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Caught my daughter using a vibrator.

Q.   im a dad and i cauht my dauther using a vibrater in her room shes 12 and what should i do...

A.   17 April 2009: Okay this was obviously an embarrassing situation for you and her she is coming of age and exploring her body. Dont panic it doesn't mean she will be having sex she is just experimenting. Its very important that you talk to her about what you saw ... (read in full...)

After our breakup she tells me she was cheating on me for a year?? I still care!

Q.   Hi everybody, basicallly had a 2 yr relationship with a girl, I love her to bits still do, she broke it off over commitment issues, during the 2yrs i treated her like a queen (in hindsight not the best way to go). We have remained best friends over ...

A.   17 April 2009: I understand that you love her but she obviously didnt love you and as harsh as it seems you do need to move on its going to hurt for a while but you need to cut ties with her for a bit and clear your head untill your comfortable your feelings for ... (read in full...)

Should I look for a girlfriend at the moment?

Q.   Hi, don't know if this is the right place to ask this. Seeing a therapist due to neediness issues. Only thing is I'm still quite lonely and wondering if it's worth trying to get a girlfriend at the moment. Therapy could take a while to end and I'm ...

A.   17 April 2009: Have you thought about just having a friend you need to be single untill your issues are resolved but you can have friends who will get you through ask your therapist what they think. Good Luck... (read in full...)

First time help...

Q.   First of all I'm a girl not a guy and so I've been with my gf 8 months now and it's a online realtionship, well right now I'm going in 33 days to go be with her.... I'm so in love with her, she's my everything... we talk about sex all the time and ...

A.   17 April 2009: as a woman you will no yourself what turns you on this helps because you can do the same to her just take things nice and slow and ask her if she has anything she would like to try remember its both your first time so will be nerve racking my first ... (read in full...)

Will they still operate?

Q.   I'm having an operation tomorrow, and i'm feeling really ill. my temperature is 39 degrees celcius, i'm feverish and achy, will i still be able to go ahead with it or will the doctors refuse to operate, how can i make myself better...

A.   5 April 2009: you need to see a doctor get your gp to check you over paracetmol is usually good for high temp and feverish aches the doctor will decide if they'll operate but behonest with them on how you are feeling is for a good reason if they postpone the ... (read in full...)

His wife won't divorce him!

Q.   Okay so 3 years ago, the summer of 2006 I fell for this guy. He was a junior while I was a mear freshman. I was 15 at the time, and I wasn't ready to commit myself to someone yet. So I told him goodbye and we stopped talking. Then I dated this guy ...

A.   5 April 2009: I would suggest that he contacts a solictitor for more information if he leaves then summons her with a divorce but doesn't go anywhere near her she cant do anything like that also if she wants t talk to him she has to go through his lawer that way ... (read in full...)

I love her but haven't told her

Q.   Girls help me! I have a girl friend who i love but have not told. I dont know if she loves me but last few days she was asking me if i have a girlfriend,if i wanted to marry in the university(we are going to the same university),why i loved my ...

A.   5 April 2009: I would say she likes you to she was obviously curious about your love life i would tell her but do it before its too late. Good Luck let us know how u get on! ... (read in full...)

I am at my wits end with my girlfriend and her antics.

Q.   Ok bear with me here because this is a bit of a long story. I love my girlfriend and we have been living together for 6 months. The entire time we have been going out, she has never cared how I feel about anything. About 10 months ago, I ...

A.   5 April 2009: Hi There How did you get on when you spoke to her? If you feel that no matter what you say she'll do it anyway then she has no respect for your feelings in this relationship and i would tell her that. Ask her how she would feel if the shoe... (read in full...)

I am at my wits end with my girlfriend and her antics.

Q.   Ok bear with me here because this is a bit of a long story. I love my girlfriend and we have been living together for 6 months. The entire time we have been going out, she has never cared how I feel about anything. About 10 months ago, I ...

A.   3 April 2009: from the information here id say she probably does like him but the question is would she do anything about it we all are tempted but its whether you cross the line. I would tell her how you feel she is obviously using you or extremely lazy eit... (read in full...)

I have no friends any more...

Q.   On Facebook I wrote a status about a person I knew... but one of my friends saw it and thought it was about her and got really offended. Now she won't listen when I tell her it wasn't about her, she is convinced it is and she is calling me for all ...

A.   2 April 2009: It is very hard losing friends and of course you will feel alone without friends it is lonely but your other friends shouldn't get involved its nothing to do with them and even if she has said things to them they should confront you themselves. ... (read in full...)

I have no friends any more...

Q.   On Facebook I wrote a status about a person I knew... but one of my friends saw it and thought it was about her and got really offended. Now she won't listen when I tell her it wasn't about her, she is convinced it is and she is calling me for all ...

A.   2 April 2009: can i ask what you actually said? If it offended her then maybe it has some truth to it. my advice to you is to ask her why she thinks you would do such a horrible thing and explain what really happened if she wont listen send her a message ... (read in full...)

I'm scared she'll change her mind about the abortion.

Q.   ok I have a huge problem! My girlfriend is pregnant, we are both 16 and have both been responsible. I have no idea how it happened as we had thought about it before and she was on the pill and I wore a condom which didn't rip or anything. An ...

A.   2 April 2009: If your partner says to the doctor im doing it for him then no he will not allow her to do it, its a big decision for any woman especially at 16 and you shouldn't let her do it for you it should be her decision i would suggest a break with no ... (read in full...)

I just want to feel neutral towards him! Why haven't I moved on?

Q.   I really don't understand what is wrong with me! I just can't get over this guy! We were only together for a matter of months but I really fell for him in a big way! It's been 1 and a half weeks since it ended really badly (his fault-he cheated...

A.   2 April 2009: its only been a week and a half since you left him and you obviously cared about him even the shortest relationships need healing time after a break up you will find that it gets easier and you'll meet someone new my advice to you is to stay busy go ... (read in full...)

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