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... Send *arj a private message | | | *arj's profile:I'm 46 years old, I have three kids 2 boys eldest 17, middle boy 15, and my daughter who I call a bonus baby is almost 4. They are the loves of my life, they drive me daft, they make me laugh and I'm proud to be their Mum. I live in Lancashire and have done all my life its not a bad place to be.
I don't have any special qualities to offer advice, just a lifetime of good and bad experience. I'm the friend people come to when they have a problem and need someone to listen. I was married for 11 years, it broke up amicably when it came to the end of it's life. I've been pretty much single for the last 9 years, there is a someone right now but its work in progress.
I'm broadminded and nothing much shocks me.I like to think I have a young outlook on life and enjoy almost all of what it throws my way. always hope I can help someone in need of a friendly ear. |
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Have i done the right thing?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for the last six months on a free relationship basis. Since the beginning he told me he didn't want a serious relationship. I thought I could handle it, but when he didn't call for a week or so and then he suddenly ...
A. 25 July 2007: If the relationship wasn't working for you, You did the right thing by ending it, don't commit yourself to anyone if they are not prepared to do the same. Yes it always hurts when you stop seeing someone you like and have feelings for, but it would ... (read in full...)
We are both 16, and we want a baby.
Q. Me (16 in 5 days) and my boyfriend (16) really want to have sex and have a baby, we have had safe sex and now want the real thing, but we are both are in the middle of some A levels. we have our own flat together so it is not like any of our parents ...
A. 25 July 2007: Hon if you dont know whether to accept your guys proposal then you aren't ready to have his child. Dont think having a baby at 16 is a good idea, it isn't. ... (read in full...)
I'm pretty and a cheerful person so why do people never like me the way I like them?
Q. Why is it that whenever i like someone they never like me back in the same way? I mean, im 5ft 6, longish strawberry blonde hair with bright blue eyes, a laughable personality.. whats wrong with me? ...
A. 23 July 2007: I assume when you say when ever you like someone its a guy? well they are losing out. Not you. Theres nothing wrong with you, carry on as you are hon. ... (read in full...)
I'm having strange symptoms, could I be pregnant?
Q. i am 21 and not on birth control, me and my partner have been togther for 6 years. anyway my last period was 30/05/07 and usually lasts 5 days, however i missed junes period and am now 3.5 weeks late. took a pregnancy test last week and was ...
A. 23 July 2007: You could be pregnant, pregnancy tests can sometimes give a false negative result, do another test, if that reads the same, then you should go to your G.P. always best to get things checked out that are unusual to you. good luck ...... (read in full...)
I'm embarassed that I put up a personal ad to meet girls
Q. Hi guys, would be great to know what your thoughts are (male or female) about putting dating adverts in newspapers/magazines? I recently put a dating ad in my local newspaper becasue i'm bored of being single but also becasue I put myself under a ...
A. 22 July 2007: Nothing wrong in wanting to meet someone, and who really cares how you did, where did you have your first date, over a coffee or in a pub? they would be beleivable enough as to where you met, so that's an idea, but if this works out for you, then it ... (read in full...)
What are the signs that this girl I fancy, likes me?
Q. i fancy this girl so much! I said we should meet over the summer and she agreed. I'm not sure if she was talkin about us two going alone or in our friend group. Also are there any signs to find out if she likes me? I really want to find out without ...
A. 20 July 2007: signs to watch out for, does she laugh at your jokes, does she touch you, does she hang round after everyone else has gone? I'd say those were signs she likes you. go for it hon, if she agred to meet you over the summer I'd say thats a good ... (read in full...)
Is sharing a kiss with another guy and liking him really telling me my current relationship isnt working? Any views?
Q. I shared a drunken kiss with my boyfriends work colleague. We both have partners although he hasnt been with his long, we have txt each other and agree we both find each other physically attractive and enjoy each others company. We are both in ...
A. 20 July 2007: It's good to feel attraction for other people, but not wise to act on it if you are in a relationship, respect for yourself and others in this is what counts. If you are not happy in your current situation do the right thing and leave before you ... (read in full...)
I have a violent bf who treats me like dirt behind closed doors! Any advice?
Q. I'm in a three-year relationship with a guy five years my senior. He's great in public, always kind to me, my family and friends plus very affectionate but behind closed doors it's like he's had a personality change. He treats me like dirt, forcing ...
A. 20 July 2007: Get out of this now. Leave before he really hurts you. There is no excuse in the world for a man who uses violence to control a woman. The gay friend is that a friend, stay single be proud of who you are and get back to a life free of a violent man. ... (read in full...)
Guys don't like me b/c of my hair color, so how do I get the boy I'm after?
Q. None of the boys on my year seem to like me because I have ginger hair. I also really like this one boy. How do I get the boy I'm after?? Please help...
A. 17 July 2007: The boy you are after won't know unless you let him know. smile at him, make converstion, the colour of your hair wont make any difference, if he likes you. ... (read in full...)
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