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Sex with woman on top...does the guy move or does he just let her move?

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Question - (17 December 2006) 7 Answers - (Newest, 18 December 2006)
A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

when having sex and the woman is on top... does the guy stay still and the woman moves? the guy moves? or both?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006):

You don't have to move, per say, it's more for her to move herself and give her the pleasure she wants. She can control the speed and how "deep" things get.

That doesn't mean you lay prone and just day-dream. Touching and groping goes hand and hand. I play with my g/f's chest and rub her butt, thighs, sides, stomach, etc. Girls are very sensual and love it when you touch and rub all over. I also stimulate her clitoris quite often, which is a must of course!

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A female reader, scared16 +, writes (18 December 2006):

scared16 agony auntyou can do either. sometimes it is better 4 the boy if your gf just moves up and down on your top of u but try both and c wot u prefer have fun experimenting x x x

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A female reader, Nella +, writes (18 December 2006):

Just do it, try it, laugh about it, see what happens! There are no rights or wrongs! The worst thing that can happen is that she falls off! Have fun!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006):

I stay still, but with each hand on either side of her hip/waist, when she's having her orgasms, I help her grind me harder and faster. It seems to help her quite a bit. If she's riding me meaning going in an up and down motion, then I'll help her by moving in-sync with her movements. Sometimes, she likes to do all the work...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006):

I like to hold her hips and thrust up into her. My GF will sometimes lean forward and rest her hands on my chest. But it comes (no pun intended) down to what you and she like. Probably a little bit of both but do what works best!

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A male reader, TommyWoods +, writes (18 December 2006):

TommyWoods agony auntNo don't move a muscle take the opportunity to have her work it as it's a pleasant change of roles and don't be afraid to tell her to keep it moving. Remember all those times when you had a bad back and she couldn't careless...Don't stop Mr T don't stop! "Oh but my back. It's just not fair is it.

TommyWoods

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006):

What ever the mood strikes you, but definately move with her some of the time.

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