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His ex wants him back and he is confused!
Q. I started talking with a guy that I met online in May of this year. Things progressed. We met, were very attracted to one another, but live about an hour away from each other. Things continued to progress. He was very romantic and is a writer. ...
A. 13 September 2010: Well honey, theres not much you can do. If you feel that this man is worth it all, then give him some time and space until he figures out what it is that he wants. Sit down and talk to him. Let him know how you really feel. Tell him it bothers and ... (read in full...)
I've never had an orgasm EVER! help!
Q. I just turned 40 this year and have never had an orgasim. Nope, not a virgin and have had two children but I don't want to go on without having ever had had one. Please help! ...
A. 12 September 2010: Well in order for you to have an orgasm your partner has to know your spot, and in order for your partner to know, you have to know. So this may sound a little silly and i hope its not inappropriate but maybe you should test,play with yourself. ... (read in full...)
Do guys compare sex with their lovers?
Q. Silly question I have to ask. Well, do guys tend to compare the sex with different partners... I mean.. having a new girlfriend would they wish she would make love as his ex? And is a virgin more appealing than some woman who has had some experie...
A. 12 September 2010: Well i think that all depends on the person and their way of thinking. Remember though, the past is the past and theirs a good reason why they aren't present today. As for the other question it all depends on the man's likes and dislikes but to be ... (read in full...)
Why does he act as if we never existed?
Q. I was with my boyfriend for three years. We had a beautiful child together and overnight he broke it off. I am so confused one week we were fine he said he loved me i told him i felt him slipping away and he said he loved me and his feeling has not ...
A. 11 September 2010: Well i wanna start off by saying i know how it feels to be a young mother and have all these responsibilities just thrown at you. Trying to please yourself, your child, your partner, your loved ones, etc. And sometimes we tend to lose balance of ... (read in full...)
After two years he contacts me! what would you do??
Q. I met a guy 4yrs ago (I was 18 and he was 20) We started "talking" for a while (3months) getting to know each other. I let him kmow I was/am a virgin waiting for marriage. He said he respected me for that and he was fine with it. For the firs...
A. 11 September 2010: I think you should just forget about the past. Theres nothing wrong in accepting his request. Maybe he just wants to say hi and see how your doing. I dont think you should start jumping into conclusions too fast. Accept his request, see what he ... (read in full...)
Is this a mid life crisis or should I leave my wife for her?
Q. Hi, I have been married to a wonderful woman for 20 years who I still think I love. Back in January I reconnected with an old girlfriend (who is unhappily married) on Facebook. We've been emailing one another and even have met for lunch a couple o...
A. 11 September 2010: First off, you chose your wife for a reason and that was because you were in love and you saw a future. This woman is in your past and its better if you kept it that way. You've been married for quite a long time and its such a beautiful thing but ... (read in full...)
I am having thoughts of having a one night stand! I'm not a cheater! why am I thinking this way?
Q. My boyfriend satisfies me very much in bed but for some stupid reason, I want a one night stand. But, I don't even have anyone in mind! I've only ever slept with my boyfriend and it makes me feel so bad that I think about this! Then, I think I want ...
A. 11 September 2010: To start off, its pretty normal to have sexual thoughts or desires of being with someone else, especially if he's the only person you've ever been with. Maybe your boyfriend does satisfy you but maybe you still need that extra spark, something ... (read in full...)
How soon is too soon to get over someone?
Q. How soon is too soon to get over someone? I *just* got out of my first serious relationship (and we almost made it to our 1 year anniversary). Right now I'm feeling hurt and confused, but I'm wondering how long is it okay to be mopey? And when is it ...
A. 11 September 2010: Well I want to start off by saying im sorry that you are going through such a tough time. I personally know how it feels to be heartbroken, confused, hurt and lost all at the same time. Its ok to feel this way. You just got off of your first serious ... (read in full...)
But I still have feelings for him!
Q. Hi there, Theres this guy I met the other night, he is so good looking, so funny and normally he would be somebody I would fall for completely. He's been messaging me a lot and I think he really likes me. But theres another guy. I used to be...
A. 11 September 2010: Well this is a REAL difficult situation. I believe you just gotta ask yourself, not only who you like but who makes you feel more comfortable? Who can you be yourself around? Although you might feel that you feel the same way for both, theres always ... (read in full...)
He was insecure about his size and I think I have made it worse
Q. Sat here feeling terrible - okay so I met a guy on a dating site three months ago we have been talking every day.Just last week he confided in me that he was embarrassed about the size of his manhood tonight we met and later in the evening we ...
A. 11 September 2010: Well all I can say is that this man had a self-esteem issue way before you even came into the picture. I'm sure you probably tried explaining yourself to him repeatedly that his "MANHOOD" wasn't the case but what more could you possibly do? You ... (read in full...)
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