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writes: Hey guys how are you an thisd lovely saturday morning well this is my next question recently I keep fantasiing about having a three some with my husband and this married guy i like so what do you guys think
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reader, myunusualmarriage  +, writes (26 August 2009):
Talk this over with your husband. If he is fine with it, what the heck . Have fun.
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reader, Dr. Reality Check  +, writes (24 June 2006):
 If you have to seek the approval of a bunch of strangers, then you must know that it is a slightly bad idea, and in the long run will have an effect on your marriage...AND the other guys! How would his wife feel? How would YOU feel if your husband said he fancied sleeping with some woman from down the road and her husband? Thought so....
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2006): It's just a fantasy and fantasy's are best kept that way. If you were to act on it then it may not live up to your expectations, you could end up feeling used and not only that your husband would see you in a different light.This is the one sure route to go down if you want to destroy your marriage. Why don't you think of spicing up your sex life with your husband...toys, naughty films, role play. There's so much you can do and make it good fun if things are getting boring in the bedroom.You will be exploring your sexuality with someone that you can totally trust.You know the old saying, two's company, three's a crowd.
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reader, Pinky +, writes (24 June 2006):
 I advise you to stop thinking about it because the more you concentrate on this, the more you will want to act on it. Your feelings aren't the only ones involved -- have you thought about how your husband feels, how the married "other man" feels or how his WIFE would feel? You like him, but so what? We're not dogs who need to act on every impulse, we're thinking, reasoning human beings and we don't use each other as sexual playthings. Getting involved in a threesome is also a violation of your marriage vows. Why did you vow to be faithful if you had no intention of doing it? Whether or not your husband agrees to this, it's still violating your vow. Also, how would you feel if your husband told you he wanted a threesome with some married woman he fancied and he was fantasizing about it a lot? Is having a little physical fun worth the enormous cost of possibly destroying your marriage or someone else's and dehumanizing yourself and others? What you think about is what you are, so I suggest you put away this notion and don't give it any credence. You're not obligated to satisfy every physical whim you have (if you fantasized about pigging out on cake and pie, would you think you needed to do that as well?) -- you ARE obligated to uphold the vows you made to your husband and also stop thinking about other men because you're committing adultery in your heart.
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