How do I get my sister-in-law to back off asking about us having children?
Q. My brother and sister-in-law are pregnant. I am married. The problem is my sister-in-law keeps on asking me questions like "When are you and your wife are going to have kids?" and making comments such as "It would be nice if our kid will have so...
A. 5 July 2021: Hi there, I can relate, although I have no kids of my own but i am a school teacher and I come from a middle eastern background so pressures of marriage and having kids is second nature to me. I have personally lived and experienced what it as li... (read in full...)
We want to move back to the US but with everything going on we don't know if we could swing it financially
Q. We're American expats residing in Mexico, and both really want to move back due to the current crisis, but have worries; finding a job and racism. My husband does NOT want to take a McJob, claiming "At 48, I'm too old", and he says he can't do...
A. 5 July 2021: Dear Friend, I can only imagine how a move can cause such stress and anxiety for the both of you, especially since covid, restrictions etc. However a few things, why not take baby steps first, can you stay with family in IL for a short period... (read in full...)
How to improve my dating life, and how to understand the gay dating scene
Q. I am a 35-year-old man and my dating history's been more like "close, but not quite dated". I've met people in the past who've been interested in me, then cancelled the date for whatever reason - this was in the late 2000s (around 2007-2009) befor...
A. 5 July 2021: Hi You, thank you for sharing your story. You sound like you've spent your whole life on the quest to find a partner who is for you and with you. That was my ultimate life goal, to find a partner. I used tinder for a few years, and dated a f... (read in full...)
My anxiety and insecurity is getting in the way of my happiness
Q. Hi everyone, I’m coming here for advice about an ongoing problem I have with dating. Bear with me- I annoy myself with this and am certain I sound exhausting. I’m a female in my late twenties and have dated a handful of men. I’m currently dating...
A. 23 April 2020: Dear Allgoodthings, I like you, used to have this anxiety, and still do to some degree but over time, I've found ways to manage my anxiety,and not let it get the best of me and thus selfsabotaging behavior which inevitably lead to failed relation... (read in full...)
Was breaking up with him the right thing to do? How can I bite the bullet and just move on?
Q. Dear Cupids, My long distance bf and I are breaking up and it sucks. We met in the summer and fell head over heels for each other. I returned home after the summer and we kept in touch, however at one point we had a fall out,and we stopped ta...
A. 22 April 2020: Hi ladies, thank you all for your most honest answers.
Here's a 3 month update. Still have gone my separate way and have not made contact with each other since I left.
Recently though, he's been on my mind, I wonder if he's OK and what he's doi... (read in full...)
Working with an ex, how do I keep things professional?
Q. Dear cupids, 3 months ago a young calleague and I started getting closer at work and we started seeing each other. He's from the uk and has an ex gf with a 3 yr old daughter. Naturally i wouldn't go for a man with that sort of baggage, but we ...
A. 20 February 2020: Thank you all for the advice.
WiseOwlE you definitely don't give advice kindly but yes I need to hear those words.
He did not use me, I could have been a rebound but I also did the same to him and those series of events gave him a reality check in... (read in full...)
As much as it hurts badly do I need to cut guy 1 off to give myaelf time to get over him? And focus on guy 2?
Q. Dear Cupids! I am torn between two men in my life. Guy 1 and I dated for 7 months then he had to go back to Greece as his contract for work ended. Now we still chat long distantly it was hard and I broke it off with him. We still talk via Skype a...
A. 4 March 2018: Hey y'all, So the update is that i told guy 1 who is long distance about me dating someone new since i had already been unhappy with a long distance relationship. Ofcourse he wasnt happy and we said we'd have to move on separately. We havn't spoken ... (read in full...)
As much as it hurts badly do I need to cut guy 1 off to give myaelf time to get over him? And focus on guy 2?
Q. Dear Cupids! I am torn between two men in my life. Guy 1 and I dated for 7 months then he had to go back to Greece as his contract for work ended. Now we still chat long distantly it was hard and I broke it off with him. We still talk via Skype a...
A. 16 February 2018: Hi ladies thank you for your honest responses!
As of yesterday I told guy 1 that I need my space and he agreed to give it to me and to be honest I feel much better after making that decision.
I just woke up and found a text from my ex though j... (read in full...)
I’m afraid he’ll just drop me one day! How can I overcome this?
Q. I am in a relationship but because of past experiences where men I was dating ended the relationship with me by just not calling or contact in me, I have this fearvthat this man will just one day drop me and leave me devastated. How can I overcome ...
A. 26 April 2016: Hi There, I've also been heart-broken in the past many times, but I've found the best thing is to work on yourself first before diving into a relationship. Especially since you are currently feeling vulnerable and worried about getting hurt.
G... (read in full...)
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