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I text my bf on an alias phone pretending to be an admirer. And he fell for it.

Q.   After forgiving my cheating bf who got me and another woman pregnant 5 yrs ago, i forgave him and we are now back together for the past year. i put up with him going to spend time with his son at the other woman's house of which sometime he sleeps ...

A.   16 January 2017: I got weary of watching him having the hots for a character i created and constantly blowing me off. So today i've decided to let Rosy text him something that will push him away, "Can you lend me some money and I work it off? my friend can join tig... (read in full...)

How do I catch my boyfriend cheating?

Q.   My boyfriend is cheatin on me nd he is denaing it pls how cn i catch him redhanded...

A.   1 May 2011: honey i understand your fear and the feeling of denial. no woman can just pack up and leave a relationship based entirely on suspicion. you need proof before you can make a rational decision so as to not regret this in the future. i say follow the ... (read in full...)

Violent end to an argument this morning, what do I do?

Q.   i have to ask this question, even though i know what people will reply. really early this morning my partner of 7 years and i had an argument, i was getting ready for work, and we argued, which basically led to him hitting me on the head with a m...

A.   28 June 2010: wow! you are in a fix! girl you two need to sit and talk it out. But him hitting you means he doesn't care if he hurts you, he knew exactly what he was doing. i know its hard for you, but i have a sis who sometime back was in as exact situation like ... (read in full...)

Was this my period starting or did I bleed because I had not had sex for 5 years?

Q.   My period was due to come on. I had no sign that it was getting ready to come on, so i decided to have sex a new guy i been dating. I have not had sex in 5 years, While having sex a i started gussing blood every where. I assume it was my period, but ...

A.   28 June 2010: wow, really incredible that you hold out so long. i think i need to research about this on the net. your story just caught my eye!... (read in full...)

How long does it take for a man to get over their midlife crisis?

Q.   can anyone tell me how long it takes for a man to get over a midlife crises and why do they walk out on theyre wives for a much younger uglier female than their actual wife...

A.   28 June 2010: trust me, don't worry about him, read my story and you'll see what happen to me! Men like this are dirtbags, they cannot be trusted and like caringGuy SAID, he wont come back, he'll just hurt these young girls too! Cry your heart out and move on ... (read in full...)

I have been putting up with my wife's nonsense for far too long!

Q.   I met this beautiful girl i thought i loved, adored and cherish, would do absolutely anything for her... worst decision of my life. even during our 1st years we had fights and arguments. But always thought it resulted due to her past experiences in ...

A.   28 June 2010: You need to understand that people don't change, the beautiful girl that you adore and cherish did not exist from the beginning. This side to her that you are seeing is the real her. you obviously cant take the pain she is causing you anymore, you ... (read in full...)

I'm think my ex-husband is using me, but don't know how to break the cycle!

Q.   I am really confused I need some advise. I got married and all was well, we have a 3yr old daughter and I realized my husband is cheating, even so after we spoke about it I forgave him but I do not think he changed. I am the breadwinner and he is ...

A.   17 June 2010: U said a mouthful, you are better off without him. i shouldn't be giving advice since i am in a situation myself, but people tend to give good advice and cant handle their own situation. Anyway back to you, u need to face the music once and for all ... (read in full...)

Should I believe him, or is he just using me?

Q.   I've been seeing this guy for 4yrs now, we met when i was 16 and he was 36. He told me he was going through a divorce period with his wife and i decided to wait it out. he moved out his family home after two years for a quicker divorce process and ...

A.   17 June 2010: Thank you guys so much for your honest advice. You have no idea how much you are helping me. i am in the middle of this situation and i check this site 10 times a day to see if any new advice come me. obabycakesxx and carrot2000, thank you so ... (read in full...)

Should I believe him, or is he just using me?

Q.   I've been seeing this guy for 4yrs now, we met when i was 16 and he was 36. He told me he was going through a divorce period with his wife and i decided to wait it out. he moved out his family home after two years for a quicker divorce process and ...

A.   16 June 2010: This other woman found out about us one week ago after hacking into his email and view our most intimate conversation and our photos.I know this bc he says its his wife that hacked in but does not realize i know about this woman. Now he uses this ... (read in full...)

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