When I go to church my new hubby watches porn. Makes me feel unworthy and small and picture him doing it.
Q. I don't know what to do. My relatively new husband is surfing porn. It makes me feel unworthy and small, unattractive and all the rest. He tries to tell me that he isn't fantasizing about other women but I feel it is the first step he is takin...
A. 13 October 2008: honey i get where your coming from , last year i found my husband watching porn and went mad some friends of mine said i was stupid , they said they watched it with there husbands and that i sould try it , must admit i thought they were perves but ... (read in full...)
Every bit of me wants to leave and be with him but then I think of my children and that my husband does love me?
Q. My husband has been extremely hard to live with for the past few years. He has wanted to control every aspect of our lives. If I let the cats out there would be a big upset that lasted hours until the cats were home again. He made me feel ...
A. 24 August 2008: i answered just now before i logged in , i told you too make yourself happy , im going through the same thing so if u want to tell me more put me down as a friend , maybe i could help ... (read in full...)
What does this phrase mean?
Q. Question for the agony aunts. What does this phrase mean? "What goes on tour stays on tour". This is regarding my husband's trips away with a couple of friends.(some are day trips and some are overnight/two days away in another country) It is ...
A. 13 February 2008: it means if they do something they shouldnt while their away eg sleep with someone, then its not to get back to the people at home ( their wives)... (read in full...)
My interest is still afraid of commitment. What to do?
Q. Have posted about this before and still need advice. Relationship ended after 6 months because he is afraid of commitment, terribly hurt by his previous long term relationship (which unfortunately for me ended quite recently), and wants to be ...
A. 2 October 2007: to start with not sleeping with him is the right thing to do and he needs to pull himself out of the past , so i think u should show him what hes missing , play hard to get for instance why not try dateing somone else for five , to show him u wont ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her to trim her hairy private area?
Q. My lady friend is rather hairy around her private area, how could i ask her to trim it without wrecking any further chances?...
A. 1 October 2007: can i just ask why its such a big problem , im the same in that department and as much as i love my husband i would not shave and have to put up with the horrid itchy feeling u always get for days after . u try it then ask her .... (read in full...)
My guy broke it off w/ me b/c his mate got upset. Now he's seeing someone who's a "safe bet." What should I do?
Q. I wonder if anyone can help me, it's a bit complicated. I was seeing a guy, we get on great, have great sex and we are still very fond of one another. The only thing is I went on a few dates with one of his very good friends before we got it...
A. 24 September 2007: If you like this guy, don't let this other girl get him first and his friend is an ass wipe. I think you should lay the cards on the table for him, tell him you think the two of you have a future and that you care for him a lot, but you won't wait ... (read in full...)
How do you get someone to slow down that you have recently started seeing? If they are your ex husband from 16 yrs ago..
Q. Hi How do you get someone to slow down that you have recently started 'seeing'? If they are off on a tangent wanting to tell their children about you, wanting you to meet them. I feel really confused at the moment about it all because i am petrifi...
A. 24 September 2007: people are always saying u only live once and its true , stop worrying and enjoy your saturday night , if you cant keep your hands off each other that just shows theres a good amount of fire left from the past. why denie your body of the thing it ... (read in full...)
I've re connected with someone from 20 yrs ago. He isnt single. The guilt is terrible. What should I do?
Q. I am older than probably most people that post here but recently I reconnected with someone from my past that I haven't seen in over 20 years and I feel like I have come home in a sense. I cared for him back then and those feelings have not ...
A. 24 September 2007: if hes married it aint the best situation but if he feels the same about u then whats the point in hiding the way u feel , ive always tryed to please people in my life and its not getting me anywhere , my advice is to do what makes u happy.... (read in full...)
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