Block him or fight for him?
Q. I discovered my boyfriend was cheating on me even after he knew my past of being cheated on and how badly hurt I was. I was so surprised because he earned my trust for over a year and a half before we even did anything. I really trusted him because ...
A. 27 September 2013: Honey, if you are waiting for a reason from this jackass, forget about it. He is a manipulative liar who wants to have his cake and eat it too. He cheated on you because he could, plain and simple. He had TWO women on the side, TWO!!! I know some ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with him so why do I think about other men?
Q. I really love the guy I'm with. the mention of his name makes me smile uncontrollably. I smile regardless if I'm telling stories about our arguments or something funny he's done. He's absolutely amazing. we have been together for 3 months but I've ...
A. 27 September 2013: It's totally normal to have thoughts about other people, women, men, whatever. You are human and you have sexual desires. As long as you don't act on it or check out emotionally you are fine. Having little crushes does not mean you don't love him or ... (read in full...)
Having a crush and flirting while in a relationship with someone else!
Q. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend who I DO love from the bottom of my heart. Just thinking about him gets my heart fluttering! I'm always wondering what I can do to make our relationship grow. However, and it's difficult to admit this even ...
A. 13 September 2013: i think having crushes is totally normal and everyone, single or not, has them. what is strange and kinda sketchy to me is the fact that your bf has no clue who this person whose company you enjoy oh so much. When I talk to my bf, about someone in ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is racist! to his own race!
Q. Hi. Today my boyfriend made a comment that really rubbed me the wrong way. We both had a conversation about what our lives would be like if we broke up. And I said I would date of any race because love has no color. However, my boyfriend and I are ...
A. 13 September 2013: i don't understand why you're upset dear. he's obviously dating you. my bf dated 3 girls of his race and they never worked out. so after that he decided, he's not going to date girls of his race. makes perfect sense. It's just preference. I don't ... (read in full...)
Is it ever ok for a married man to take another women out to lunch?
Q. Is it ever ok for a married man to take another women out to lunch? My husband worked with this women but she recently got a different job. Well I just found out tonight that he talked to her online and ask her to have lunch with him sometime so ...
A. 12 September 2013: it is OK for a married man to have lunch with a woman in some cases. it just depends on the context, for example, an old friend, for business, for work related things. Notice how all these things are totally normal and he should have had no problem ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend believes a threesome will bring us closer but I've heard horror stories about them
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for the past year and recently he's asked me about having a threesome. I'm secure with myself and my sexuality. I'm also confident in our relationship. I've just heard alot of horror stories that follow a threesome ...
A. 12 September 2013: if you're totally comfortable with the idea, and not doing this just because of him, go for it. I've heard it's best to make sure it's someone you both don't know. and talk and make it extremely clear what will be done by whom (is having sex with ... (read in full...)
Why did she ask for a break?
Q. i melt this girl in uni two years ago....we love each other,,and so we decided to enter in to a platonic relationship,,initially she resisted it but i didn't rush her.then about two to three weeks later she brought the topic up she said "i accept ...
A. 10 August 2013: wait i'm so confused. if you love each other why the hell would you agree to be in a platonic relationship.....makes no damn sense. ... (read in full...)
What did my husband mean about proposing a new arrangement in our marriage?
Q. We had a conversation with my husband yesterday. things are not going well with us for quite a long time now. And I am a bit puzzled with what he means. Please don't advice me to ask him directly. I know how he is, he ll never tell me anything to ...
A. 10 August 2013: This sounds amazing. It sounds like you both are extremely unhappy with your marriage but you know that divorce is not an option. I think you know exactly what he is suggesting and he does too. Be married legally but divorced in your life. I think ... (read in full...)
Why did he wait for three months to tell me that he needs me? It's just too late now.
Q. Sorry,my story is a bit long.My ex and I broke up three months ago. We had a huge fight before we broke up. He asked for time and space but I didn't give it to him because he was distant(We were in LDR for two years)and the fight was about one of ...
A. 10 August 2013: Good for you. You knew as soon as it happened that the 4 years was just gone. Seems it took him a little longer and now he's realized what he's thrown away for some random girl with a bf. Since you have moved on and have no feelings for this guy ... (read in full...)
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