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Is it worth staying in a relationship when its difficult to get along?

Q.   I have been going out with my boyfriend for a solid 9 months. He is older than me. I am 18 and he is 27. HE is an illegal immigrant and he has a 1 year old daughter with his ex. I found out about his daughter and literatly unbalanced ex 2 months ...

A.   12 February 2013: You can't talk to this guy. You have nothing in common. He's 9 years older. He is breaking the law every second of the day. He's texting his ex all the time. You want him to give up his child. How do you know she's his ex and not his always? Did he ... (read in full...)

I don't want to be a fool for taking my ex back but I don't want to abandon him either! I don't know what to do

Q.   My ex and I split from 3 years together because I found out he cheated on me over a year ago (several times) and has been inappropriately messaging other girls ever since. We've been talking since we split, and even hoped to be able to patch things ...

A.   12 February 2013: Give him option 3 cut off all ties. He's a dog.... (read in full...)

Is five months too soon to move in with my boyfriend?

Q.   I have been seeing my boyfriend for five months and we're thinking of moving in together. I spend about three or four nights a week with him anyway and we were on holidays together for over a week and got on great! I've known him for about ten ...

A.   12 February 2013: "I don't want people judging me for moving too fast!" That is exactly what you are asking for with your question. 5 months is way to soon to move in. Both of you are still on your best behaivor. You probably still don't feel comfortable burp... (read in full...)

Should I allow him to "brand" me with a tattoo? He's 24. I know he will not take me back if I refuse.

Q.   So, me and this guy have just been through a break up, our relationship was a little rough around the edges mainly because he's 24 and I'm 16. I know I know, forget about the age a second. I'm really desperate to get him back and he says I need to ...

A.   10 February 2013: Lose this guy. Stable 24 year old men don't have 16 year old girlfriends for one much less want to brand a teenage girl. He's playing and you are the toy and you know what happens to old toys.... (read in full...)

He's married. We're strongly attracted. I even told his wife nothing was 'going on'. I want to have sex with him, should I?

Q.   Hi...this is my first time seeking advice through the internet. I'm almost 20 years old. I applied for a job at a restaurant and I got the job and the general manager is 37. During the interview we made deeply eye contact and then once he...

A.   10 February 2013: Look at the big picture. Having sex with you while being married to another makes this guy a cheating liar who is deceiving his own family. That should tell you where you stand in his mind. Do you really want to be a home wrecker? That is exactly ... (read in full...)

How can I convince her to give up her sex toys? And consider a real guy like me for sex?

Q.   I a year a 25 year old male with a new girlfriend who is 21 years old. We have been going out for about three months. After the first week of dating the subject of sex came up She told me that she had bad sexual experiences with her last boyfrie...

A.   10 February 2013: Where is she expecting this relationship to go? Is she waiting for marriage or does she likes hanging out with you as a buddy? I'd get clear on that aspect first. ... (read in full...)

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