He says our relationship is now a "trial"... Is this worse than just breaking up?!
Q. Me and my boyfriend of over a year have recently had a big argument and now he is saying that he will stay with me but we are on trial to see if i can make him happy. Is this acctually worse than breakin up and is it making me look needy by waiting ...
A. 24 June 2006: The question is, is HE good enough for YOU? Do you really want a man in your life who would treat you with such disrespect? He has you hanging on, waiting to see what HE will decide. Everything is HIS feelings. he doesn't want a relationship with a ... (read in full...)
I am 14 and don't like sexual stuff!
Q. heya i have a BIG problem that is having a massive affect on my life, it is ruining it! im 14 and whenever i hear people talking about sex i feel faint. even if i over hear people talking about it! i hate my sex education class and nearly faint in...
A. 24 June 2006: You're not a clone of everyone else, you're your own person. Your reactions are unique to you. No one should force their own feelings on you or make you feel that there's anything wrong with how you react. When I was about 12 and 13, reading Judy ... (read in full...)
How can I get past this porn issue, he says its a time filler, I think its taking over!
Q. Hi, Its the porn issue again. Normally Im cool with it, but ive got myself upset about it. Ive know for a long time that he looks at porn, it didnt really bother me and he knew that at times i was a little fed up with it, felt like he was viewing ...
A. 24 June 2006: If he is saying the sex is great with you two, then he's not LISTENING to you. Apparently he doesn't give a rat's patootie what you think about his porn habit and does not take your feelings into account. His all important porn habit comes first. ... (read in full...)
Hot for my boss, but should I confess it to him?
Q. I'm 17, going off to college in a little over a month, and such. However, the main thought on my mind, as random as it is, are these feelings I realized that I have for my Boss. Well, he's not THE Boss, more like the Assistant Manager. He's...
A. 24 June 2006: Is telling him really going to benefit YOU? You're going away to college; how much chance is there of a relationship between the two of you? It's not helpful to entertain any romantic thoughts about coworkers or bosses because getting involved with ... (read in full...)
I have this fantasy, about threesome with my husband and this other guy, what do you think ?
Q. Hey guys how are you an thisd lovely saturday morning well this is my next question recently I keep fantasiing about having a three some with my husband and this married guy i like so what do you guys think...
A. 24 June 2006: I advise you to stop thinking about it because the more you concentrate on this, the more you will want to act on it. Your feelings aren't the only ones involved -- have you thought about how your husband feels, how the married "other man" feels or ... (read in full...)
Could she be pregnant?
Q. Me and my g/f were messing around and she jercked me off and i ejackulated. when this happend i got out of bed and nutted on the floor. I wiped my hands lightley on my pants and im a little worried that i might have had a little bit of sperm on my ...
A. 24 June 2006: You say that you ejaculated -- where? On her hands or yours? Both? Did you put your fingers inside her while you had semen on them? Just wiping your hands on your pants won't make her pregnant. I'd also suggest to you that before you involve ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I should go to the next step yet or not. How can I tell?
Q. hi i am 16 yrs old and all i have done in relationships is kiss. i have got a bf at the moment we have been going out for about three weeks, but ive known him for ages an liked him for quite a while, i think im ready for the next step in our ...
A. 24 June 2006: The old adage says, "When in doubt, don't." You're not ready because you're asking how to tell if you're ready. This isn't a competition; there's no need to rush into sexual activity. Three things really stand out from your question: 1) you've been ... (read in full...)
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