It is so painful to be friends with my ex, but I really want her back
Q. OK here goes. Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago and i feel im doing everything to push her further and further away. We were together for four years. She recently started university and she told me she had just kissed one guy but loves th...
A. 28 September 2007: You know what? I think your first instinct--your gut told you the BEST thing you could ahve said at that moment: When she said this though i told her i have found it too difficult to ber her friend and that we basically couldnt hang out anymore. Of ... (read in full...)
I found out my fiancee is planning on leaving me. What do I do?
Q. i found out through seeing fiancee's history and bookmarks on our computer that she's planning to leave me, 'Do I marry my fiance or go off with my lover?' posted on this site and others, and i'm devastated. i've never been able to satisfy her like ...
A. 28 September 2007: I see a lot of different levels to the problem you have. I think first and foremost you need to speak to your finacee and have this all out on the table...from what I gathered from your question is that you have seen evidence of her thinking about ... (read in full...)
It took me ages to move on, but now that I have -- my ex is trying to be ME back!
Q. Hello, I am 22-years-old and going through a lot with my ex of almost 6 months. We were pre-engaged and together for almost 3 years and back in June, I broke up with him for creating online profiles saying he was single so he could talk to girls. ...
A. 13 December 2005: Hi, I wasn't sure whether you were asking how you could get over your ex or how you could move on, but I was actually engaged too, for a bit and then had to break up with my finacee because he was becoming abusive, and I did go on anit-depressants ... (read in full...)
My 14 year old son lets food pile up in his bedroom-the stench was foul!
Q. I am worried about my 14-year-old son. In his bedroom I had found a load of uneaten sausages and McDonald's burgers, and the stench was so foul I felt sick almost! I asked him why he collected sausages and fast food, and he said that collecting ...
A. 29 November 2005: You know what, I coudl actually see his reasoning behind his collecion of food because it seems to me that he is using these pieces of food as trophies to show he can have self-control and not eat these things that he thinks are unhealthy and will ... (read in full...)
I am so tired of my possessive boyfriend
Q. I am tired. I really do! I have no one to turn to. I am sick of this life. I have no interest in doing anything. Even, shopping is the thing that I really love to do with my friends for ages. I am in a trouble relationship. My bf is too possessive. ...
A. 26 November 2005: I have to tell you that this kind of behavior is not healthy. If he truly trusted you and felt secure abut his own self, he would let you go out and ahve fun...what is he so worried about? Have you talked about this with him? No man should ever ... (read in full...)
The pain of my past relationships makes me push even nice guys away!
Q. I've dated a lot but I haven't seemed to be able to get passed the hurt I still feel inside- I feel that I gave all of myself to my ex-husband- my heart, soul, love-I'm afraid to let people in- I've even dated really nice guys but I always seem to ...
A. 23 November 2005: Hi there, I kind of had a similar experience to you---what worked for me is forgiving whatever happened in the past (yourself and your ex--however difficult it may be) and live in the present. Of course, you should use what you learned in your past ... (read in full...)
I was dumped because I don't have enough sexual or emotional "experience"!
Q. I have been dumped because my partner was my first person that I got involved with, and slept with. Now he tells me that I have no previous relationships, sexually and emotionally. I was told that I have nothing to rate this relationship on. I'm 22...
A. 19 November 2005: It sounds to me like he was really insecure about you leaving him for a younger guy so he wnated to dump you first before you dumped him. This doesn't make what he did justifiable or fair, but I think he was threatened by your lack of experience and ... (read in full...)
Taking off a little weight was my original goal. Now it's spun out of control and I just feel FAT!
Q. Hi there, please help me! I'm a young woman of 20, size 10-12 clothes who used to be a bit larger and lost a lot of weight this year through being on the Atkins diet and taking some strong tablets which I had to come off because they made me ill a...
A. 12 October 2005: Hi there, First of all you need to know and embrace the fact that you are a unique, multifaceted individual who has qualities that are very special. The question to ask yourself is how long are you going to put yourself down until you think you're ... (read in full...)
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