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anonymous
writes:On Facebook I wrote a status about a person I knew... but one of my friends saw it and thought it was about her and got really offended. Now she won't listen when I tell her it wasn't about her, she is convinced it is and she is calling me for all kinds. Thing is she has now spread a lot about me to all of my friends and now none of my friends want to be my friend any more because they think I have been being horrible about them all and I mean ALL of them, so I actually have no friends now.What am I going to do? (in advice please don't say it will blow over and it will all be ok, because I want to hear something other than that, some practical advice!)
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reader, Mummy08 +, writes (2 April 2009):
 It is very hard losing friends and of course you will feel alone without friends it is lonely but your other friends shouldn't get involved its nothing to do with them and even if she has said things to them they should confront you themselves.
i really feel for you i think you should start making new friends easier said then done believe me iv been there but with every friend you make you'll forget your old ones and see them as past tense.
Dont feel down what you need is someone to talk to and someone to give your confidence a boost then you can feel up to making new friends at the end of the day its there loss.
Please email if you want to talk some more if not good luck x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat i said was "your boyfriend isnt listed as in a relationship, because he is playing you" on about friends at work, as a joke. only she took it about her and her boyfriend. i have emailed her an all she says is that i am a nasty jealous bitch and all i do is lie. if i was just loosing her as a friend, yes it would hurt but i could sumhow find a way round it. but the point is.. she is taking literally ALL of my friends off me, by saying things and spreading things. i am actually left on my own with literally noone.
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reader, Mummy08 +, writes (2 April 2009):
can i ask what you actually said?
If it offended her then maybe it has some truth to it. my advice to you is to ask her why she thinks you would do such a horrible thing and explain what really happened if she wont listen send her a message apologise sincerely for the mistake (sometimes thats all its take and she will read it) if she doesnt reply then thats her choice but dont let that worry you its hard losing friends but they do come and go if she has be a constant good friend for many years then she should forget about it.
you can email me if you need advice i lost most of my friends a couple of years ago at first i was so hurt and worried all the time but then realised it wasnt my fault and have since made new friends.
hope this helps
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