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... Send *issTHANG a private message | | | *issTHANG's profile:I am not a PH.D nor do I play one on TV. I've just always had the ability to look at a situation from all angles AKA - SEE the BIG picture.
I live in California with my boyfriend, our roomates and our two Pit Bulls, Fluffy and Piglet.
I write song lyrics, poetry, and ribald humor (all three of those things make me tick).
I like to help people put another spin on whatever their situation is - that they may have been unable to see in the past. I have found it's like an epiphany when you see suddenly see something that was previously hidden - it sets YOU free as well as builds you compassion for the other person.
Although I have a blog that is serious, the one below is nothing but off the wall, inappropriate (at times ) humor |
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How do I get him to overcome his commitment issues?
Q. I have been talking to this guy for about 2 and a half months. We have been really hitting it off. We both absolutely like each other and have soo much in common its like seeing myself in a mirror. he treats me like his girlfriend, he h...
A. 3 August 2010: My friend, I HAVE been in your shoes, and had those same arguments. And, like I said before, I COULD BE WRONG. It's just something to think about, because you sound like me when it comes to giving a person every benefit of the doubt that ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to overcome his commitment issues?
Q. I have been talking to this guy for about 2 and a half months. We have been really hitting it off. We both absolutely like each other and have soo much in common its like seeing myself in a mirror. he treats me like his girlfriend, he h...
A. 1 August 2010: Dear "waiting"
I hate to say this but I don't think he has a "committment" issue. It sounds more like his has a "game playing" issue. And I'll tell you why.
Kissing, holding hands, and making out are things a guy and a girl can do if they're a ... (read in full...)
How can you restore intimacy to a relationship?
Q. I just want to know how you can get the intimacy back into a relationship. And what excactly is intimacy? Ideas??...
A. 29 July 2010: Dear Intimacy,
My best definition for intimacy in a relationship is when you both feel comfortable enough to bare your souls to each other, accept each other - faults and all - and to each of you, the other person is the only person you're g... (read in full...)
Why is it so difficult for me to break up with her?
Q. I've been in a long distance relationship for 2 years now. We get along very well for the most part. I've never experienced anything close to this before and it's confusing me really bad. I've been in 8 relationships over the past 20 years and ...
A. 29 July 2010:
Dear Purgatory,
It sounds to me that although you genuinely seem to care for her, you subconciously know that she isn't going to fit into the life you have planned for yourself at this time.
Does this make sense? There's nothing wrong with c... (read in full...)
My partner left me after I asked for him to show me more affection!
Q. I am posting this topic to receive as much advice as I can. I have been involved with a man for 6 months now, he was an ex cop but left the force in order to take care of his child full time and I had taken on the immediate role of an unofficial ...
A. 28 July 2010: Dear Needs more Affection,
As painful as it sounds, this is probably the best thing that could have happened, in the long run anyway. Because it sounds as if the man's child IS all he can handle at this moment - and it appears he was barely a... (read in full...)
Is it worth fighting for him, when he fancies someone out of his league!!?
Q. My boyfriend recently told me (after I asked on a whim) that he has a crush on another girl. They work together at the university. He says that it's only a crush and he doesn't "like" her. In fact, he says that she's so above his league that he ...
A. 28 July 2010: Dear Worth Fighting For,
Normally, I can see both sides of a story, but in this case I am of the opinion that he's not only NOT worth fighting for, but also NOT worth your time and trouble.
To be told "Not to worry" that you will ever be lef... (read in full...)
What do I do about the towel/tampons?
Q. Hey, this is entirely embarrassing for me so please don't laugh or leave a patronizing message. I'm 15 and have recently gotten with my boyfriend, we're fine and comfortable - everything that I expect from him. But even the best trust stops ...
A. 26 July 2010: Dear Embarrased Girl,
You can do a couple of things.
First, you should level with your boyfriend, and just say something like, "Hey, I don't know any other way to bring this up, but it's "that time" for me - how do you feel about this is re... (read in full...)
Should I have given her the song?
Q. Ok so i liked this girl at camp, and longstory short I told her I liked her but was a coward and stalled the conversation for a half hour (we were playing truth or dare and she dared me to tell her who I like). I had planed to tell her I liked her ...
A. 26 July 2010: Dear Song Writer,
You are welcome. Hope it all goes well for you!... (read in full...)
How do I respond to my dad's email saying I have wasted my life?
Q. hello dearcupid.org I was at my friends for 5 days in the southern country. When I came back here I noticed my dad had emailed me. We never have done so great but its always been bearable apart from some random rage conversations mostly about how...
A. 26 July 2010: Dear Disappointed, First of all, know something it took me years to realize when it comes to the parent/child relationship. 1. Your parents DO love you, but they are NOT perfect, they are NOT all-knowing beings of light like we are taught to b... (read in full...)
Should I have given her the song?
Q. Ok so i liked this girl at camp, and longstory short I told her I liked her but was a coward and stalled the conversation for a half hour (we were playing truth or dare and she dared me to tell her who I like). I had planed to tell her I liked her ...
A. 26 July 2010: Dear Song Writer, I understand about the Face book thing, my niece and nephew are forbidden to have one themselves - they should assign those rules to some of the grown ups who have them as well - but I digress. When you say she seemed "mad" ... (read in full...)
Should I have given her the song?
Q. Ok so i liked this girl at camp, and longstory short I told her I liked her but was a coward and stalled the conversation for a half hour (we were playing truth or dare and she dared me to tell her who I like). I had planed to tell her I liked her ...
A. 25 July 2010: Dear Song writer,
There are many ways to go about finding someone who has taken off, even if you don't have normal venues in which to get the information - like asking a friend who knows her address, or the girls relatives.
Check online ... (read in full...)
Should I have given her the song?
Q. Ok so i liked this girl at camp, and longstory short I told her I liked her but was a coward and stalled the conversation for a half hour (we were playing truth or dare and she dared me to tell her who I like). I had planed to tell her I liked her ...
A. 25 July 2010: Dear Song Writer,
Having been around a long time before you, I would have to say ...YES. And, I'll tell you why:
First, you like this girl and the song came from your heart. What's the worst that could happen? She rejects you and your song, a... (read in full...)
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