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Is this what younger girls are like these days??

Q.   Can some of you please explain the mind set of today's young women in their early 20's? I am in my mid-30's and have recently entered the dating scene. Although I am 35, I am in great physical condition and most people say I look 25. I married my...

A.   19 February 2010: This is not the "tramp generation". Perhaps all men are disgusting pigs. It doesn't seem fair to lump all men into one category, does it? Please don't do it for women. ... (read in full...)

I hate my bf's weed habit! Help

Q.   ok, i have a boyfriend and we been together for three years now, and about a year ago i told him that he had to choose me or the weed...and he said that he would stop. and about a week ago we got into a fight and it came out that he never stopped ...

A.   14 January 2010: If you stated dating him and you knew he was smoking weed at the time, then you can't say it's a deal breaker after the fact. ... (read in full...)

Why don't any girls like me?

Q.   I am a teenage boy in high school. I am pretty athletic and many guys compliment me daily about my physique. I also am dual enrolled in college level classes through my high school. Im not extremely outgoing but im not shy either. What I want to ...

A.   6 January 2010: High school can be a really difficult time to try to find love. I respect the fact that you have high morals and standards. I think that is really lacking with youth and young adults these days. I also believe that finding flaws in every girl (moral ... (read in full...)

Wife of 15 years is cheating, where do we go from here?

Q.   I could use a little advice. I've been married to a great woman for 15 years and I thought things were going well. But one month ago I discovered by accident that she had a secret email account. Well, after lots of back and forth, she admitted ...

A.   4 January 2010: Man... I think you should run and not look back! I guess that is easy for me to say... 15 years is a long time to be in a relationship with someone. I don't believe that there is any excuse for cheating... and she doesn't even have the excuse that ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend went traveling and came back single!! I don't know what to do! Advice, please?

Q.   i was going out with a girl for 6 years up until last may when she traveled to Australia for 7 months. everything was fine before she left in that we promised to stay together etc, loved each other etc. while she was traveling she met another guy ...

A.   4 January 2010: I think you should try to move on. She clearly doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, and I think you will get hurt if you still believe that there might be a chance. Sometimes when we have meaningful relationships with people, it can take a ... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend but I DON'T love his habits...

Q.   I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year now. Previously, I dated someone for four years, who would technically be the perfect catch. My ex-boyfriend was motivated, had at least two jobs while attending a huge medical university, and has ...

A.   4 January 2010: I think you are really lucky to have found someone that you click with so well! Although, money can be a very stressful issue and if you don't deal with it I think it can seriously harm your relationship (if it hasn't occurred already). I agree that ... (read in full...)

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