Should I ask him on a fourth date?
Q. Dating a new guy. We've been on three dates now. Having lots of fun and it feels natural. After the last date, he texted me the next morning asking how I was and said thanks for coming and it was awesome. A few days went by, and he texted me asking ...
A. 11 October 2013: Yeah, if you want to continue dating him then suggesting a firm time and location would be a good idea. "right now" at 10:30pm isn't a booty call unless it is at your or his apartment, where you will be alone. In general, he should give you at least ... (read in full...)
My husband has threatened...either the pet dog goes or he moves out!
Q. I am a newlywed, married in August. When my husband and I were dating, I had a dog. My husband had never owned pets in his life, but seemed okay with it. Some months before the wedding, my dog was killed. I was grief stricken, but I always knew ...
A. 10 October 2013: I have a serious problem with people elevating pets to the status of children. I would never marry someone who made this mistake. I simply wouldn't trust them. Their priorities are out of balance.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hates animals and wants to get rid of my dogs!
Q. My boyfriend off and on for the past 6, years wants me to give away my dog who is 9 and my rescue puppy who is 3 then find a job in his state and move in with him he moved away 5 years agao and we stay in touch meeting when we could in talking ...
A. 10 October 2013: If you are having a tough time deciding between your dog and your man then this means you really don't love the man...thus just go with the dog.... (read in full...)
She hasn't invited me to her friends' wedding?
Q. My girlfriend has been invited to one of her friend's wedding next month (an ex, but they're still friends, which is totally fine with me by the way). It's in the middle of a week we both have off on holiday. Anyway, she told me that it didn't come ...
A. 24 August 2013: Actually, the etiquette is NOT to invite boyfriends and girlfriends. You only invite fiances and spouses. This rule doesn't hold for destination weddings though...I believe.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend blocked me on Messenger
Q. Hi My bf of 2 years blocked me in messager saying I'm disturbing his work. I don't send messages often, I send one in morning to say good morning and one at night. He never responds when I asked about that, he blocked me. What should I do now?...
A. 19 September 2012: If the messenger is on his phone then I think that he shouldn't have blocked you. If the messenger is on his work computer then I think that he was just trying to focus on work and it was nothing personal.... (read in full...)
I'm not good enough to marry?
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been dating a man for over 2 years. I own my home and he still has a mortgage and a teenager who he has half the time. He asked me to move in with him, but doesn't want to marry me. Even though I'm in my 50's, I still wo...
A. 18 August 2012: Financially, you are better off moving in with him, or buying a house together. You can sell your house, or rent it out. If you sell it, you can reinvest the money. If you rent it, you have an appreciating asset that generates income. If you decide ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I have had problems for a long time now, should we stay together?
Q. Dear cupid, My girlfriend (22)and I (26) have been together for almost two years. Things were great in the beginning, but we've had problems with her pulling her own weight and looking for a job throughout our relationship. I work and there were tim...
A. 18 August 2012: If you were together but she didn't live with you, would the situation be better? It maybe too late to go backward though. I'm hesitant about moving in with someone, personally, since it's like getting married without the promises and greater sense ... (read in full...)
Did his feelings for me really change?
Q. I never thought I'd be one to seek out help from strangers but my current situation is tearing me apart by the minute and it's only been about 4 days. I've been seeing someone (romantically) for about 4 months but we've been getting to know ...
A. 15 August 2012: I think that after he sorts out his career that he will normalize on the relationship front as well, but it may take a while...depending on how long it takes to find a stable job. His confidence in himself is shaken. His value system has been ... (read in full...)
Religious differences. Parental interference. I love him so much and I know he loves me too. What do I do!?
Q. I'm in love with my guy friend who has been brought up in one religion and me in another religion. I have started to question my beliefs about 2 years ago... now I identify as agnostic. A few months ago I told my parents about my love for my frie...
A. 14 August 2012: You are not alone. Most highly intelligent people are agnostic or atheist.
If you want to be truly happy, I think you will have to become more independent of your family, perhaps even move to a different state to escape their influence and cont... (read in full...)
I don't want my parents picking a life partner for me, what should I do?
Q. Hi I am 23 years old,I'm indian my parents are very traditional and conservative and I'v had a very controlled life..NO boyfriends,NO kissing,NO SEX,NO DRINKING,NO SMOKING!.. Inspite of them being soo strict I managed to meet boys I'v never had sex ...
A. 13 August 2012: I think those romance novels and Hollywood love stories are very unhealthy. They set expectations too high, in my opinion.
Since you live in India, it's going to be kind of tough to have a relationship with a non-Indian, from a social standpoi... (read in full...)
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