I had an affair. My husband forgave and now that I'm no longer cheating, I can't decide if my husband is "the one." The indecision is killing us
Q. I have been married for almost 16 years now (together since high school). I had an affair for just over a year. We broke up last summer because of it but got back together. I continued to cheat with the same man. My husband recently found out ...
A. 2 May 2011: I am very much in love with the man I had an affair with but I recently broke it off. He went back to his wife. I am heartbroken and torn apart. I miss him more than I imagined I would. I don't want to be with my husband now. It's just not the ... (read in full...)
Should I take the initiative with a woman I like?
Q. There's a woman I like and we have gone out together a couple of times. I make a point of keeping in touch with this woman through e-mail and phone calls. She seems responsive to me and even encourages me to stay in touch, and she seems happy to ...
A. 19 April 2011: I'm in a similar situation but I'm the girl "chasing" the guy!! I've stopped pursuing him right now, even though it's killing me, ugh. I'm always the 1st to text and show initiative. It's annoying now. I want/need to know he cares. So I hold out ... (read in full...)
Intense urge to have babies...and I'm only 15!!
Q. I want a child, but I am too young; what should I do? I am only 15, but I feel very intense urges to have many children. I have been able to have a child for 5 years, biologically, and I have been in puberty for half my life, but it is only in the ...
A. 12 February 2011: NO, it is not normal to feel that way at 15! You need to seek some advice from a therapist before you ruin your young life. Concentrate on school, sports, music, other activities to occupy your mind and time. Get fullfillment elsewhere in a ... (read in full...)
So sad... How do I mend my broken heart?
Q. How do I mend my broken heart? my husband left me 3 weeks ago for another woman he has been seeing on and off for years. will their relationship last i so want to see it spiral down the toilet. i can't sleep or eat my whole world has ended. i feel ...
A. 8 February 2011: **COWARD** that is what he is!!! Find another man, a new hobby, new friends. Go out and occupy your mind and time with other things. He is pitiful!... (read in full...)
(preferably guys) do you agree with this?
Q. Do you agree with this? ---- "when guys who keep trying to flirt with you but also make clear to you that he's not going to have a relationship with you... he's just trying to find a f*ck buddy or friends with benefits" If you don't agree with...
A. 7 February 2011: It's extremely difficult to be friends with benefits. Take it from me. Emotions come into play and you can't help it. You fall in love. Unless, of course there is no connection. If he doesn't want a relationship with you then tell him to find ... (read in full...)
Does it mean anything when a man holds your face when he kisses you?
Q. Does it mean anything when a man kisses you and holds your face? He cups your face with both hands but is he sending you a message also? Not all men do this? Just looking for opinions? thanks!...
A. 6 January 2011: I do it to a man that I absolutely adore! Maybe, he adores you big time. It's an awesome way to kiss. Don't you just love it. Very romantic and embracing.... (read in full...)
Unsure about having sex for the first time....
Q. recently my boyfriend and i have talked about having sex, but just never had the chance and we are waiting on the right momment.. i am still not sure of it all to be honest with my self and he said to me ive always wanted to try it doggy style, i ...
A. 4 January 2011: How old are you? If you are 13, you should NOT have sex!! Good God that is way too young! Please, save yourself for a more mature age. Don't let the guy pressure you. Let him go find it somewhere else. At 13 you should be concentrating you ... (read in full...)
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