B/f wants to get more intimate but I'm unsure about it
Q. Im a 16 year old guy. And I'm gay. Me and my boyfriend have been togethr for a while..but now he wants to get more intimate with me. I want to.. but i'm afraid at the same time. What do i do?...
A. 10 May 2010: Talk to him. You say you've been together for quite some time. Do you trust him enough to have this conversation? If so, then you should tell him that, although you want to eventually, you're unsure and you'd prefer waiting until you feel more ... (read in full...)
I think I need therapy, but I don't know where to start...
Q. I'l try and keep this short. My friends have advised me to seek therapy, but i am not sure what to type to seek and if there are other ways in which to help me. Basically, since the age of around 17 I have been getting increasingly obs...
A. 10 May 2010: Hey, don't beat yourself up :) Your friends are trying to help you, and the truth is, they're right: Therapy would help you. How? Well, you'd talk about your feelings, and the therapist would give you guidelines on how to deal with them and better ... (read in full...)
Disgusted and hurt but ultimately confused
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 months and while we've had our ups and downs, he never gave me a reason to not trust him.. However, I found something suspicious on his facebook chat and my paranoia got the better half of me and I ende...
A. 10 May 2010: I think this is a question of: How much do you want to be with him? Because, honestly, you might be happier in the long run if you make a clean break from him now.
If you really love this guy, then talk things through, see if he accepts what you'... (read in full...)
Why is she telling me that other women are checking me out?
Q. Ok so my girlfriend and I go out to clubs and go dancing. We both love to dance and have a great time. One thing that drives me crazy is that she keeps telling me about other girls that are checking me out. I am there do dance with her. I dont ...
A. 10 May 2010: Sounds like you should tell her this. Calmly explain to her that you're there because you enjoy dancing with her, not checking out other girls, and that her saying this makes you a little anxious. ... (read in full...)
Mates will make fun of me if I ask this girl out
Q. theres this girl who likes me. i think she is nice but if i go out with her i will get stick off my mates. what should i do?...
A. 13 April 2010: Tell your friends you're going to ask this girl out. Then do it. :) That way they won't feel you're betraying them, and you get to ask the girl out. Even if they do give you some stick, they'll get bored of it soon. ... (read in full...)
Best friend going abroad.
Q. Belle and I have been best friends for more than 4 years. We have stayed together through ups and downs, joy and sadness... There is nothing I cannot tell her. We are as close as biological sisters. Even though we are at the same age, I consider her ...
A. 13 April 2010: Aww, I wish I could give you a hug right now. I've been there, I can definitely relate. Losing your best friend to another country...you must feel scared, think: How am I going to go on without her? I'm going to miss her so much. But let me tell you... (read in full...)
I feel used and cheap
Q. So my boyfriend and I had an argument. And I'm extremely pissed right now. We have been dating for 3 months. Off and on. We have not had sex since wednesday night, well we had sex on sunday (but that doesnt count he says). We got into an argument ...
A. 13 April 2010: No, that's not at all a long time to wait for sex. You are not being unreasonable here. He is. The thing is, I think both of you had different expectatioins about this relationship. If before you were having sex with him every day, or nearly every ... (read in full...)
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