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writes:i melt this girl in uni two years ago....we love each other,,and so we decided to enter in to a platonic relationship,,initially she resisted it but i didn't rush her.then about two to three weeks later she brought the topic up she said "i accept the platonic relationship if you are still interested"..and i responded with yes am still interested with smiles on my face.and we exchange some sweet words which made her smile in return..that's how it all started..in the course of the relationship she keep telling me that she is not comfortable.i understand as that's her first time in a relationship shes 18yrs and am 21yrs..she have a habit of seeking advise from older female student on how to handle the relationship,,i try to make her understand that she will be comfortable with time and that she have nothing to loss since the relationship is platonic..at the start of it she doesn't call nor text and when i brought it up she said shes not use to that life style after sometime and patient she started calling..to cut it short,,two weeks ago she ask for a break and ever since we haven't contact each other..why does she ask for a break??is it due to her lack of comfort and how can a break solve that..i was thinking she will be comfortable with time..i don't want to be desperate by contacting her and she may not like the idle too..so what should i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2013): I think she is trying to end the relationship, and you're not giving her a chance to do it.
She doesn't want to have sex with you, and if she isn't contacting you; it is to allow you to move on.
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reader, De LuV DOCTOR +, writes (11 August 2013):
De LuV DOCTOR is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the reply WiseOwlE..she have the habit of apologizing at every little thing,,am definitely sure she would turn back to me if i don't contact her and if she does should i ignore her???..
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reader, De LuV DOCTOR +, writes (11 August 2013):
De LuV DOCTOR is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the reply loony89..we decided to start by being platonic..but with time we would go beyond that..don't want to rush into having sex and she once told me that she is still a virgin and would not love to be rushed into anything involving sex..but can that be the reason she asked for a break???
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2013): She broke up with you. People ask for space so they can begin getting over you, and to distance themselves.
If this started by switching to a platonic friendship; it was a sly way to pull away, and not be obligated to have sex with you.
She is younger than you, but she seems to be smarter. Or at least, she got advice from someone to help her to end the relationship without any drama.
My friend, the relationship is over. She just found a sneaky way to get out of it. Her older friend helped her to figure out a way to get away from you. You were being clingy, and she just couldn't figure out what to do.
She doesn't want to be your friend, or your girlfriend. So move on.
Leaver her alone. You haven't lost anything, and she doesn't want to be your friend. She just wants to get away from you.
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reader, loony89  +, writes (10 August 2013):
wait i'm so confused. if you love each other why the hell would you agree to be in a platonic relationship.....makes no damn sense.
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