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What does it mean when a woman says she feels smothered?

Q.   My wife and I have been together 19 years. We have not had a normal or regular sex life for most of it. We have talked the issue to death and yesterday she agreed she will see a therapist. (I always initiate and she always refuses.) My own pop psyc...

A.   6 May 2011: Dude make a plan. She feels box in by too much ttrouble through rules. Litterally cant breath anymore . Give her a bit of opportunity. EG. let her come home and have everything set for her for a back masage which releases stress. It will fix all . ... (read in full...)

Do looks and types matter?

Q.   Do you honestly think looks and types matter? There is this guy who I'm not dating, but we talk a lot and i just don't want to lead him on. But I think i am starting to like him, as a person he makes me laugh and I've noticed he is (fingers ...

A.   6 May 2011: Well you say go for it OR someone else your type. Your mind is already set for your type a long time ago. SO what this means is that he has that qualities that is the personality of your type but not necessarily the body of your type. So if... (read in full...)

I don't understand why my gf gets mad at me so suddenly/quickly when we love each other!

Q.   What is the tings that ticks women of emediately.??? What makes women mad at you in a way that they say nothing?? Please tell me a little on how your emotions work. Because I have a girlfriend with which I had an amazing fun night at the movies. ...

A.   28 April 2011: your advice is really good. Thanx . just it takes long to post and return to see an answer. So I already figured evereything out with my osim girlfriend. And then the advice comes through. I still apresiate it. It helps me understand. women better. ... (read in full...)

I've had to cancel seeing her a few times, she has family problems, what can I do to make her feel better??

Q.   I really am so down. I need help , well advice me and my girlfriend have an amazing relationship. Really. We love each other Now the problem is she has an over emosional big sister and a really agrivated brother. So when she does somet...

A.   24 April 2011: thanx @_@... (read in full...)

I've had to cancel seeing her a few times, she has family problems, what can I do to make her feel better??

Q.   I really am so down. I need help , well advice me and my girlfriend have an amazing relationship. Really. We love each other Now the problem is she has an over emosional big sister and a really agrivated brother. So when she does somet...

A.   23 April 2011: Thanx. aND HER BROTHER. he has acused me of cursing his older sister's name. And i DIDN'T . I mean I can't hit my girlfriend's brother. Shoeld I confront him in front of his mother? Becase I think she feels sad because she feels her family ain't ... (read in full...)

G/f hates the idea of me going away for a year to college!

Q.   hi all. me and my girlfriend's relationship is amazingly strong. we love being together and we are in different schools but the relationship works for sure. no problems. I finish this year and would like to go study 2 years . unluky it's ...

A.   21 April 2011: THank you. I wish live would stop with it's curfballs against love. Really IT hurts when I see her sad. How do I get her to really understand. BEcause she is one of the type of girls. That hates people feeling sorry for her. So she doesn't say much ... (read in full...)

We want the real thing but are afraid of the consequences!

Q.   hi all. I have a weerd question. Me and my girlfriend love each other. pleas don't think this is weerd but we both love each other thats certain. Sex is not the problem. we are comfertable alot with each other. half naked aswell. My question is...

A.   21 April 2011: ok. Well weel see/.Thanx all. MAby it's better to keep the urge in waiting for it till we bothe finish this year... (read in full...)

G/f hates the idea of me going away for a year to college!

Q.   hi all. me and my girlfriend's relationship is amazingly strong. we love being together and we are in different schools but the relationship works for sure. no problems. I finish this year and would like to go study 2 years . unluky it's ...

A.   21 April 2011: So how will I tell her ..In the right way that aal is ok. To put that security in her mind. I need to assure her al is going to be fine.But only this subject is really hard to get through to her???... (read in full...)

What shape type do men like best on a woman?

Q.   What Shape do Men Prefer??? my measurements are 38-35.5 to 36-43 Bust 38. Waist 35.5 to 36. Hips 43. (Trying to lose weight) lol! I wanted to know, I read all over the internet how the "hourglass" is the perfect female form and what...

A.   20 April 2011: IT's not how you look but how comfertable you are in yuor body. Guys don't like a women slacking all over the place.So if you are active atleast showing you are interesting . and not just a ghost wondering around. This is enough for most men. So to ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend thinks something that isn't true and is really upset about it!

Q.   hi I went with my girlfriend to a falentine ball in february. while we were there a friend asked me to dance. So I asked her is this ok. and she said yes. when i came back se was really upset at me. she said she saw me kiss the girl . and so in ...

A.   20 April 2011: thanx everyone. And ja dirtball I understand your perspection. Just don't judge. Haha but its cruel truth. We had isues But I also realized it's the feelings inside her thats eating at her. I know honestly everything is fine now. This website ... (read in full...)

8 Golden rules!

Q.   Hiyaaaa, Ever since I've join this amazing website which wasn't long ago, there is many question about relationships failures like cheating, no spark and all that so I've decided to come up with 8 Golden Rules on relationship! So here are my inte...

A.   19 April 2011: Said like a LOVE docter. Thanx really deep insight in the truth. Good that there is people still knowing the basis of relationships is not messing but fixing. Really good rules Ak out @_@... (read in full...)

Girlfriend thinks something that isn't true and is really upset about it!

Q.   hi I went with my girlfriend to a falentine ball in february. while we were there a friend asked me to dance. So I asked her is this ok. and she said yes. when i came back se was really upset at me. she said she saw me kiss the girl . and so in ...

A.   19 April 2011: Well Dirtball I really dont apreciate you falsly acusing at the same time you think yo give your opinion or whatever you call it ok.. She is worth the trouble. This was just for understanding the issues in relationships. Not consulting your own will ... (read in full...)

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