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This relationship has me so messed up! HELP!

Q.   i really need some help im in year 12 and i had a boyfriend for 2 years who im pretty sure was my first love in the first year of our relationship we had so much fun and couldnt get enough of each other and spent all of our time together and he...

A.   13 December 2008: First of all, i admire you so much for spilling all of this, hopefully it's at least a tiny bit of a weight off your shoulders to get it out there. However, you obviously need somebody to talk to, who can really help, can you really not talk to your ... (read in full...)

I told him I want to wait but he carries on asking me. Is he desperate for sex?

Q.   Well av bin with my boyfriend a few months now. He is a virgin and so am I, he is always asking me if I wanna trade v's with him, I mean I do but I want to wait so its special i have already told him this but he carries on asking me. Is he desperat...

A.   23 November 2008: Good advice from MissKin. Whatever you do, don't change your mind until you're absolutely certain it's what YOU want to do. You'll regret it if you do. Good luck bubz xx... (read in full...)

What is the differance between a man admiring beauty and lusting after a woman?

Q.   I would like to ask everyone's opinion. What is the difference between a man looking at a woman and admiring her beauty, vs a man looking at a woman and lusting? ...

A.   28 October 2008: I suppose that admiration and lusting is the reason behind it. If you lust after someone it implies that you would like to act on how you're feeling towards them. However if you just admire their beauty, like a piece of art, and it never evens ... (read in full...)

Should I get my ex boyfriend a birthday present?

Q.   Me and my ex broke up in June we were goin out for 2 months i still like him so much he was my 1st bf,i think im in love with him.But i no he wants to stay friends. Straight after the break up we remained really close every1 thought we were still ...

A.   12 October 2008: So what's the situation now? You're talking as mates but not as close as you used to be? You could get him something friend-ish like chocolate, i wouldn't get him anything big though cos then it'll seem like you really like him. Think why you broke ... (read in full...)

Breaking up with him seems extreme, but I can't stop obsessing over his porn watching!

Q.   Well this isn't a very original problem, except for now its happening to me and although a lot of questions I have been reading hit close to home, I have to ask anyway... My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 years and living together ...

A.   28 August 2008: Try to take a step back and chill. Done? ok good. You have a few options, but you need to think about how important this issue really is, it obviously matters quite a lot to you, so he should respect that. Try and work out why it bothers you so m... (read in full...)

Can someone help me sort out some dating issues?

Q.   I have a few issues on my mind currently, i'll put them in one lot and make it brief so i may get answers. a)My ex, who now has a girlfriend, decided to message me saying he still loves me, and when him+his gf split, would i take him back? (i tol...

A.   16 August 2008: Thank you Psycookie, these answers were in my head all along but i just needed some reassurance, i'm so glad i was right. Also,this afternoon the person my friend was cheating on told her they could no longer see each other, and she split with her... (read in full...)

What do women find attractive in a man???

Q.   What do women find atractive in a man? I want your opinion, thanks to those of you who answer, its well appreciated....

A.   16 August 2008: It really does depend on the woman/girl. But in general a nice guy. For me- good sense of humour,listener, kind, sweet, likes the same kinda stuff as me-music/art, but still has his own interests, who had good morals too-no cheating/lying etc and ... (read in full...)

Does he still want me as a friend?

Q.   I need help please this is really upsetting me. My best friend (male) has a boyfriend (also male). My best friend began to tell me a few days ago that he missed me and regretted leaving me because things were going bad with him and his boyfriend. He ...

A.   16 August 2008: I know how you feel about being needed so much, and then thrown to the back burner when someone new turns up. It sounds like your friend is having a confusing time at the moment. Had your best friend only recently decided he liked males? Or had it ... (read in full...)

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