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Why am I hurting down there?

Q.   I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few months ago, and the area between my vagina and bum hurts, and it has been for about 3 days now. Is this normal? Please reply....

A.   2 November 2009:  Yes as far as im aware it is especially if it was the first time you slept together, if ur still worried pop in to see the nurse just to settle ur mind hope this helps x ... (read in full...)

Why am I hurting down there?

Q.   I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few months ago, and the area between my vagina and bum hurts, and it has been for about 3 days now. Is this normal? Please reply....

A.   2 November 2009:  Yes as far as im aware it is especially if it was the first time you slept together, if ur still worried pop in to see the nurse just to settle ur mind hope this helps x ... (read in full...)

I found a condom packet in his bag!

Q.   Condoms found in the bag I have been with my boyfirend for 9 months in a long distance relationship. we have managed to spend every weekend together for nine months and i love him so much. He is moving here to be with me in three weeks. This week...

A.   15 September 2009: Hi hope this helps but my boyfriend kept an old condom in his wallet for a few weeks when we first started going out and like your bf he was just lazy then finally took it out ! condoms do expire but stay greasy so i wouldnt worry you also have to ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my friend that the guy we both like has asked me out?

Q.   me and my best friend have both liked the same boy for ages last night he asked me out and i dont no what to say! i want to say yes but my friend really likes him as well and i dont want to upset her, she is my best friend so i dont no what to say ...

A.   15 September 2009: I think you need to ask your friend how she feels because everyone knows ur friends will always be there boyfriends come and go. you have to think is it worth risking a good friendship for a realtionship that could last 2 weeks ?? let me know if ... (read in full...)

How to learn to drink in moderation?

Q.   When I go to bars, I sometimes drink too much. Usually when I am with certain friends or when I am bored. Can anybody give me some advice on how to learn to drink in moderation? ...

A.   2 April 2009: try to order single drinks instead of double or you could drink one alchoholic drink and then a soft drink. You could also go out with a limited amount of money so you cant buy as many drinks ! hope this helps let me know thanks ... (read in full...)

Does he or does he not like me back?

Q.   I'm 19 years old and the guy is 20, so I'm getting pretty annoyed by his 'high school-like' behavior. Anyways, I'm really into him and the problem is that I have no idea if he likes me back or not. We can be all flirty one day: touching each othe...

A.   26 March 2009: i think you should do what your friends suggests and play it cool if he likes you then he will notice you wont have been payin him any attention and then you will be able to see if he really is intrested in you however if hes like this when your not ... (read in full...)

Can't keep erection while entering her...please help

Q.   Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have a unique problem. I was a virgin until I got married. However, I used to masturbate a lot and am theoretically educated about sex and protection etc. Now the problem is, during foreplay which both of us enjoy ...

A.   25 March 2009: ive read alot of questions like this is magazines so this is not a personal answer, but many of them suggest that you allow your partner to but the condom on as it can be distracting for the man. if not ann summers or any other adult shop will do a ... (read in full...)

Should I cut him off now or wait until I the abortion?

Q.   So, I was with my ex boyfriend for over two years. It was my first real relationship and I loved him very much, we did everything together. Well two weeks ago, we were arguing and he had told me he cheated on me out of anger. The next day he tell...

A.   25 March 2009:  you need to make the best decision for you !!! he may not always be there for you. He may be upset now but in the long term you may both realise it was the best decision for you. you need to talk to him and tell him why your having the abor... (read in full...)

Why is she so uncomfortable?

Q.   Split with an ex over a year ago, I found out she was seeing someone else. We all work in the same offices. I walk away wish her well and to my knowledge cause her no trouble. Throughout the year she has been very hot and cold with me without ...

A.   24 March 2009: i may be wrong but it seems to me as she may have realsied that she made a mistake but doesnt know how to make it right. mabey you should ask her for a drink and talk. its your decision if you want her back or not but she may need somewhere where it ... (read in full...)

I asked her out a week ago and she hasn't answered yet!

Q.   I broke up with my g/f 2 years ago and we both moved on. But recently I have started to want her again and whenever I hang out with her she acts like she likes me too. The only problem is that when I asked her out a week ago she didn't answer and ...

A.   24 March 2009: Maybe you need to give her some space, she may just need time to think so don't pressure her. Just be casual and show her what a nice guy you are and she may realise that she wants to be with you. Hope it helps ... (read in full...)

I met this guy and I can't stop thinking about him

Q.   Hi, lets get straight to the point, see, I met this guy one day. I was leaving the nailery, and it was him and a few of his co-workers, they worked with the water department in my city. As soon as I walked out the store they all were yelling and ...

A.   24 March 2009: just think do you really love this guy for who he is and what he does for you or do you love the idea of what you could be together ?? i think you need to find out if there is a chance you could be together if not there could be many decent guys out ... (read in full...)

My mate still thinks there is something there between my ex and I. What do you think?

Q.   Hi all at cupid, I'm mega confused at the moment, My ex broke up with me to get back with his ex gf the mother of his child, but he keeps talking to me on the phone, when I see him he flirts with me like we are still in a relationship, one of my ...

A.   24 March 2009: i think your right im sorry but it seems as though he has you as a backup plan ive been told "theres many more fish in the sea" at the time you dont think it but trust me there is ! there are alot of desent guys out there put on a fab dress go out ... (read in full...)

Do you think that it is probable that I could simply be a rebound?

Q.   Hi. There's this girl who I've liked, but I've never really done anything about it until recently when I started hanging out with her more. She just broke up with her BF, and she seems to like me too, but I'm worried that I could just be a rebound ...

A.   24 March 2009: I think you need to find more out about her relationship did she break up because she was unhappy ? if so then she may not have feelings for her ex and she does genreally have an intrest with you. Try dating at first dont go into a serious ... (read in full...)

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