I have amazing chemistry with this girl but she won't break up with her new boyfriend. Is she just leading me on?
Q. I met a girl on odd string of events. I went out on the porch of my friends house that i now have taken up residence to chill with him while he smoked. Well i looked across the street to the house directly across and saw this cute girl i had noticed ...
A. 1 August 2013: She is confused and you are letting her lead you on. She told you upfront she hada boyfriend and now you need to tell her upfront you want a relationship from her. If she stays with her boyfriend then you move on.... (read in full...)
Do women really get 'used for sex'?
Q. This is not a personal question but a general question about the concept of 'using' someone for sex which is usually used about women. Why do people assume that a woman is 'being used for sex' when she's in a friends with benefits situation or at ...
A. 27 May 2013: Thank you! If everyone was able to look at it like this men wouldn't be seen as douches and women wouldn't be called s^^ts. It is equally consensual and enjoyable for both parties. The only way anyone could be us is if someone is expecting more than ... (read in full...)
So why am I feeling conflicted about progressing this to sex with her? Seemed the logical next option.
Q. I've recently began a self-improvement kick, beginning to exercise, be more social, exude confidence. I'm getting female attention for the first time in ages. I really hit it off with a girl at a party last week, we spoke a lot and ended up holding ...
A. 27 May 2013: You are young and single getting ready to travel...have fun. If she knows what she is getting herself into don't feel bad about it. The only thing that worries me is your emotions. You put how you turned over a new leaf and became a more gorgeous ... (read in full...)
What do you think his deal is? Does he just want to be friends with benefits? Or is he just shy and reserved?
Q. This guy I've been hooking up with, seeing, hanging out with...not sure what to call it, is confusing me so much. I'm so unsure of how he feels towards me. Right now, I would describe our relationship as FWB. We met at work. At work, he remains...
A. 27 May 2013: He seems like a nice guy but your relationship sounds totally fwb. The spontaneity of the situation leads me see it only as fwb. He seems to appear shy and reserved because he started a new relationship with you. He most likely won't be an open book ... (read in full...)
Could my decision hurt me in any way and what do you think of FWB?
Q. Hi. Im 18 young and single. I am getting ready to graduate from high school and will be heading off to college shortly. I have done extremely well and am graduating with a 3.9 gpa. I figure with the year coming to a close why not have some fun. So ...
A. 27 May 2013: Everyone's advice is very helpful. I understand feelings could develop and Im willing to take that chance. I really just want to have fun and if it fun for we and him i don't see it as an degrading thing. I mentioned my grades to show that I have a ... (read in full...)
I miss him when he is not at work with me, how do I stop this?
Q. Hi folks, There is this guy I'm friends with at work. (I don't see or chat to him outside of work for various reasons) we both get on really well, but when he's not at work I feel really fed up, like there's no point if he's not here. We flirt o...
A. 17 February 2013: Sounds like you have a crush on this guy at work. You don't elaborate on the reasons you don't talk outside of work but i think you should text or something. The only problem is that you are at work and they may frown upon workplace romances... (read in full...)
I miss him when he is not at work with me, how do I stop this?
Q. Hi folks, There is this guy I'm friends with at work. (I don't see or chat to him outside of work for various reasons) we both get on really well, but when he's not at work I feel really fed up, like there's no point if he's not here. We flirt o...
A. 15 February 2013: Sounds like you have a crush on this guy at work. You don't elaborate on the reasons you don't talk outside of work but i think you should text or something. The only problem is that you are at work and they may frown upon workplace romances. You ... (read in full...)
I'm shy, so how should I handle my crush on this seriously cute personal trainer?
Q. What should I do? This is driving me crazy!? So this cute personal trainer at has been starring at me for months now! He's friendly and talks to everyone there but he doesn't speak to me. He just stares. I really like this guy and I can't see...
A. 12 February 2013: Your reply to him wanting you to be his client could be no i don't need a personal trainer but id love to get to handout sometime. He may very well be intimidated by you because you don't talk. It may seem snowy even though your not intending it. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be a fool for taking my ex back but I don't want to abandon him either! I don't know what to do
Q. My ex and I split from 3 years together because I found out he cheated on me over a year ago (several times) and has been inappropriately messaging other girls ever since. We've been talking since we split, and even hoped to be able to patch things ...
A. 12 February 2013: This guy sounds like he is draggoing you down. As hard ad it is to say goodbye to someone that close to you it is what you have to do. It will not get better and he will keep emotionally hurting you. Cut him out of your life but keep tabs on him via ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's my place to tell a woman whom I do know that her husband is cheating on her?
Q. Recently, I've developed an unusual hobby of seeing how many married men in the area I live are cheating on their wives. I have always been a really great snoop and considered being a private investigator at one point. There is a site I found which ...
A. 11 February 2013: This is being nosey to the extreme. Do not tell the wives because you will likely get yourself into more trouble. And find a new hobby!!... (read in full...)
I cant stop thinking about my teacher! What should I do?
Q. I am a teenage girl of eighteen years old.Few days back i met my new teacher who is really young and charming and his age is near to 23/24 years. i am just going mad about him, i dont know what to do i am just thinking of him all day and night. i ...
A. 11 February 2013: I have the same problem. I am also 18 and he is 24. I feel a bit unrealistic in thinking about it but i can't help it. I think you should get to know him much more. Then once you graduate you can consider furthering your relationship. This most ... (read in full...)
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