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My BOSS wants to sleep with me what do I do????

Q.   ok so i had a job working at a coffee shop this guy use to come in every weekend and get coffee we always chatted very nice and good looking well than one day he asked me if i wanted to come work for him at a hotel and do like front dest work....i ...

A.   5 November 2008: DON'T!!! Don't lower yourself like that. your worth more than providing some jerk with his sex needs. trust me, you do not want to do this.... (read in full...)

I accidentally kicked him in his "family jewels" and now he won't talk to me.

Q.   My boyfriend and me went a party together yesterday. We got separated during the party. I didn't feel so I texted him saying I'm home. On the home I felt someone grab behind and I thought someone trying was kidnap me. I kicked him in family jewels. ...

A.   5 November 2008: he was trying to be sweet and romantic, you were trying to defend yourself. its noones fault, but hes still gonna be annoyed about damaging his pride...just tell him your so sorry and theres no way youd have done it if you new it was him, then ask ... (read in full...)

Is he being unfaithful after 6 years? I know he's been on gay dating sites!

Q.   Hi, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 years. I was surfing the internet this morning on our computer, when I came across something which really upset me. The computer is a new one and I've never notice before but it has a...

A.   5 November 2008: maybe he was just curious? and why're you telling his mum bout your relationship problems? lol... (read in full...)

His fantasy is to have a threesome. So should I tell him my fantasy of having sex with his brother?

Q.   My husband has shared his fantasies with me. He'd love to see me with another woman (I'm straight), he'd love us to be in a threesome with another woman, and a couple of other things. He wants to know my fantasies, but I just can't bring myself to ...

A.   2 July 2008: DON'T TELL HIM! It will crush him, he will hate himself and feel inadaquate to his brother. To be honest I think you shouldnt have got married if you fancied his brother.... (read in full...)

Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?

Q.   I am considering to lose my virginity seeing a prostitute. Now I would like to hear some people's advice who have been in a similar situation. I am male, 23 years old and suffer from a quite bad case of virginity - so to say. I have never even ...

A.   2 July 2008: Well...I woudlnt go round telling people i lost my v's to a prostitute....but at least youll be able to say your experienced. just dont mention who it was with/when it was.... (read in full...)

Why can't I walk down the street without feeling threatened by every other woman?!

Q.   I'm with my boyfriend two years, and he is absolutely wonderful. I am very much in love with him and believe he feels the same. We have recently moved in together, and are planning our future together. Although this all sounds wonderful, I see...

A.   2 July 2008: It is because of your past relationship. it is NOT your fault. (this is me assuming, but im probs right), after your past relationship, you were left wanting revenge, you felt angry, you felt beaten, you felt weak. back then you had nothing ... (read in full...)

I'm 17 and in a serious relationship. Now I feel I might miss out on something, like living a teenage life, and start feeling confused, what to do?

Q.   I am a 17 year old girl in a long-term relationship (1 year) with a 20 year old male. I cannot work out what I want - I love my boyfriend deeply but I am not sure if being in the relationship is what I want anymore. I have been sick for a long ...

A.   2 July 2008: your 17! what the hell are u giving your number to 25 year olds for! thats not what teenagers do! let me define britsh teenage life thesedays for you (i'm one of 'em): - Pretending to be drunk then actually getting drunk and saying you regre... (read in full...)

If he's a really nice guy in general and also the quiet type, how can I tell if he likes me?

Q.   Quick question how can you tell if a lad has feelings for you? Like if he's already your friend, well not close friend or anything but still. Of he's not the flirty type or anything. infact if he's really quiet? So how would you be able to tell if ...

A.   29 June 2008: I give you one magical word...MSN.... (read in full...)

I self-identify as straight, so why do I have these urges?

Q.   I self-identify as straight because i have sexual feelings for girls and am repulsed be the idea of anal/oral/kissing a guy; however, I've been having sexual feelings for my MALE best friend Could this be just because of a dry spell relationship...

A.   29 June 2008: Relax dude, you're not gay. every guy on earth goes through this ''am i gay/bi?'' patch. usually because they find themselves thinking of sex stuff with their bestmate. you might be bi...but hey, i dont know you, your sexuality is your choice.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend still gets mad about stuff I did in the past. Help me please!!

Q.   Hi, I have some issues, I feel totally lost, like I don't know where I'm going in this relationship! Ok, my bf and I have had our issues because he asked about my past early in the relationship, and I lied about it, and later when I came clean, he b...

A.   29 June 2008: Do NOT say any of the flowwing things to him: 1: I regretted it 2: I was drunk 3: I thought i was in love Your boyfriend obviously loves you so much, he can't stand the thought of you not being pure/not being on equal terms with him. this i... (read in full...)

Does my mother have a right to be mad at me for losing my virginity? I'm 20!

Q.   This will be long so i apologise in advance. I will start at the beginning. I have a boyfriend since february and am crazy about him. I am 20 and after a few weeks we slept together. It was my first time but it wasnt his. I was not pressuri...

A.   29 June 2008: Your mum is a b*tch. end of story. you have done nothing wrong.... (read in full...)

Ugly girls don't make guys feel insecure? Is there any truth in that?

Q.   Is this true what they say...as my friends said it last night, that a guy will only go out with ugly girls because he`s insecure, and he wont feel like that if she is ugly as no other guys will fancy her? Surley that ain't true....

A.   29 June 2008: everyone makes their own definition of beauty...love is blind. guys do feel more comfy with a less atrractive girl because theres less competition. But sometimes guy love a challenge, depends what kinda guy you want really...love is 20% looks an... (read in full...)

How do I ask my girlfriend to shave her pubic area?

Q.   Hi there, as i've become more sexually active with my partner, i've wanted to try more and more different things with her. However, she is very hairy 'down south' and I really can't think of anyway I could ask her politely, to shave her pubic ...

A.   29 June 2008: DO NOT ASK HER FRIENDS WHATEVER YOU DO! just try and slip it into conversation like ''well if you had a nice HAVEN then youd be more sexy'' or smething like that, and i think women like guys with a lil pubes, but not a full on bush (ps: trimming... (read in full...)

He masturbates to porn--would phone sex and webcam use make him masturbate to me??

Q.   Okay. So my boyfriend has been lying to me about masturbating to other girls for about a year. I found tons of porn on his computer yesterday. I am really angry at him and I was wondering if phone sex would make him masturbate to me? And possibly if ...

A.   27 June 2008: doing that would probably make him masterbate over you.... (read in full...)

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