My boyfriend wants a break but it is killing me. Is this the end of the relationship?
Q. My boyfriend of three and a half years decided that he needed to "take a break from the relationship". We still talk on a daily basis. He as even came to my house for us to see each other. He's been at my house three times this past week. When we ...
A. 28 February 2006: The ups and downs are expected, but you deserve better than someone who is not going to be there for you unless it is good for him. You are worth far more than he can offer. Good luck with the new job! :)
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Who's lying? My boyfriend, about his ex? Or the ex, about my boyfriend?
Q. Dear Cupid I was a stripper when I met my current boyfriend. He is 29 years older than me and well established in his business. When he asked me to stop stripping I didn’t think twice. Three months after we started dating I got pregnant. I now ...
A. 24 February 2006: Second what Irish said--you got caught in his BS and forget red flags--this guy has red spinnakers with neon. Huge. Frankly, he sounds like a married/taken man who is dong the "cake and eat it" thing. Obviously he is playing both sides of the ... (read in full...)
I think my married-soon-to-be-divorced boyfriend is just using me for sex!
Q. I have been with the same guy for 4 months now...almost 5. I just recently found out he was married and has a son. When I confronted him about it he said he was going thru a divorce. Then he told me that he stays in touch with her to see his son but ...
A. 22 February 2006: Oh absolutely. He is using the classic lines of married man getting some on the side. "He is in the middle of a divorce"..."staying because of the kid"..."friend's house." The poster who said she is at work when he sees you, and is classic MM is ... (read in full...)
How will he view me if we have anal sex?
Q. I am in new relationship, we are very much in love and we're happy. The sex is good, it wasn't to begin with, which we discussed and now it's good and getting better all the time. However we recently discussed Anal sex and I'm worried now that If I ...
A. 22 February 2006: In reply to anonymous male, if this was a long term relationship I would definitely agree that he is wanting to get as intimate as humanly possible. Since this is new, according to our questioner, I question his motives. In the first couple of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a break but it is killing me. Is this the end of the relationship?
Q. My boyfriend of three and a half years decided that he needed to "take a break from the relationship". We still talk on a daily basis. He as even came to my house for us to see each other. He's been at my house three times this past week. When we ...
A. 22 February 2006: Hi Venetia. If you are not good enough to spend the night with, and he wants space (and sex) he has turned you into a booty call. He indeed WAS going to use you for sex (been there, done that, not going back.) You did not fall for his BS and asked ... (read in full...)
How will he view me if we have anal sex?
Q. I am in new relationship, we are very much in love and we're happy. The sex is good, it wasn't to begin with, which we discussed and now it's good and getting better all the time. However we recently discussed Anal sex and I'm worried now that If I ...
A. 22 February 2006: It is a definite possibility--men will definitely push the envelope with women they don't really care about because they can--they don't see her as "the one" (whom they would never dream of asking this.) Since this is a new relationship and you ... (read in full...)
Why won't he just make a date with me?
Q. A guy I went out on a date with constantly ends our converstions with "Call me if you want to hang out" or "Call me when you're free". I think if a guy wants to ask a girl out, he should just ask. I don't want to feel like I have to call him and ask ...
A. 22 February 2006: Well, because he is not that into you. Yes, this very issue was addressed in the book of the same title; "he is just not that into you if he is not asking you out." If he is asking you to do the legwork for him, then he is not diggin' on you like ... (read in full...)
Why do bright attractive women fall in love with married men? Help me understand
Q. I am a 38 yr old attractive, intelligent woman. My problem is that I am in love with a married man. His marriage is loveless there is no physical contact and has not been for 3 years. He has 2 children 11yrs 4 yrs owns his own business and ...
A. 22 February 2006: I have to agree with the anonymous male at the bottom of the page; married men know how to treat you like a goddess and do not intrude on your life. Most single men do not treat women well (unless you are blonde, size 2 and under the age of 30, ... (read in full...)
He cheated and we worked through it. Then I cheated too and my husband walked out!
Q. I really need your advice. My life is such a mess. I'm married to the man of my dreams but we have been seperated for about two months. The seperation was hard for me to take and still is, to the extent where I tried to take my own life. I even saw ...
A. 22 February 2006: An interesting stat is that over 80 percent of wives who find out their H is cheating will stay with them. However, 79 percent of men who find out their W cheated kick her out. I think we can do well to emulate the men and never take back a cheat. ... (read in full...)
Any way I can tell if the married man I'm dating will leave his wife, kids, for me?
Q. Why did i have to start dating a married man! It's been almost a year now, he's in his late 30s and says that, even though he loves me, he won't leave his wife because they have been together since she was 16 and they have children together and so ...
A. 22 February 2006: I know of married people who left the spouse and stayed with the other person. However they are too few to count. It has been observed that if a married is in an affair longer than six months, he/she has no intention of leaving. In your case, ... (read in full...)
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