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writes:I am in a relationship but because of past experiences where men I was dating ended the relationship with me by just not calling or contact in me, I have this fearvthat this man will just one day drop me and leave me devastated. How can I overcome this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Metobe  +, writes (26 April 2016):
 Hi There, I've also been heart-broken in the past many times, but I've found the best thing is to work on yourself first before diving into a relationship. Especially since you are currently feeling vulnerable and worried about getting hurt.
Get out there and do the things that bring you joy first, whether its a hobby or socializing with friends, traveling, being with family. Grow as a woman first and focus on you before fully committing yourself into a relationship.
Good luck! and be strong.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 April 2016):
 It is hard to get over the past, but I think when you find the right man then he will make you see that he is different, has he done anything to make you worry this or is it just because you are insecure?
I think you should talk to him and allow him to reassure you that he is not going anywhere. If the problem doesn't go away then maybe you need to see a therapist about letting the past go.
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