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We're ready to move our relationship up a notch... how is this usually done?

Q.   Hey... I'm 18 and I have very little experience with the whole "dating" thing. I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of months, and I think we are ready to move up a notch in our relationship (I'm talking physically here)... Ok, I should say I ...

A.   16 February 2009: Its always difficult moving things on, Oh the memories lol. With me i found that things always flowed naturally and nothing was forced. My best advice would be try talking to him and get his perspective on things, maybe he's not ready? As with any ... (read in full...)

Engaged, but confused and unhappy and crying over this situation!

Q.   Good Morning I am a 28yr old female. I have been married once before and was cheated on in my last marriage. I also have been cheated on in all of my past relationships. I have been with my current man for 2 years and we just recently got engaged so ...

A.   9 January 2009: I think that every couple have their bad times and this is one for you. From what you have said the man just feels a bit abandoned and needs a bit of TLC and so do you. You are so scared that you past will repeat itself that subcounsiously your ... (read in full...)

Part of me wants to keep the baby, but my partner want to have an abortion.

Q.   Hi im 20 and have recently just found out that im 10weeks pregnant.I have also only been with my partner for 4 months who thinks i should have an abortion. I have always said that i wanted to have a husband and proper home before i have a kid, but ...

A.   6 January 2009: These kinds of decisions are so hard to make. My best advice is to ignore any influence from your boyfriend as although you know what he thinks you cannot let it affect yours. I think that the best advice that i could give you is that we all set ... (read in full...)

How can we stimulate a MMF threesome with just the two of us?

Q.   ok i am engaged and i love my partner deeply, she is the love of my life. i have a fantasy, i would love to have a mmf threesome with her, the thought of watching her oral perform on another man, or having another man in here excites me alot. now ...

A.   6 January 2009: Threesomes have always been a popular fantasy of many couples and really that is where it should stay. Many couples that do carry this fantasy out find that the trust has been broken and this is the end of the relationship. I think the best way to ... (read in full...)

Turning 30 soon and dreading it...

Q.   I'm turning 30 and feeling old. I have nothing to look forward to. I am scared of turning 30. I really feel so old, unmarried and still living at home....

A.   6 January 2009: Don't worry I think this happens to all of use! But age is just a number! Its a New Year set a goal for yourself like I will find myself a partner or a house, What do you want most and just little steps to achieve this anything is possible just take ... (read in full...)

My housemates make bets on me gaining weight and love it!

Q.   OMG, I am not sure how to react to this, My housemate just came back from a night out, walked into the bathroom and upon seeing me on the scale started to laugh. She was obviously drunk and when I asked why she was laughing her response was she...

A.   4 January 2009: I am so sorry! Your friends are horrible! If they make those kinds of bets then obviously they arn't your friends. You are right in feeling the way that you do, If i were in your shoes I would move.... (read in full...)

I fancy my dermatologist... is she too old for me?

Q.   Okay this is an add on to a earlier question I have asked! Once again I am an almost 18 year old virgin who hasn't kissed a girl. My Dermatologist who is also my regular doctor is quite beautiful. I know she is divorced and she has children. Sh...

A.   3 January 2009: Don't worry! You have to remember that she sees thousands of people a month and that she has been trained professionally to deal with others with an embrassing and difficult conditions. Although I eould suggest that you let this episode past and not ... (read in full...)

How can I confront my step brother about me and him needing to stop?

Q.   im am nerly 16 and ma step brother is 17 but when i was 10 he did sexual things to me and i thought i was ok...it stoped when i went to live with my mum which was wen i was 12 but now i know it was wrong but im with my dad alot and everytime im ...

A.   3 January 2009: I understand exactly how you feel. All I can say is that you have to tell someone! This is wrong and you are not to blame, this is what i suffered with the most is that i didnt want to tell in case i disapointed my family. All i can say is please to ... (read in full...)

Am I being stupid for feeling angry about this?

Q.   Im really fuming here and i need someones opinion and advice. Here goes... My manager is on maternity leave and we have another temporary manger in to cover. She is ok-we all just put our head down and get on. Now on 1 day in december i was w...

A.   3 January 2009: you are definately right in feeling the way you do, she has acted unfairly! You are right bite the bullet and don't say anything it woun't be long till she leaves.... (read in full...)

Why is he still talking to me?

Q.   I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 months on and off. He had commitment issues and couldnt handle our relationship and ended up breaking up with me. He insisted that we still be friends as he didnmt wat to lose me. We've hung out once since our break ...

A.   3 January 2009: I've had a simular issue with my Ex who i had been with for 3 years, there really isn't much of an answer to this question. I guess the reason why he does this is because he has feelings for you but doesnt want the relationship ties. it sounds like ... (read in full...)

How can we control our obsessed neice so she doesn't get her feelings hurt?

Q.   my niece is 15 she told my dad she was obsessed with a girl that she was friends with for a long time.. so she wants to be with her that bad.. she lives with her mom.. so how do we control her with out getting her feelings hurt by this person? ...

A.   3 January 2009: There really isn't anything that you can do! She's 15 and thinks she knows it all, I doubt it if she will listen if you tell her to stay away. My best advice is just to let her know that if her friend doesn't return her feelings their friendship ... (read in full...)

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