
My crush likes my friend instead... should I still try to impress him?
Q. Dear Cupid, Oh gosh, so I have an enormous crush on a boy in my grade. I have just started high school with him and we talk often enough. However, today he told me he liked another girl, one of my closest friends. What do I do? I want to impress ...
A. 6 September 2014: I think that you shouldn't have to impress him. This isn't a competition like The Bachelor where you have to try to get time with him or make him want you. Who you are is enough and if a guy can't see that, then honey he doesn't deserve your ... (read in full...)
I thought I was over him, but then I heard he had been asking after me and the feelings come flooding back!
Q. Hello guys,i'm a female 19 years old. first of all, i want to thank you for your advices i've been here almost two years now in this website,everytime i needed someone to help me,you did!so thank you so much!for everything it means a lot to those wh...
A. 6 September 2014: It's always tough when you break up with someone because the smallest thing can trigger feelings of loss, missing him, and wanting him back. Although you are looking at the relationship through rose-tinted glasses, it is clear that there were ... (read in full...)
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