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Just a few words to sum me up:

Fun, outgoing, and lively,

Trying new things and having fun,

Living life to the fullest (H)

What confuses people is that they know a lot about me, but it quite pleases me that theres more they dont know - Bjork.

I wouldn't say i'm qualified, just that i've been thrown into the washing machine of life on a number occasions.

I'm from Birmingham, United Kingdom.

What makes me tick.... Hmmmm.... Typically I'd have to say chocolate :P

Relationship Status: In a Relationship (L) :D

He knows I have a boyfriend, so why does he want to meet up?

Q.   Hi guys, so this isn't a very serious question, but I'm just a bit confused about what this guy is doing. I'm happily in a relationship for almost 2 years now, we're doing pretty good, but recently this other guy is hitting on me, maybe? Met him on ...

A.   28 November 2010: I don't think you should have told him, harmless flirting to be honest. Girls are entitled to have friendly conversations with other guys whether they may be single or not. But i do think you should draw the line at meeting him again, especially if ... (read in full...)

How many texts/calls a day is considered too needy or clingy?

Q.   What is considered too needy or clingy? How many phone calls/texts a day? And how much can we expect phone calls/texts/communication back from a person without expecting too much?...

A.   28 November 2010: Ohh dear, reminds me of an ex i dated a longggg time ago. Constant phone calls, texts, emails, he practically hijacked my Facebook! It seemed like he didn't have a life outside of our relationship. There was a time I put my phone on silent when i ... (read in full...)

How do I get the courage to ask her out?

Q.   Hey. I'm sure you get this one a lot. But I can't find any good answers on the internet. Theres a girl called (randomly thinks of name) Ellie. I've had a crush on her for a while now. I can talk to her, and she's great, not like other girls givi...

A.   17 November 2010: Asking a girl out is no easy feat, especially when you're a little shy, and you don't want to ruin your chances with what feels like the girl of your dreams, but don't worry about that because most girls will give you a chance for just trying. But ... (read in full...)

I saw something I shouldn't have seen!

Q.   I saw my mate's boyfriend, kissing another one of my friends in the park the other day. They both saw me but carried on anyway, a few hours later they knocked on my door and begged me not to tell my mate. I'm confused, as i don't want to be the g...

A.   17 November 2010: Thanks a lot for the advice guys, I think I'm going to tell him to tell my friend or I will. Being in the middle of the situation makes me feel really uncomfortable but the only way to get out of it is to resolve it.... (read in full...)

My online friend wants more than a friendship!

Q.   I've been friends with this guy on the internet for over a year and recently we decided to meet up. I thought it would just be as two mates going out but he ended up telling me he loved me and i kissed him. We've been together for 3 months now, and ...

A.   17 November 2010: Thanks a lot for the advice, I was a bit worried about the age gap too to be honest, I've never really dated an older guy before but i think once i got to know him it became less of an issue. If he really cares about me, he'll be willing to wait ... (read in full...)

One week she's ogling over rings the next week she's moving out!

Q.   OK here goes Me n my girlfriend unexpentedly split four weeks ago, she just started crying and said she could not go on like this and left before i had time to even let it sink in. She moved all her stuff out the next day while i was at work and ...

A.   17 November 2010: Hmmm, not really sure what advice i can give you. It's a hard situation to read and the both of you certainly seem confused. I suppose the only thing i can say is that the two of you need to sit down and talk things through. Try and abstain from the ... (read in full...)

Is this a reaction to my birth control?

Q.   ok, not a sex question, cause i am a virgin...but, i started to take birth control a few days ago, and my vagina has been...well...itchy? then this morning i took a look (which is very awkward for me) and noticed that the entrance is white...like ...

A.   17 November 2010: It does sound like some kind of viral yeast infection, I'm not sure how you could have got it, maybe from having an allergy to a new product such as soap or shower gel. ... (read in full...)

Am I involved in some kind of affair?

Q.   I think I may be involved in an online affair. He is 40, I am 18. We have been talking for over a year now on the internet. Our conversations were strictly about things other than sex in the beginning, but now they are mainly about sex. When we ...

A.   17 November 2010: You are. Be clear, if the guy really cared about you, or if the two of you are as close as you think he probably should have told you about some of the feelings he was feeling towards his ex wife. You should stop talking to him completely, think ... (read in full...)

Christmas gift for my older man?

Q.   Okay well I'm usually really good at picking out Christmas gifts for people but I can not figure out what to get my boyfriend. Any ideas would be appreciated. He's 38 by the way. Thank you. :)...

A.   17 November 2010: I'd say something fun but practical, like some personalised tools, or an engraved toolbox.... (read in full...)

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