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My longtime boyfriend wants to experience sex with someone else, just so he knows what it's like...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 15 months. I'm 19, he's 20. We were both virgins when we started the relationship and it's also the first real relationship each of us have ever had. We are in love and even though we are both young we ...

A.   17 November 2005: If you let him, good chance it will lead to more than just the one extra experience point. But you yourself are hiding that you want to know what it feels like to be with more than just that one man. Humans are just curious about everythi... (read in full...)

Should I ask our a girl I only just met?

Q.   Hi. I'm not really sure what to do about this girl I met last Saturday. She was really attractive and we had a nice conversation and I'd really like to ask her out but I don't know if I should because we just met Saturday and probably will never see ...

A.   17 November 2005: Just don't rush it. My first girlfriend I asked out onto more dates just 3 days after meeting her for the first time. Though I talked to her over the internet for about a month prior we met in person at something called Rock N' Ride at West Edm... (read in full...)

I love crossdressing, but I'm afraid of what my girlfriend might say about it!

Q.   I'm 29 and ever since I was 12 or so I've been secretly wearing women's clothing. Sometimes just undies/tights etc and sometimes dressing up completely as a woman. At different times I have stopped and sometimes even got rid of all my feminine ...

A.   17 November 2005: Easy to remember that secrets hurt when it turns into gossip and you have to hear from a 3rd party, but both keep secrets about everything. Best bet would be not to just jump out and say how you like to crossdress, but do it in a way that's p... (read in full...)

Do I tell my boyfriend about the messages I found on his phone?

Q.   We have been seeing each other for 2 years and we live together. About 1 month ago I was going through his phone and read some messages from a girl I dont know. It said "I don't like to share, call me when you're single". I don't know what to do, o...

A.   17 November 2005: Don't hide it from him that you know what has happened so far. You don't know if there is even anything happening between the two, as you have not witnessed it yourself, and the worse of the messages is just "I don't like to share, call me when ... (read in full...)

My husband could have me any time... So why does he need to masturbate to porn?

Q.   When I go to work my husband downloads porn and plays with himself. It hurts my feelings because he could have me anytime he wants. He could have had me before I went to work. He has even looked at porn when me and the kids were sleeping. It ...

A.   17 November 2005: Yelling and screaming aren't any way to get your point across. Though raging arguments are bound to happen, this one isn't one of the issues to start world war III over. Talk it through with him. Don't push him to answer you. Another thing... (read in full...)

What signs will tell me if my girlfriend is cheating?

Q.   Please help..I feel my g/friend maybe cheating..What are the signs to look for? - serious answers from ladies and girls most appreciated..Thank you.....

A.   17 November 2005: Spying on your girlfriend may not be the best answer, but it just possibly be the only way to find out for sure. Try what you can to convince her that your relationship with her should be the only one that's above being just friends. Romantic... (read in full...)

I can only have an orgasm when I'm masturbating or during oral sex...

Q.   I am a 17 years old female and I have had sex in the past and recently but I have a problem with having an orgasm. The only way I know I am cumming/have a orgasm is when I am receiving oral sex or when masturbating. My partner have told me many ...

A.   17 November 2005: This is normal for many, but because it's normal doesn't mean it's not a problem. You can cum without orgasming, which is quite possible for both women and man. Try getting your partner to extend forplay, get you aroused more. Get him to try and ... (read in full...)

Three in a bed and we were all drunk. I swear I thought it was my boyfriend touching me!

Q.   I have done a really bad thing and I just don't know what to do! The other night my Boyfriend of 4 and a half years and myself stayed with one of our very close male friends. We shared his bed, which we have done before. I was in the middle. We w...

A.   17 November 2005: Personally as a guy I would like know when my girlfriend would do something like as this. It may not be your fault, but don't forget that even though you may have come to a decision in your head that it wasn't cheating or wrong, your boyfrien... (read in full...)

Should I give my unforgettable ex a second chance?

Q.   Is it always best to stay with the "comfortable, nicer" boyfriend? Four years ago, I dated a guy for about a year and a half. I was crazy about him but unfortunately, he was still inexperienced with relationships and had a hard time expressi...

A.   17 November 2005: Double edged blade... They may understand what they did but they may not know how to fix what previous damage was done. While they may know. If you can see yourself having a future with your current boyfriend, don't take a gamble on it you... (read in full...)

I love my wife, but since she's cheated twice, I just don't know if I trust her!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been cheated twice by my wife. We have two lovely kids aged 9 and 10. I truly love my wife but I am now not sure whether I will be able to trust her again. She says she still loves me and wants to keep the family together....

A.   17 November 2005: First off... You AREN'T a fool for loving her. There is something that is convincing you to love her, just she may not be seeing that. First thing, see if you are doing anything either knowingly or unknowingly that may be pushing her away to do th... (read in full...)

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