Does it seem odd or creepy to walk up to the girl whom I like and start a conversation? Also, what are some good conversation topics??
Q. Hello, in advance I appreciate any help any of you give. I've liked this girl on-and-off since the end of last school-year. I asked (in writing, as well as someone who knew her) if she had a boyfriend, and she said yes. Since the attraction was o...
A. 28 March 2011: And if it helps or makes any difference, she's a junior and i am a sophomore.... (read in full...)
Why do I feel she is too good for me?
Q. Hi!, So, I have been in love with this girl who became my best friend (I am male) after over half a year, and I suspected that she may have feelings for me too but because of past pains she is reluctant to, I guess let them surface. Rec...
A. 5 September 2009: It could be a sign she wasn't ready for sex. She may be feeling like she's lost something (which is normal), and placing it wrongly. You have to make sure she knows you are sincere, and tell her this, if you truly are. You could just be worried she ... (read in full...)
How Should I Talk To Her?
Q. There's a girl I started to like near the end of last school year. I was writing notes to her and having other people give them to her and then started shouting that I loved her in hallways. Then someone told me to stop, and there was no more of ...
A. 5 September 2009: What are you confused with? I'll try to explain in further detail as best I can. I can't give her a note b/c she didn't respond to any of the 3 I had given to her last year, although this could be b/c I had others give them to her. I'd like to just ... (read in full...)
Should I give her the note?
Q. Hi, and thanks for help in advance. Forgive me if this sounds way too cliche. Well, there's a girl I started to like Saturday. At first I thought it was one of those things where it passes in a day. But, when I woke up Sunday morning, she was...
A. 3 May 2009: Actually, some of her friends hate me, (I say random things around large groups of people, and it annoys them) and wouldn't it look like I was in love with them instead of her if I was talking to them? ... (read in full...)
Should I give her the note?
Q. Hi, and thanks for help in advance. Forgive me if this sounds way too cliche. Well, there's a girl I started to like Saturday. At first I thought it was one of those things where it passes in a day. But, when I woke up Sunday morning, she was...
A. 2 May 2009: Well, I'm very unpopular with kids at my school, so I don't think I could do anything like that. I mean, I could try, but I don't think it'd work. ... (read in full...)
Will objectivism interfere with my relationships?
Q. Hello. I am a very strong Objectivist. I really beleive in it, and have an attitude of "If the world does not care, screw them" and "No people, no welfare, no emotions". I end up hating myself for loving/liking people and becoming attached to them, ...
A. 28 April 2009: Well, I have a girl in mind, but I hate the very thought of loving her, it makes me feel vulnerable. All I want to do is hate people, or dislike them. I NEVER want to be in love with them. I can'st stand the thought. I do not like the very prospect ... (read in full...)
Will objectivism interfere with my relationships?
Q. Hello. I am a very strong Objectivist. I really beleive in it, and have an attitude of "If the world does not care, screw them" and "No people, no welfare, no emotions". I end up hating myself for loving/liking people and becoming attached to them, ...
A. 27 April 2009: I'm not saying I can't, or that the PHILOSOPHY is against it, I'm saying I am. I hate loving people, and I'd rather never love someone in my life yet love material things than people.... (read in full...)
Will objectivism interfere with my relationships?
Q. Hello. I am a very strong Objectivist. I really beleive in it, and have an attitude of "If the world does not care, screw them" and "No people, no welfare, no emotions". I end up hating myself for loving/liking people and becoming attached to them, ...
A. 26 April 2009: First, I'd prefer you'd not pray for me, I'm an atheist, which is another facet of Objectivism. Objectivism doesn't mean literal "being disattached". It is a capitalist philosophy, also atheist, founded by Ayn Rand and perpetuated through the ... (read in full...)
Will objectivism interfere with my relationships?
Q. Hello. I am a very strong Objectivist. I really beleive in it, and have an attitude of "If the world does not care, screw them" and "No people, no welfare, no emotions". I end up hating myself for loving/liking people and becoming attached to them, ...
A. 26 April 2009: Also, there is a girl I like, I just started a few hours ago, she's who I was talking about in the last post. I'm worried that these things will interfere in a relationship with her and myself. Also, I'm horrible at small-talk and I am not sure how ... (read in full...)
I just got married but already lusting after our men
Q. i just recently married. He is away for a year(legal reasons) and i am lusting for another man. i want to pursue but i love my husband. i dont think i can go a year without sex. would it be so terrible to pursue an affair? what do i do?? how can i ...
A. 26 April 2009: It depends on your veiw. First of all, you need to figure out where you both stand on this issue, preferrably by talking to yourself and him about it. If you are going to keep it secret, then absolutely don't do anything like this at all. It creates ... (read in full...)
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