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... Send *anperson101 a private message | | | *anperson101's profile:Hi I'm a 36 year old man. I'm married and my wife has just given birth to my first, and its a boy!
I reckon I know a lot about relationships and sex because I've had a very varied relationship and sex life:
- From being a geek with no dates, little confidence and being the one asking the questions about sex, dating, girls etc
- Then maturing quickly in my 20s to become a bit of a playboy with one night stands and lots of short, intense relationships (+ 3 longer ones)
- and now I'm in my 30s as a loving husband working on my family
These experiences will hopefully help me to advise the course of action for relationships.
I also have a degree and a masters qualification so hopefully I can be objective and thorough when exploring problems
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Losing love for my brainy boyfriend!
Q. hey..m in a comitted relationship since 9months. its a ldr..and last time i visited my bf was 3months back.well in terms of acaedemics my bf is very brainy.he studies in india's top coaching class.. last year he only studied for few days and lef...
A. 1 May 2010: If he's rubbing it in your face then he sounds like a bit of a dick. Its not so much that he's clever, more that he's just not very nice.
Unless he's trying to make a joke and doesn't realise how inferior it makes you feel. In that case maybe ju... (read in full...)
I'm worried about kissing for the first time!
Q. what is the best and easiest way to gain confidence in kissing because i've never been kissed before and i've asked people who i know that have kissed but all they say is to just do it. THAT DOESNT EXPLAIN HOW TO DO IT!!! so i worry about litt...
A. 6 April 2010: Aww lovely... get drunk helped me haha! but as you're in the US thats not so easy! Stop worrying so much about it. She'll be worried too, just pick the right moment.
Where to put you're hands and stuff... well thats just up to you, where you feel... (read in full...)
Will I regret losing the chance to get back with my ex?
Q. Before I start, please don't judge me too harshly. I love my boyfriend more than anything, and I cannot imagine my life without him. I want to spend the rest of my life with him and I would never leave him. The only thing is he was my first time, ...
A. 6 April 2010: 'Grass is always greener!' - You're not a monster as I'm pretty sure everyones been there! You have to decide whats more important to you, your current boyfriend, the stable, easy option, or this other guy who is the 'what-if?' This isn't a decision ... (read in full...)
How do I turn this casual relationship into a serious one?
Q. I met this guy recently and I have really started to fall for him. He is gorgeous and a nice guy. However, recently he told me he isn't looking for anything serious. I dont think it is because he is a player but more so as he recently moved to the ...
A. 6 April 2010: Haha that happened to me at uni... I was single and happy that way. After meeting up with the same girl a few times in the students union bar, I was seeing her. I really didn't want much more to happen apart from maybe some sex and a bit of fun. She ... (read in full...)
Should I keep going back to him or end it for good?
Q. my boyfriend keeps getting jealous over two of my ex's. he feels they are better than him in very way, and no matter how many times i tell him i love him he always treats me bad, calling me a slag and saying he regrets being with me, but then he ...
A. 6 April 2010: He sounds ridiculously insecure! You have to pursuade him that he's the one for you and no matter what the other guys had you like him the best. If he still can't accept that and still mistreats you then hes got some serious emotional problems so ... (read in full...)
Losing love for my brainy boyfriend!
Q. hey..m in a comitted relationship since 9months. its a ldr..and last time i visited my bf was 3months back.well in terms of acaedemics my bf is very brainy.he studies in india's top coaching class.. last year he only studied for few days and lef...
A. 6 April 2010: OK is it that you feel i)you're not good enough for him? ii)you're jealous of how well he does? iii)hes arrogant about/a bit of a bore? or iv)you don't have much in common because your intellect is so different?
Decide whats valid because the answ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my wife and her sister, please help me!
Q. Hi, I have a big problem. I've been married for 12 years and known my wife for 14. We have 2 great kids and our relationship is great. I love my wife, I really do. I wouldn't do anything in the world to hurt her. Problem is I love her sister as we...
A. 6 April 2010: Sorry mate but I'd have to disagree with Timm about the telling your wife issue. No matter how you put it she'll be upset about it and it could ruin you're relationship with your wife and could cause a rift between your wife and her sister which ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my wife and her sister, please help me!
Q. Hi, I have a big problem. I've been married for 12 years and known my wife for 14. We have 2 great kids and our relationship is great. I love my wife, I really do. I wouldn't do anything in the world to hurt her. Problem is I love her sister as we...
A. 23 March 2010: You're in a pickle mate! I'd say you love your wife, you have a great marriage great kids, don't ruin it! I reckon you feel more lust for this other woman than anything. This is a typical case of 'grass is greener'. More than anything this is ... (read in full...)
Why should I put up with my man looking at porn?
Q. Ok, why do I just "have to accept" porn in my life? My boyfriend jacks off to porn. Sure, our sex life is great, and believe me I don't mind quickies or gettigng him off without anything in return. But why does he have to look at other naked women? ...
A. 23 March 2010: OK, fair enough female anonymous... I was quick to attack that question. The whole arguement around porn is annoying but I should have taken an object view. Like almost any guy I've watched a bit of porn and to have that forbidden is very ... (read in full...)
Do I have any chance or am I just another "good friend?"
Q. basically there is this guy that i've been interested in for about a month. and well, my problem is: i don't know if the things he does is just of pure kindness as a friend or not! (like... does he only think of me as a friend or is there a chance ...
A. 5 March 2010: Haha wow this guy is a player! I think its fair to say he's a confident guy with a lot of personality. I've been in that position with girls, as the obsessor and as the obsessee, and, honestly, it can go either way. He may just feel completely ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of my wife being lazy and doing nothing! I deserve better, don't I?
Q. Right, I'll try to keep this short and to the point. I have been married for 10 years (together with my wife for 13 years), all in all we've had a pretty good marriage so far and I was pretty content. Until our new neighbours moved in. Now...
A. 5 March 2010: Hi mate, unlike other users, I think you seem like a sound, normal bloke, I'd say so you sound quite angry and almost fair enough. We've all been in the relationship where one gets too comfortable and leaves the other to do it all haha. I also do... (read in full...)
Why should I put up with my man looking at porn?
Q. Ok, why do I just "have to accept" porn in my life? My boyfriend jacks off to porn. Sure, our sex life is great, and believe me I don't mind quickies or gettigng him off without anything in return. But why does he have to look at other naked women? ...
A. 5 March 2010: Surely its better he lives his fantasies out through the internet and his head rather than cheating or getting bored with you and leaving. Get over it! If you feel fat and ugly do something about it! diet, run, gym, surgery, wear nicer things?! ... (read in full...)
Can't help looking at other women and thinking about them sexually! But I love my fiance.
Q. I have a wondeful Fiancé. We've been going out for over 9 years. The problem is that she is the only woman i've ever been with - I always had low self esteem - and lately i've found myself looking at other women and wondering what it would be like ...
A. 5 March 2010: Oh mate I sort of know how you feel! I was with a girlfriend for a year at uni, she was my first and I really liked her. But I really wanted to have sex with other girls, not so much to try different sex but to be close with someone else, yo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend takes ages to cum. Is it because there's something wrong with him? Or with me?
Q. Ive been with my b/f for just over a year. We love each other very much and do plan to get married in the near future. The problem is our sex life or maybe it's my problem? Well anyway I can get him aroused easy enough; i'ts just that he takes ag...
A. 4 March 2010: Hi, I would have to agree in part with an earlier comment. I once had a girlfriend when I was in first year at uni. I was really inexperienced n nervous about sex. I had trained myself to 'hold it back' because I was worried about finishing too ... (read in full...)
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