I've been defriended on facebook and don't know what to do about it!
Q. I am not sure what's happened. Between yesterday and today the only thing that's changed is I texted a group text "Hey guys, are you going to the party?" No response. Then today I find myself defriended by a person I had a connection with. Sure...
A. 19 June 2014: Be straight up. Ask him what happened and why. He may be frank and tell you that he did it, or any other variation of truthful reasoning, or bullshit and deny all responsibility. His girlfriend might have done it, but if she did, it should be ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend all talk or should I give him more time?
Q. I am getting very frustrated with my boyfriend. He has dreams to become a stand up comedian, and wants to write books etc. he has big ambitions. A few months ago he took on a job earning a respectable salary, with the view to buying his flat and ...
A. 19 June 2014: I feel you are overreacting a bit. Give him some space, allow him to think. Put yourself in his shoes and understand what he's trying to figure out for himself. He's just quit a job that he had originally planned to give him the stability that h... (read in full...)
I know she was justified in breaking up with me but I want her back!
Q. My girlfriend and i were together for around 3 years and 9 months,before we broke up last thursday. The reason for the break up wasnt one,but yes i could pin point what the biggest obstacle was. I could never stand up for her,i promised her that i ...
A. 19 June 2014: You might have to just let her go. Trust is the most difficult intangible to repair in a relationship. Once it has been broken, it is nigh-on impossible to replace. And even then, it definitely will never be the same.
She doesn't see you as the s... (read in full...)
Is it worth trying to ask her out?
Q. basically, long story... I've liked this girl at my school for about a year. She found out ages ago and rejected any interaction with me pretty much. After a while though we have become friends in a sense through this group chat, I tried to get her ...
A. 19 June 2014: I've been in a similar situation before, and the outcomes have invariably been negative. Your attraction to someone becomes public knowledge, and you're stuck in the spotlight until something changes: you ask, she either accepts and you become a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a facebook page that says he's in a relationship with someone that isn't me???
Q. I recently found a new fb page for my bf who in fact says he doesnt use fb so wasn't going to add me, ths only way I found it was via my mates bf who told me, anyway this new fb page says hes in a relationship with somebody and its not me :( Ive lo...
A. 19 June 2014: I have to disagree with some of the responses that have been given. Facebook doesn't cause this trouble, the people themselves do. Why worry about whether or not your profile page displays that you're in a relationship with someone and vice-versa. ... (read in full...)
Will she accept me knowing that I was in a relationship with someone else?
Q. After the advice from the members of dearcupid members,i decided to break away from my first love. Now i like a girl(same age and a my college mate).i used to have friendly contact with her in facebook,and she too also know about my first love. R...
A. 19 June 2014: You'll only know by asking her, and that's what you need to do. Find a way, and see what she says. If she forgives you, great. Make sure you don't repeat the same mistake with her.
If not, then you'll just have to move on, and live with the fact... (read in full...)
I turn down other guys for him but he doesn't ask me out!
Q. I'm 15 and there's a boy in my year who I really like and have done for about two years. I've never felt the same about anyone ever before - I look at him, even think about him, and I get butterflies; the first thing I do when I walk into a room is ...
A. 19 June 2014: Agreed with N91. Forget societal stereotypes. If you're waiting on him to ask you out, for it to be "genuine", then you might wait forever. Or worse, find he's been asked out by some other girl and you've let the opportunity pass you by.
Take ... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend called me names and hasn't called in a week. Is it over?
Q. Dear Cupid I am with my current bf for 4 years, for past 3 months we are in LDR as he has to work overseas. We had our ups and downs, nowadays we have more downs than ups. He is always calling me names or belittling me whenever possible,...
A. 19 June 2014: End it with him. There's no reason for him to treat you that way, nor for you to reconcile. Break it with him and find someone else. You don't deserve this, and he needs to grow up.
Simple.... (read in full...)
I'm worried by his taste in porn
Q. Hello, well I been with my boyfriend for 8/9 yrs we have 2 kids and very active in this relationship as far as intimacy and time together. I'm 31 he's 33 I'm white he's black. Well here it is, he watches nothing i mean nothing but ebony granny porn. ...
A. 19 June 2014: Agreed with the previous responses. Next-to-nothing to worry about, just leave him be. It won't manifest itself into something serious.
Particularly with what Honeypie's said. Stop snooping around, you'll only hurt yourself more.... (read in full...)
I'm worried I can't compete with her ex who just bought her a car
Q. This is probably gonna be a long story, but here goes: I recently graduated from college and moved back to my hometown. Between having a full-time job and not having many friends that still live here anymore, I decided to make an effort to date u...
A. 17 June 2014: Some of the answers on here haven't understood what the girl has done so far since being offered this expensive gift from her ex-boyfriend.
A few have jumped to the conclusion that she has accepted it, and is therefore toxic to the OP. Although... (read in full...)
Should people have to change their personalities for others?
Q. Hello people. I was reading an article about relationships today, and it said that you can't go into a relationship expecting that you won't need to adjust your personality. This seems like a pile of horse turds to me, but I was wondering what y...
A. 8 June 2014: I don't think that you need to change your personality, but rather to make compromises. They may sound effectively the same however the aim is to be more empathetic to the other person, and likewise. It may be that you want to "dig in your hee... (read in full...)
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