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What could this discharge be?

Q.   okay so i noticed i have had A LOT of discharge. Mostly when i get up in the mornings. its always clear and has little or no smell.. what is this? I'm almost 17 and i weigh 82 pounds if that helps any.. and no I'm not a virgin. What could this be?...

A.   15 June 2009: yes it is just the cleansing of the uterous and vagina wall.. totally normal and totally a pain!!... (read in full...)

Beautiful and "boyfriendless"?!

Q.   hey, so all the time i get "you are so beautiful", "you look like a model", "you always look so nice", and the "if any girl is mean to you its because they are jealous" from all my teachers. guys check me out at the mall all the time and they are ...

A.   14 December 2008: I get the same thing, or I did at your age. Teenage guys are really cowards. They don't ask out the pretty ones or the smart ones, they ask out the ones that are most popular, and who their friends think is hot. High school it gets a litle better, ... (read in full...)

Do others find oral sex gross?

Q.   I find oral sex totally disgusting! Yes, call me weird. My Bf tries to make me give him a blow job, but i refuse. Am i alone on this? Am i like the only girl who thinks that's totaly gross? I just dont like the fact that stuff gets into my mouth, ...

A.   13 December 2008: I don't like it at all either, its disgustinggg!... (read in full...)

I cannot have an orgasm!

Q.   Dear Cupid Readers, I am 18 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He is 24 years old and we both have had one previous sex partner. Our relationship has started to spiral downwards because I am unable to orgasm. I actua...

A.   13 December 2008: Ask your doctor, they would know the most!... (read in full...)

My nipples have bumps when I get cold is it normal?

Q.   Is it normal that when I get cold my nipples start like "popping" these little bumps that I've never seen on any of my friends before....

A.   13 December 2008: Yea its just the skin shrinking trying to warm up like goose bumps its totally normal!... (read in full...)

Teacher drama

Q.   I know I know, you all are probably completely sick of them by now, and with good reason. But I honestly would not ask this if I didn't feel like there wasn't a legitimate reason for doing so. So with that being said, let me explain my situation to ...

A.   13 December 2008: Ok this is against the law stop. He probably is just flirting a little but a lot of teachers do this its just funny. Don't take it too seriously because it can get messy, and he can get fired. Just keep him as a friend or a role model.... (read in full...)

Weird lump! What is it?

Q.   Ok I'm thirteen and I have this really weird umm...let's say....lump. It goes like in between the two labias and at the end there's a big brownish looking lump. I could pull like 10 cm down without it hurting. It gets uncomfortable sometimes and ...

A.   13 December 2008: Ok how long have you had it? Also I would have your mom call the doctor have they ever said anything at your physical?... (read in full...)

I'm completely scared that I might be pregnant.

Q.   i had sex with my boyfriend and we used a condom and he sayed it didnt rip but im just really scared in case it did and hes not telling me.he wasnt inside me for too long but it was for about 10 minutes. he did come though. im due my periods soon ...

A.   13 December 2008: This happened to me when I was 15. It was my first time and we didn't use a condom stupidly. He pulled out but it was a little to late. I was in florida on vacation and the florida keys so there was no cvs for the morning after pill. I was due to ... (read in full...)

I'm completely scared that I might be pregnant.

Q.   i had sex with my boyfriend and we used a condom and he sayed it didnt rip but im just really scared in case it did and hes not telling me.he wasnt inside me for too long but it was for about 10 minutes. he did come though. im due my periods soon ...

A.   13 December 2008: This happened to me when I was 15. It was my first time and we didn't use a condom stupidly. He pulled out but it was a little to late. I was in florida on vacation and the florida keys so there was no cvs for the morning after pill. I was due to ... (read in full...)

Tired of my lazy fiance!

Q.   I am really tired of my fiance's bullshit. I just asked him to go to the store for us cuz we needed food for the house--boy did he have a fit. he kept laggin about goin, he still layed on the bed n didnt move, i wan on the computer doing my online ...

A.   13 December 2008: Honestly he won't get better. If he is like this now he won't change, you can't change a guy. Also how old is your son? This relationship isn't good for your son to experience becuase your future husband seems like he would not be a good a role ... (read in full...)

How soon can I find out if I"m pregnant?

Q.   My boyfriend and I are both 18 and have been together for almost 3 months and are very close. We were both virgins when we met (although he is a little more experienced but still hasn't had sex) we and have gotten intimate and wanted to have sex ...

A.   13 December 2008: Well it depends on when your period is next. You can't go on birth control until after your next period anyways. Let me know when you are suppose to get your next period and I can tell you how long you have to wait, it will probably be 2 weeks.... (read in full...)

My periods have changed but I haven't had sex!

Q.   hiya, well a rather silly question but my periods are normally really regular.. and this month (now) i am supposed to be on and im not :S i'm 15 and obv never had sex etc etc, so i know its impossible to be preg, but im just scared ! this is t...

A.   3 December 2008: Oh this used to happen to me all the time. Your reproductive system is just getting started and can have its off months and on months. It is nothing to worry about, and it is very common. You will be fine!... (read in full...)

I know it won't last forever but what can I do?

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now we're both 17. I know it won't last forever because I can feel it inside me if you know what I mean but what should I do? Should I keep going out with her to enjoy the time we have together ...

A.   3 December 2008: It seems as though you are questioning the relationship, is everything going okay, are there any problems you both know of? What I would suggest is taking a break 17 is young for a long term relationship. Make it very clear to her that you arn't br... (read in full...)

Lost, confused, puzzled, exhausted....

Q.   I'm 14 and I had a girlfriend for alil over a year. She broke up with me because.. Well, According to her it was because she didnt like me anymore, then she did. But to her friends, it was because she thought I didn't like her. This is very hard. A ...

A.   23 April 2008: does this help??... (read in full...)

Am I too young for alcohol and smoking? I'm 15...

Q.   Ok so im 15 now but I starting drinking when i was 14 and there are only a few people in my grade that do because we are like the popular people...so is it really that young i mean it doesnt feel that way at all and also i smoke not pot but ...

A.   17 April 2008: ok i have self cntrol and i took over my sisters account to clear up the confusion and i am i think responcible and everyone is say to fit in thats not why im doing it i said we are the first and it would be fun!!! but i think the consiquences are ... (read in full...)

Lost, confused, puzzled, exhausted....

Q.   I'm 14 and I had a girlfriend for alil over a year. She broke up with me because.. Well, According to her it was because she didnt like me anymore, then she did. But to her friends, it was because she thought I didn't like her. This is very hard. A ...

A.   16 April 2008: Hey so speaking in a girls point of view after breaking up with a guy you ignore them but want to be friends because its hard not to be...asking her out wasnt a good idea...girls change their minds sooo much its better to try to just be friends with ... (read in full...)

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