I am thinking about doing kinky photoshoots with my sister. What do you think?
Q. I know this'll sound really weird but here goes....my older sister works as an escort/adult model and,as i'm an amateur photographer,i've done some promo shots for her recently.no nudity or anything,just poses and some bondage stuff.i've got a real ...
A. 21 December 2006: To be honest I think if you make a habit of this it could get kinky and you would both be crossing a boundary, despite the no sex rule. Tickling and tying still involves some intimate touching in a potentially sexual situation. Also I'm not too ... (read in full...)
I like this guy, but the age difference is a barrier. What should I do?
Q. I have this good guy friend of mine whom i like and im sure he likes me too but our age difference is up to 16.This has been a barrier between us,what should i do....
A. 21 December 2006: Hiya, since you are in the 18-21 age group you are obviously over age and I think it would be OK to get together if this is what you both want to do. But I know I'm biased because I'm in a wonderful relationship with a man who is 18 years older ... (read in full...)
After 21 years of marriage he left me for a 20 year old. But will he be back?
Q. hi can anyone help me with this question please try. my husband left me 4 months ago. he is 40 after 21 years of marrige im just about over this still get down at times. this is first christmas apart. but he has now movied in with a 20 year old ...
A. 19 December 2006: It sounds like you have some really great friends who are doing their best to comfort and reassure you in this difficult time. But I guess no-one can say for sure whether your husband will either come to his senses after a mid life crisis (if this ... (read in full...)
They treat me like I'm dumb!
Q. I am not sure if my husband respects me. My family loves him and I don't want people to know this. He treats me like I am dumb. I never realized it before but I have fed into. I find myself saying things like don't ask me like I would know. My ...
A. 18 December 2006: It's interesting how you have got into this pattern of behaviour - my guess is you are acting as if you are dumb around them as your confidence has been gradually eroded over time by their comments and the way they act towards you. So they now ... (read in full...)
A friend but not a lover, how can I keep him at arms length?
Q. My ex , has started being really realy nice to me ! .. he bought me an xmas present , he hugs me all the time , tells me he likes my picture =S i dont want him to fall in love with me like he did last time , because i know me and him wont work h...
A. 18 December 2006: Hiya. Nope, you can't stop his feelings - we cannot stop how other people feel, we all have responsibility for our own feelings and he must take responsibility for his and how he is acting on them. If he falls in love with you then that's his ... (read in full...)
Nasty fella just with me for sex?
Q. Whenever my boyfriend gets wasted he ends up arguing with me and splitting up with me. He apologises the next day and acts like nothing happened. But i hurt for ages after. On sat night, he was downing shots of wine in a game, and it brought a real ...
A. 18 December 2006: Honey, I'm sorry but I think you really deserve so much more than being treated like this. I know you love him and it hurts right now but I'd ditch him, he sounds horrible. His behaviour is just not OK, whether it's owing to booze or not. He is ... (read in full...)
Stop my period!!
Q. I'm on the pill, is there a way to stop a period from starting? I have a special week coming up and it conflicts with a certain unwanted visitor? ...
A. 18 December 2006: It's perfectly OK to run two packets of pills together now and then to stop your period and in the pill packet the info should tell you this. Just take one packet after another without a break. I've often done this myself when I've have a holiday ... (read in full...)
Fiance or best friend?
Q. I am engaged to my long time love of 10 years, but I am in love with his best friend, who has recently pronounced his love to me. we want to be together, because we have felt this way for years now, but don't want to hurt my fiances feelings or he ...
A. 18 December 2006: Please don't marry a man you don't love as it won't work out in the longer term, however much you want to protect him. It isn't fair on either of you. He does deserve to be with a woman who loves him wholeheartedly. Accept he is going to be hurt, ... (read in full...)
Is she being honest or is something going on?
Q. I have been married for 14 years and suspect my wife is now having an affair. She attended a night out with the girls and had arranged a lift there and back with a female friend for midnight. When i woke at 3.30am i found her still not home, on ...
A. 18 December 2006: Hiya
Like you I'm puzzled as to what's going on but I really don't think your wife's recent behaviour necessarily means that she is having an affair. I think it's important to take her explanation at face value about what happened that night, a... (read in full...)
Sex with woman on top...does the guy move or does he just let her move?
Q. when having sex and the woman is on top... does the guy stay still and the woman moves? the guy moves? or both? ...
A. 18 December 2006: Just do it, try it, laugh about it, see what happens! There are no rights or wrongs! The worst thing that can happen is that she falls off! Have fun!... (read in full...)
We broke up but I'm pursuing friendship because I still love her!
Q. I've recently got out of a relationship that I was in for two months. The girl said that she wanted to be single and "right now isn't the best time for me to have a bf." I was kinda feeling the same so we broke up. I can't get her out of my head ...
A. 18 December 2006: I think it's worth hanging on in there, as it sounds like she's still attracted to you and did agree to go out with you again - it's just the timing that's wrong. I'm wondering if she's been hurt by a boyfriend before she got together with you? Or ... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex, could I be pregnant?
Q. i had unprotected sex 4 days before i was suppoesed to ovulate. iv heard that it is best to stay lying down for a bit, as i didnt do this is there still a chance i could get pregnant?...
A. 18 December 2006: Please, please don't have unprotected sex again as not only are you risking an unwanted pregnancy but you may also get a sexually transmitted disease and that would be horrible for you. Don't believe any myths or daft stories you may hear about not ... (read in full...)
He unsure about taking my virginity as he hurt someone else in this situation in his past! What can I do to convince him?
Q. I have been dating a guy for a year and a half now and I am ready to lose my virginity to him (I have been waiting for the right guy to come along, and he's the one). The problem is that he made a promise to himself that he would never take a girl's ...
A. 18 December 2006: It sounds like he could really do with talking through how he views his treatment of the girl he had sex with when he was younger. If he doesn't feel able to talk this through with you then maybe seeing a counsellor may help as I think there may be ... (read in full...)
She wants kids - I don't.
Q. im 22 been in relationship 1 yr and i think she wants a baby? i told her from start i dont ever want kids and am saving for vasectomy i love her but am i a bad person for not wanting kids?...
A. 18 December 2006: You are certainly not a bad person for not wanting children, many people don't! I think you are doing the right thing by making it clear to your girlfriend that this simply isn't on the agenda for you. Try to have a frank conversation, not just ... (read in full...)
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