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writes:I'm twenty and still a VIRGIN ALL THE WAY. i have never even kissed a boy and about to get married in a few short months to a man who is also a virgin and has also never "bin there done that" I'm pretty sure the only sexual action we have both gotten was masturbation but we both keep that off limits because we are both "good Christian kids". I need to know what to expect from that night. i keep my expectations low because everyone advises me to do so. but i need detail info on what to do, what might happen! what do i have to do as a woman? do i have to know some special trick? what?
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reader, ilovemybaby +, writes (6 April 2008):
 thank you guys for your comments they will be of help!
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 "good Christian kids"
Theres an Oxymoron if ever i heard one.
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reader, mattman +, writes (4 April 2008):
 Just a little reminder.
Dont forget to shave legs and trim elsewhere and be very clean. My first time she was rather all natural and not zest fully clean, I had a bad first time but thats o.k.
Also remember women are emotional men are physical , sexy music will help to set your mood and sexy lingerie will set his. Oils are a plus but make sure not to go overboared on those either. That could be a sticky mess. Dont forget moans and plenty of touching. Remember to pack a condom and lube"just in case" and dont forget to look him deeply in the eyes " that always does it for me".
Congrats on the wedding and holding the V card for so long Good job!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Congrats to you both!
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reader, Cindy303 +, writes (4 April 2008):
 Many congratulations for the wonderful event your about to take part in. Getting married is so beautiful and I hope you both have a wonderful and full life together. Making love for the first time can be a scary thing, especially if your worried about what it will feel like and what you will need to do on your part. I will admit, I was 21 before I had sex for the first time. I am glad I waited I was ready for the first time I had sex, and I just remember being so lost in the moment and the feelings I had were so intense that I honestly was not too worried. I would just take it slow. Being that your both still virgins and both unsure of what to expect, I think thats a good thing. Just getting to learn what you both like and what you dont like. Taking it slow and relaxing. I hope your wedding night is all you hope it will be. Again, Congratulations. Best of luck to you both. Cindy
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reader, Music Man +, writes (4 April 2008):
First Congrats! Virginity is going to save you and your husband much anguish in regards to sexual history, which can be crushing to bring to light. Take things slow, due to your inexperience I doubt you'll be thrown over the table. Massage oil is a great way for him to explore your body both physically and visually. Remember what he sees is very important so don't turn the lights out, but dim lighting or candles are ok. Music will help mask any potentially uncomfortable sounds that may happen during actually intercourse. It can be funny, just try not to laugh at him if he does something awkward. (remember he is literally having sex with the girl of his dreams... nerve racking, but empowering for you, so be sexy and let him see you) The more noise you make the more confident he will feel. Try to be honest about what you like or you may be getting some new moves you don't want in his repertoire. He may not be comfortable telling you what he likes so give him options by asking him how he wants you and actually moving to the position, because if you just ask him he may not have an answer, and its good ol' missionary all night. I can give you a few sensual non-sex things to get your engines revving if you want (ie... champagne in your belly buttlon and have him lick it out will probably make your toes curl it does for my girl.) I wish you two a long and healthy life together.
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