We were all gossiping but they have turned me into the scapegoat!
Q. Hello, I really need your help on this issue because I am getting very depressed with this matter. I’ll try to be as short as possible as I respect that it’s no fun for you to read long stories. We are three women working in the same office...
A. 20 July 2009: You could write down what you want to say so then people have to read what you're saying, it could stop the shouting. Everyone gossips/bitches/talks about other people. Apologise for anything negative you said and explain your reasoning behind why ... (read in full...)
He replied "maybe you do love me more" when I said "I love you more". What does this mean?
Q. hi there, I am a little confused and I hope you can help me clarify this situation with your responses. Here goes, my boyfirend and I have been going out for almost 9 months now, we are both in our early 30's. He has never had a proper girlf...
A. 20 July 2009: Don't make it into a competition, and he only said maybe. There's no point in getting a bit hot under the collar about it. ... (read in full...)
My life was so stressed, I wasnt ready for him then...I think I am now but not sure if he feels the same.
Q. I have had so much emotional trauma in my life for the past 2 years, father died, step father died , best friend died, mother fell, in coma in another state, had to leave work for six months, me being sick for 3 months, EX b/f who was not there for ...
A. 20 July 2009: I think counselling if you are not there already could be really helpful to you to support what you want out of relationships. I think it could give you the space you need to discuss what to do objectively. men are usually straight forward and you ... (read in full...)
Should I change my number, or am I overreacting?
Q. Okay, so I starting seeing this guy about a month ago and we used to date about 3 years ago and I left him because I found out he was talking to another girl. I just had a baby about 5 months ago and really was hurt by my child's father and haven't ...
A. 20 July 2009: Don't change your number, you don't need to. He sounds like he has the best of intentions, he just can't get them from his brain to reality. It sounds like you need a little more assurance and security and it doesn't sounds like he has the maturity ... (read in full...)
Is friends with benefits more emotional than a relationship?
Q. Friends with benefits people say its less emotional but surely its more? because if you've been friends with them for some time then you would care for them a lot, probably more than a new boyfriend so if you lose them then not only do you los...
A. 20 July 2009: Friends with benefits.. they are short term benefits which are usually physical and tend to mess up any normal kind of relationship you've previously had with the person. In my own experience, they tend not to work out. You said it yourself, they ... (read in full...)
My family want to meet my boyfriend, but I'm scared of what they'll think of him!
Q. my mum and dad and the rest of my family really want to meet my boyfriend i am very scared of what they will think of him what do i do ?? do you think i should invite him round and let him meet evry1 or not ? x...
A. 20 July 2009: I think it depends, it might be very daunting if 'everyone' has to meet him. You could start by dinner with a sibling and slowly start introducing him to different family members to not make such a big deal about it. I'm sure your family are ... (read in full...)
I really like him but I'm getting mixed signals. I need tips to help me be strong!
Q. Hi can you please help I started seeing this really hot guy who lived in the apartment block next to me. He has given a lot of attention, which really is very flattering as His type would be out of my league. Even though he lived in the next apa...
A. 20 July 2009: Ok.. you need to stop, calm and collect yourself. When women get physically close to a guy, a natural chemical in your body called oxytocin makes your brain go all wobbly and you feel like you can't live without the person you want, I'm sure you are ... (read in full...)
I am afraid that my husband will lose his control and perhaps do something beyond his control.
Q. dear cupid, I've been married for 13 months. I am a christian catholic wife married to an Islam husband. Before we got married, he assured me that he will not prevent me from my catholic practices, however he asked me to study a little about Mu...
A. 15 June 2009: What about some kind of mediation with your husband.. maybe couples counselling might help to express some of the things that you are feeling and finding difficult to say in front of him. You have obligations to your child to make sure he is growing ... (read in full...)
She starts chasing me after I stopped caring
Q. Hi I'm a 28 year old man. I was pursuing this girl, she is a bank teller, very pretty. One day I just walked up to her booth and gave her my phone #. She called me a few dys later and we started going out, got along real well. it all lasted about a ...
A. 15 June 2009: I think you are dead right to be aprehensive, it sounds like she could be commitment phobic or she could have just made a mistake. Women much as we'd like to think are not perfect. Set up boundaries and limitations for yourself and agree to go out ... (read in full...)
I call my ex every time I get drunk to tell her I love her and miss her.
Q. Hi whenever I go partying with my friends and get drunk I call my now ex girlfriend from about 3 months ago to tell her I love her, and miss her. I don't want to do it. But everytime I drink I think of her and miss those times together. I dont know ...
A. 15 June 2009: It's known as drink and dial. You are not being very fair, to yourself or her. Delete the number, if you can remember it off by heart, leave your a phone at home or leave it switched off, put a message in your phone as you switch it on saying.. ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend of a year wants a break
Q. So me and my giirlfriend were together for about a year. About three weeks before school let out, we got into a small fight that was used to tell me that she wanted a break for the summer. She said it was for the best for both of us and that she ...
A. 15 June 2009: I think that perhaps she does want it to work out but I don't think it's fair when you like her so much to just wait for the summer and then see. I think you need to move on from this, if she doesn't want to be with you, that is difficult to accept ... (read in full...)
Tips for getting over my first crush!
Q. Dear cupid, I've had a crush/been in love with this guy for three years now. He is a nice guy - confident, funny, easy to talk to (goodlooking too!) - but I don't think that us being together would work. I just want to be friends with him now. I ...
A. 15 June 2009: In my opinion you've probably given him too much of your time. Why not concentrate on yourself or your friends a bit more. Take up a new sport, start reading a book, join a club, walk the dog.
I think you need to gain a little confidence for your... (read in full...)
What does a leather bracelet/fabric bracelet mean these days anyways.... anything?
Q. so, im gonna see this chick, and noticed she is wearing a leather ''friendship'' bracelet ... i am a bit older than she is, (its a surfer style thing, and im a surfer, but just not for years and years) -- so the only place i can ask this, without ...
A. 15 June 2009: i don't think it really matters which hand you wear it on, as long as it's not tacky, it's fine. If you like it, wear it, it expresses your individuality.
Personally I can't stand accessories/jewellry on guys unless they have deep kind of mean... (read in full...)
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