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My Girlfriend of 5 years sexually flirting with her brother.

Q.   Hello everyone. I am new to this site. I hope you will give me honest advice. Last year I found an ICQ message from my girlfriend to her brother making a comment that said "thats because your so good at sex". How would she know that? I did not tell ...

A.   15 September 2009: I don't see a problem here. It just reads like a brother and sister who are comfortable with each other. And it is perfectly normal for brothers to be unfriendly to their sister's boyfriend. That's called "doing your job." :)... (read in full...)

Should I end my marriage?

Q.   hi! i posted this in another site and didn't realy get any help so i thought i'd try here. Okay, my hubby and I have been together for 4yrs. married for 2. We have an 8mo. old baby. In the beginning, things were pretty good, we waited about a month ...

A.   15 September 2009: Good marriages need space for alone time and space for together time. It's especially hard after the babies come to get these things. Insist on making that time happen on at least a weekly basis, if not a daily one. Make sure that you are gett... (read in full...)

Should I get outside my marriage what my husband won't give?

Q.   I am 30 years old and am married to a 38 year old truck driver. We have been for 3 years, my husband is not the type that tells me he loves me and he can go without sex with me for weeks. He does not pay any attention to me even after he has been ...

A.   15 September 2009: Encourage your man to get checked for low testosterone. He's at risk for it with his career choice, especially if he is overweight or diabetic. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Am I asking too much - a blowjob whilst driving?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have benn married for 20 years, 2 great kids. I love my wife very much, but I want more when it comes to sex and foreplay. When it comes to iniating sex, it is always me who iniates, and I feel like when we do have sometype of sex,...

A.   14 September 2009: The other respondents are focusing on the casual fantasies you articulated. But in reading the entirety of your message, it sounds to me like you really just want more intimacy in your marriage. In that respect, no, I don't think it's too much to ... (read in full...)

Where did my loving wife go, this lady is crazy!

Q.   Ok I love my wife very much but now she is second guessing me. Ever since we had a baby, 5 months old, she has gotten really angry with me and sometimes goes crazy. I do the best I can to hold my temper but she says such hateful things I have no ...

A.   10 September 2009: My wife had severe postpartum depression after the birth of our first child. She got treatment and things improved for a while. A few years ago she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. A couple of things I have learned about how to deal with this: ... (read in full...)

She only has sex with me to "get it over with". I want to express my love for her, what can I do?

Q.   I've been with my wife since I was 18, for 20 years. I still can't figure out how to relate to her. She wants sex about once a month, maybe less. I want sex every day. The only time it is rewarding for me is if she enjoys it and wants to be ther...

A.   6 September 2009: Thanks for your reply. Four years ago she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. The medication she's on has a negative effect on sex drive and makes it harder to achieve orgasm. She discussed this with her doctor who told her that she could try some ... (read in full...)

Why do men look or stare and do not say anything?

Q.   Sometimes I am on the street or out with other people and men just look or stare and dont say anything to me, I am wondering if this is normal behavior, they must just like to see all of the goodness. Anyone and everyone who got good responses help ...

A.   15 August 2009: I do this all the time, and I hate myself for it. I'm intimidated by beautiful women. Sometimes they'll start conversations with me, then everything is fine and we can have a normal conversation. But I have a really hard time breaking the ice. ... (read in full...)

My husband seems to have taken a vacation from work just to sit around all day eating and watching porn!

Q.   My husband has taken 6 weeks off work. Nothing odd about that you may think, after all we all have to have a holiday, don't we? Well, it's his behaviour that's worrying me. He just sits in front of the television eating nachos, corn c...

A.   15 August 2009: I don't know, that sounds pretty relaxing to me. Does the vacation have a defined end? If it does - situation normal. If not you might want to sit down with him and work out a plan. Good luck, don't panic!... (read in full...)

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